In this transformative episode, we have Jeff Wetzler, the author of "Ask: Tap Into the Hidden Wisdom of People Around You for Unexpected Breakthroughs In Leadership and Life" unpack the profound power of curiosity and the art of asking the right questions. Drawing from personal experiences, groundbreaking research, and insights from thought leaders, Jeff reveals why most of us fail to tap into the wisdom of those around us—and how that’s holding us back in life and work.

Discover the one question that can unlock deeper connections, better decisions, and groundbreaking innovation. Learn how to listen like a leader, ask questions that inspire truth, and use curiosity to turn even your strongest emotions into opportunities for growth. This is the ultimate guide to transforming how you communicate, lead, and live.

It’s time to ask better, listen harder, and learn more.

Cindy Carrillo, author of Finding Your Nxt, discusses the importance of embracing change and finding your next phase in life. She shares quotes that inspire her and emphasizes the need to be intentional about setting goals and making changes. Cindy also addresses common blockers to change, such as fear of the unknown, fear of failure, and the willingness to settle. She encourages people to break free from financial constraints and take small steps towards living a life they truly want. Cindy's book and coaching programs provide guidance and support in finding your next.

In this powerful conclusion to our three-part series with Topaz Adizes, we explore his conversation-transforming new book, The 12 Questions for Love. Drawing from over 1,200 filmed conversations for {THE AND} project, Topaz distills years of insights into a practical guide for cultivating meaningful, well-constructed dialogues. This book serves as a blueprint for creating safe spaces that encourage vulnerability, authenticity, and deeper connections.

In this episode, Topaz highlights the critical role of reflection and the art of asking the right questions to elicit profound responses. He shares his vision for how these practices can positively impact relationships and inspire greater connection in our lives. If you’ve ever wondered how to build stronger relationships or elevate the quality of your conversations, this discussion is filled with actionable wisdom and inspiration.

Quotes from this episode:

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”

― Carl Gustav Jung

Key Takeaways:

A guide to meaningful conversations:The 12 Questions for Love provides tools for creating safe spaces that foster vulnerability and exploration.

The power of reflection: Thoughtful reflection and asking the right questions are essential for building meaningful connections.

Quality relationships start with quality conversations: Deep and impactful dialogues enhance the overall quality of life.

Safe spaces and boundaries matter: Establishing a safe environment with clear boundaries is crucial for successful conversations.

Love is an act and a practice: It goes beyond emotion and requires intentional effort and care.

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In this continuation of last week’s conversation, Karel and Paige welcome back Topaz Adizes to the Life Habits Podcast. Together, they delve into themes of shared humanity, the profound impact of social media on communication, and the vital role of empathy in meaningful conversations. They explore strategies for navigating vulnerability in relationships, crafting thought-provoking questions, and creating safe spaces that foster understanding and connection. Discover the importance of active listening and the transformative potential of thoughtful dialogue. This conversation sheds light on bridging divides and fostering connection, especially in today’s polarized society.

Quotes from this Episode:
“When you accept love, you are also accepting pain.” — Avery to Kennedy {THE AND}

“Something about you reminds me of being human, the most beautiful parts of being human.” — Gabrielle to Luna {THE AND}

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Key Takeaways:

Humanity thrives in connection: It’s found in the connections between us, not solely within us.

Empowering questions shape conversations: Asking thoughtful questions leads to more constructive dialogues.

Vulnerability deepens relationships: It’s an essential component for creating meaningful connections.

Social media’s impact: While it connects us, it often amplifies division rather than fostering understanding.

Empathy requires discomfort: Practicing empathy involves listening to opposing views and sitting in discomfort.

Safe spaces are crucial: Open and honest dialogue depends on creating spaces where people feel safe to share.

Questions as gifts: Frame questions without an agenda to foster genuine curiosity and connection.

We are not our ideas: Recognizing this allows our ideas to evolve and grow over time.

Understanding perspectives: Effective communication requires acknowledging and respecting different viewpoints.

Transformative power of questions: Changing the questions we ask can lead to profound and meaningful conversations.

In this episode, Karel and Paige interview Emmy award-winning writer, director, and experience design architect, Topaz Adizes, founder of The Skin Deep. This is the first part of a two-part series where they explore Topaz’s journey, the powerful role of questions in fostering vulnerable and authentic conversations, and the creation of meaningful human connections. Topaz shares insights on the importance of constructing thoughtful questions and creating safe spaces to encourage openness, drawing from his work with The Skin Deep and the “And” Project. He emphasizes that true connection comes from asking questions that invite self-reflection and empathy, offering listeners valuable perspectives on nurturing deeper relationships.

In this episode, Karel builds on the previous episodes which focused on dealing with job loss, being effective at getting a job, and designing and marking yourself. He now focuses on "future-proofing your career." Karel shares practical strategies for career development, including using strategic foresighting to anticipate industry trends, creating an "aspirational resume" to set goals, and performing "premortems" to avoid potential pitfalls. He also introduces the concept of "career workouts," encouraging listeners to approach career advancement as they would physical fitness—with regular, structured efforts, tracking progress through a career journal, and conducting "career checkups" with mentors. Drawing on quotes from notable figures like Wayne Gretzky and Mahatma Gandhi, Karel underscores the importance of proactive, goal-oriented habits in building a resilient, fulfilling career.

In this episode, Karel continues the focus on those who are looking to further improve themselves to get a new or better job, or a new partner, or just to make themselves the best version of themselves that they can be. He starts be asking “What do companies do when they want to improve their products and services?” They use design and design methods. And “What do they do to sell those products and services?” They use marketing and marketing methods. Karel then reprises edited versions of two of the most popular episodes of the entire podcast series focussed on using design and marketing methods to improve the product, you!

In this episode, Karel discusses the current state of gender equality, reflecting on the progress made and, importantly, the challenges that remain. He emphasizes the importance of individual actions in promoting gender equality and shares practical advice for everyone. The episode also includes a edited reprised previous episode on gender equality, reviewing skills and habits that you can adopt individually to make a difference.

In this episode, Karel and Google UX Director Javier Bargas discuss the challenges and strategies associated with job loss and the job search process. They emphasize the importance of self-care, understanding the current job market dynamics, and building effective job search routines. Javier shares insights on preparing application materials, networking, and navigating the interview process, while also addressing the emotional impact of job loss and the need for resilience. The discussion concludes with encouragement to leverage volunteer work for experience and to maintain a positive outlook during challenging times.

In this episode, we dive into the powerful principles from Seven Rules of Self-Reliance, the brand-new book by renowned author and communications expert, Maha Abouelenein. Fresh off the book’s release, Maha shares actionable insights on how self-reliance can be the key to unlocking personal and professional success. Discover how to stay focused, build a resilient mindset, and navigate obstacles with confidence. Maha also explores the critical role of reputation and relationship-building, offering practical advice on authenticity, patience, and knowing when to ask for help. Whether you’re looking to transform your career or strengthen your personal growth, Maha’s wisdom will inspire you to craft a life-changing narrative. Don’t miss this conversation—it’s packed with strategies to help you believe in yourself and take charge of your future.

Quotes from this episode:

"Stay low, keep moving"

“Your brand is what people say about you when you’re not in the room.” — Jeff Bezos

"Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever." — Mahatma Gandhi

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Key Takeaways:

Invest in Yourself: Self-reliance starts with building your own skills and being resourceful.

Overcome Challenges by Creating Value: Focus on helping others, even when faced with obstacles.

Build Authentic Relationships: Genuine networking leads to deeper, more meaningful connections.

Patience Fuels Success: Personal growth and long-term success require perseverance.

Reputation Matters: How you treat others is the foundation of your personal and professional reputation.

Stay Adaptable Through Learning: Continuous learning strengthens resilience and adaptability.

Leverage Self-Awareness: Know where you need help and where you excel to grow effectively.

Create Your Own Opportunities: Don’t wait—actively pursue and create the opportunities you seek.

Small Steps Matter: Every action toward your goals brings you closer to success.

Your Story Shapes Your Reality: The most important narrative is the one you believe about yourself.