Can you remember going to an offsite meeting that was filled with high expectations of lively discussions and important breakthroughs, only to discover the agenda was a mess? The schedule was entirely filled with tons of talking and there were no moments set aside for thinking, preparation, or resolutions? In this week’s episode, I suggest semi-silent offsite meetings as a distinctive way to provide vibrant time to converge in conversation together, as well as time to diverge in quiet alone to process, prepare, rest, and reflect. 

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Many professionals communicate daily without thinking very much about what they are going to say or write before they do it. Though there are many reasons why this seems acceptable, it isn’t. People proudly wear a badge of busyness, frequently communicate off–the–cuff, and create havoc along the way. In this episode, I provide three scenarios where professionals might think this will fly (there are many more, of course) and provide suggestions about how to avoid crashing and burning.  

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In this episode, I dive deep into the song “Trouble” by Coldplay to explore the connection between thinking, talking, and doing. I discuss how the song inspired me to help you avoid a web of confusion when these three elements are out of order. I share my motto and mantra of “think first, then talk, then do.” I underscore the critical relationship between clear thinking, concise communication, and confident action.

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Talkative teachers turn learning into a painful chore. In this episode, I discuss the problem of instructors talking far too much and offer a few insights on how to create a more effective and engaging learning experience through trimming. The key is to see instruction more like facilitation delivered through personal conversations and practical experiences, not long lectures. I share a “SEED” method I’ve developed in our BELT courses to balance instructor and participant involvement. Join us as we explore the philosophy of “less is more” in teaching.

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Everyone acts like they’re waiting on standby for the next emergency call. In this episode, I discuss the importance of being able to disconnect and have uninterrupted quiet time. By challenging our belief that everything is urgent and important, and nothing can wait, I revisit the Eisenhower Principle and Stephen Covey’s quadrant to help us prioritize and define what is actually urgent and important. I offer practical tips for setting boundaries and saying “no, not now” more often.

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Welcome to this week’s podcast, where we explore the value of silence and intentional communication. As your host, I share seven sayings on the power of silence and how it can enhance our professional lives. Join me as we discuss historical and noteworthy perspectives on the challenges, benefits, and practical strategies to incorporate quiet moments into our daily routines. Don’t miss out on this insightful conversation that will inspire you to embrace the power of silence.

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Join me in this episode as we explore the “fog of work” and its effects on our productivity. Leveraging some military insights from Carl von Clausewitz’s classic book “On War,” I will have some practical tips to cut through the clutter and communicate effectively in a busy workplace. Learn the power of silence and deliberate thinking and how it can help us prioritize tasks and make clear decisions. Uncover the secrets to escaping the fog and achieving clarity.

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In this episode, join me as I discuss why people are so reluctant to embrace quiet, especially during the day.  Drawing on my expertise as a professional, entrepreneur, and author, I explore ten reasons behind this resistance and shed some light on the importance of embracing silence. Discover how incorporating moments of quiet can enhance your impact, clarity, and focus in the workplace.

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In this week’s episode, I discuss how people often confuse hoping for understanding with actually knowing if their message was received. I provide three key steps to ensure effective communication: making a clear and simple point, asking for feedback or playback from the audience, and connecting the message to what matters to them.

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In this week’s episode, I discuss the importance of making time for people in our busy lives and emphasize the significance of intentional communication.  I discuss the value of being a good listener and the impact of regular conversations with coworkers, friends, and family. Join me as I share my personal experiences and provide practical tips on how we can prioritize people in our lives without sacrificing clarity and brevity.

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