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In this episode, you’ll hear a story that holds deep loss, raw honesty, unexpected pivots, and the powerful role community plays in our healing. Grace Wanjiku, shares her incredible journey, from sacrificing her education as a firstborn, to navigating grief after losing her brother, to reaching a breaking point with depression that almost cost her life. Through it all, Grace’s story reminds us that healing isn’t linear and sometimes, it’s the very people we think we’re meant to save who end up saving us.

In this episode, Grace unpacks:

• Being the firstborn and carrying unspoken expectations
• Losing her brother and spiraling into a faith crisis
• Attempting suicide and finding help in the nick of time
• The stigma around mental health and resisting hospitalization
• Discovering purpose again as an MC in a male-dominated space
• How community, therapy, and spiritual honesty carried her through

This story will stay with you. It’s a reminder that even in our darkest seasons, hope and healing can still find us.

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In this deeply affirming episode of For Mannerless Women, Adelle Onyango sits with board-certified psychiatrist Dr. Vundi, known as The Women’s Psychiatrist, to unpack how our hormonal phases shape our mental health.

Together, they dismantle the shame, silence, and stigma around PMS, PMDD, postpartum depression, perimenopause, and more. Dr. Vundi brings her powerful combination of lived experience and clinical knowledge to offer practical insights for navigating womanhood with grace, information, and community. Whether you're menstruating, postpartum, perimenopausal, or simply tired of being told to “tough it out,” this conversation is your language, your mirror, and your toolkit.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

– Cycle syncing & targeted self-care
– Nutrition tips for hormone balance
– Magnesium, Vitamin D & sleep
– Mental health support for PMS & PMDD
– Perimenopause, menopause, & sexual wellness
– Community, self-trust, and dismantling shame

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In this episode, Adelle Onyango, unpacks what it truly means to decenter men. She reflects on how this journey began in the quiet spaces of therapy and not with a bold Instagram caption and how she continues unlearning societal conditioning that told her she needed to be chosen to be worthy.

If you’ve ever caught yourself performing for approval, living for someone else’s gaze, or shrinking your voice to fit in, this episode is your reminder: you were never meant to be someone’s accessory, you were meant to be whole.

She also shares practical steps to begin your own decentering journey and the simple but radical ways she's reclaiming herself, from trusting her intuition to laughing without apology.

Tap in and share this with another woman who is choosing herself.

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In this deeply raw and inspiring episode, we head to Rongai to hear from Tito Karis, a former campus radio star who shares his unexpected journey from multimedia university and a passion for radio to becoming a matatu conductor. He opens up about:

• The brutal realities of chasing a dream without financial stability
• The shame and strength of redefining success on his own terms
• How ambition can blind you—and still be the thing that saves you
• And why, despite it all, he still believes he will do radio again 

This story is not just about Tito. It’s about every African dreamer navigating shame, survival and self-worth in a system that often makes you feel invisible. It’s tender, powerful, and absolutely necessary.

After listening, tell us: What part of Tito’s story did you connect with most?
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In this episode of For Mannerless Women, Adelle Onyango sits down with Mary, her first friend in Limuru and one of the most inspiring women she’s had the joy to learn from.

At 60, Mary returned to Kenya after decades abroad and chose to begin again. With no farming background and plenty of doubt, she used YouTube and sheer curiosity to learn banana farming and today, she runs a thriving farm and produce shop.

Mary shares powerful reflections on aging, friendship, financial independence, health, and embracing change at any stage of life. She speaks honestly about the fears that come with starting over and why doing it afraid is still better than doing nothing at all.

This episode is a celebration of women who dare to redesign their lives, no matter their age.

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In this episode Adelle shares 5 reflections that have stayed with her since her conversation with Felgonah on For Mannerless Women. They spoke about self-trust, softness as resistance, sacred grief, and becoming a woman who no longer asks for permission.

But this episode isn’t just about her story, it’s about what her courage awakened in Adelle. If you're navigating your own unlearning… if you're questioning the rules you were raised with… this is for you.

In this episode, Adelle reflects on:

• Why shame is not a requirement for womanhood
• What it means to choose softness in a hard world
• How self-expression becomes an act of resistance
• Why grief can be sacred and necessary
• How mannerlessness is actually a return to self

🎧 Listen, feel, and share with a woman who’s on the journey of becoming.

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In this powerful episode of Legally Clueless, Wairimu, who takes us on her journey of discovery, unlocking that her brain works differently than she was taught to believe. In Part 2 of her story, she unpacks visiting a therapist, pschiatrist and what coping tools work for her

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Your voice matters. Your story matters.

Welcome back to For Mannerless Women, the podcast creating a bold, shame-free space for African women to meet their most free selves. 

In this deeply vulnerable episode, Adelle sits down with counseling psychologist Daisy Kindi to unpack how childhood trauma still whispers in our adult relationships, from who we’re drawn to, to how we react in love. They explore:

• What really qualifies as childhood trauma in African homes
• Why your inner child might be running the show in your relationships
• The hidden ways trauma shapes attachment styles
• Firstborn daughters, survival personalities & the invisible labor of African girls
• The healing journey: shadow work, boundaries, and reclaiming your story

Whether you’re in therapy, considering it, or just beginning to question old patterns, this is your sign to start unlearning with us.
💛 You're not broken. You're just remembering what you deserve. 
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In this episode, Adelle shares a deeply personal milestone — 1 year of sobriety.
No dramatic rock bottom. No intervention. Just a conscious decision to start honouring her body by removing what no longer served her — alcohol.
She opens up about:

• Why she decided to quit drinking
• The unexpected shifts she’s experienced in her body, mind, and relationships
• Her biggest lessons from this year of clarity and emotional honesty
• Practical tips for anyone considering a sober or sober-curious lifestyle

This isn’t a preachy episode. It’s a real conversation about choosing yourself, rewriting your story, and listening to your body.
Whether you’re sober, sober-curious, or just exploring new ways of healing — this one’s for you.
💛 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• Self-check-in prompts for your relationship with alcohol
• Easy swaps for social rituals (without alcohol)
• Supportive tools + reminders if you're starting a sobriety journey

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What’s your story with sobriety or conscious living?
DM Adelle on Instagram or reply to the newsletter and share your experience.
You’re not alone in this. 

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In this powerful episode of Legally Clueless, Adelle shares her raw and emotional experience at the June 25th protests in Kenya, a moment that reminded her of the urgency of using our voices, the strength of collective resistance, and the humanity behind the headlines. 

Also in this episode, we meet Wairimu, who takes us on the beginning of her journey of discovery, unlocking that her brain works differently than she was taught to believe. In Part 1 of her story, she unpacks what it felt like to live in a world that doesn’t accommodate neurodivergence, the doubts she internalized, and what finally led to her self-awareness. ✨ Tune in for:

• A ground-level, personal view of the #RejectFinanceBill protests
• How trauma and resilience live side by side in resistance spaces
• Wairimu’s deeply moving story of reflection, misdiagnosis, and rediscovery

This is a reminder that our stories — whether shouted in the streets or whispered in therapy rooms — are valid, urgent, and deserve to be heard.

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