We're entering into the holidays of Thanksgiving, Christmas, Qwanza, Hanukkah and many other holiday celebrations. It's a time when society makes you feel like being alone and loving yourself and enjoying self time is weird and wrong. Don't fall for it.. It's a beautiful thing, when you choose yourself and your peace, over chaos, drama and confusion. You might be tempted or persuaded to compromise on your, "No's." Don't give in. Trust your gut and stick to the boundaries that hopefully you have in place. You just might save your life! You will definitely protect your peace and sanity!