What if the gap in your financial security isn’t your income or your discipline, but the fact that nobody ever taught you to speak money with confidence?

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Nicole Lorch, President and COO at First Internet Bank, to launch a new series focused on money, influence, and leadership. Together, they explore why so many capable, high-performing women still feel uncertain when it comes to financial decisions. Nicole shares how childhood money patterns shape adult instincts, why saving without intention can stall long-term growth, and how influence is what ultimately creates meaningful impact.

The conversation moves from mindset to action, covering practical starting points like building a rainy-day fund, contributing early to retirement accounts, and creating transparency inside the home. Nicole also offers insight into raising money-smart teens and helping families shift from secrecy or tension around finances to shared goals and trust. This episode reframes money as a tool: one that expands leadership, resilience, and opportunity when women become fluent in how it works.

What You’ll Learn:

• A simple, accessible starting point to make your savings work harder
• A healthier framework for talking about money at home without tension
• A clearer understanding of how financial fluency expands your influence

Ready to Put Your Money to Work? Learn More About First Internet Bank Here: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/First-Internet-Bank 

For more from Nicole, check out this link:

• LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-lorch/ 

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Ready to build your own Life of And? Explore the program: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/Life-of-And-Program

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(00:53) Money confidence as influence

(04:39) Childhood money scripts: saving vs. leverage

(07:29) High-yield savings as a starting point

(11:46) Influence over power in leadership

(20:44) Ambition and caregiving in tension

(22:01) Banking without branches

(24:30) Teaching teens to earn and manage money

(26:54) Practicing priorities with limited funds

(29:26) Rainy-day funds and family transparency

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• Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

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Are you too busy reacting to what’s coming instead of proactively planning?

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany Sauder dives into the importance of proactive planning to manage the chaos of daily life. She shares how she sets aside time each week to organize her family and work commitments through two essential meetings: the planning meeting and the family meeting. Tiffany explains how these meetings, scheduled on her calendar, help her prepare for the week ahead, ensuring she stays on top of her responsibilities without becoming overwhelmed.

She discusses how setting clear expectations for her family eliminates surprises and helps everyone feel more in control, especially during busy seasons. Tiffany also highlights her “no same day solving” rule, which prevents last-minute stress and allows her to manage requests from her family in a calm, organized way. By the end of the episode, Tiffany provides a simple framework for setting up your own planning and family meetings, giving you tools to stay ahead, minimize surprises, and create a smoother, more intentional week.

You’ll walk away with a framework to:

• Implement weekly planning and family meetings for smoother days
• Set clear expectations and eliminate surprises for your family
• Protect your time and energy by being proactive instead of reactive
• Create a predictable and organized week with intentional decisions

Download the Family Meeting Agenda here

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Ready to build your own Life of And? Explore the program: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/Life-of-And-Program

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(00:23) The two meetings that will save your sanity

(01:14) The weekly planning meeting

(02:41) Meal planning and the 45-minute time swap

(04:29) The 6-week family meeting challenge

(04:32) The Sunday agenda and running the meeting together

(04:53) Setting boundaries and planning ahead

(05:58) Proactivity in two questions

(06:53) Expectation-setting for the week

(09:08) What can be promised by implementing meetings

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What if the real problem isn’t that you don’t know what to do, but it’s that you’re too depleted to trust what you already know?

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with longtime mentor and monthly conversation partner Brian Kavicky of Lushin to unpack decision fatigue and the sneaky way it chips away at self-trust for high-performing women carrying a heavy load. Tiffany shares two vulnerable stories from a season where life felt like too much: realizing her marriage wasn’t what she’d been pretending it was, and a holiday moment where overwhelm pushed her into making an irrational “middle-of-the-night Christmas lights” decision.

Together, Tiffany and Brian name what’s really happening in these seasons: the tyranny of the urgent, the “racket” of overwhelm that can reward overfunctioning, and the avoidance loop that keeps big decisions buried under small tasks. Brian reframes self-trust as what happens after a decision: the ability to stand by your choice without rewriting it the moment discomfort or pushback shows up. They also talk through how feedback loops can train leaders to doubt themselves, and why this struggle is often a sign you’re a high-capacity performer, not someone who’s failing.

You’ll walk away with a framework to:

• Recognize the early indicators that you’re slipping into overwhelm
• Separate urgent noise from what actually matters
• Borrow objectivity when your brain can’t sequence next steps
• Protect your decisions from pushback-driven second-guessing

Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. 

For more from Tiffany:

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Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 

Ready to build your own Life of And? Explore the program: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/Life-of-And-Program

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(00:59) How decision fatigue quietly chips at confidence

(02:05) What self-trust really is after you choose

(03:51) Two raw stories when self-trust felt fragile

(09:01) The tyranny of the urgent and irrational choices

(10:31) The pause that resets your brain back to priorities

(14:33) When overwhelm becomes a racket with a payoff

(20:04) Avoiding the hard thing with busywork and relief

(22:26) How pushback trains leaders to doubt themselves

(26:52) Borrowing objectivity and using your support network

Check out the apps and sponsor of this episode: 

• This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.
• Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

Learn more about First Internet Bank: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/First-Internet-Bank

In this special episode of Life of And, we’re featuring a powerful conversation from The Edge podcast, hosted by Courtney Montfort, where Tiffany Sauder joins her to explore the challenges of balancing career, family, and personal growth. Together, they discuss how fear and self-doubt can hold us back from achieving our goals, especially when life feels overwhelming.

Drawing from their own personal experiences, Tiffany and Courtney share how they overcame the barriers of stress and burnout. They dive into why trusting the process and taking the first step, even when it’s uncomfortable, can help us move past fear. They also explore how defining clear priorities and focusing on the “minimums” can help you keep moving forward, even in the busiest seasons of life.

What You’ll Learn:

• How to stop letting fear dictate your decisions
• The value of setting clear priorities to create balance
• Why trusting the process is key to sustaining growth in 2026

For more from Tiffany:

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 

Ready to build your own Life of And? Explore the program: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/Life-of-And-Program 

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:34) Courtney’s experience with Life of And

(06:27) Tiffany’s struggles and personal journey

(11:04) Balancing career, family, and priorities

(16:17) Practical tips for managing life’s demands

(20:16) Navigating family responsibilities and dynamics

(23:20) How to implement family meetings

(24:04) Organizing family weekly planning sessions

(29:09) Setting minimums for consistent success

(35:31) Communicating your needs to family

(37:36) The role of mothers in the family

(42:23) Rapid-fire tips and personal insights

Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

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As we get into 2026, Tiffany reflects on how often we look at things from afar, whether it’s a dream career, a healthy lifestyle, or personal growth, and think, “I like how it looks, but I’m scared to do it.” In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany explores how fear and self-doubt can prevent us from achieving our goals, and why it’s important to move past these mental barriers.

Through a powerful story involving her youngest daughter learning to ride a bike, Tiffany shares insights on how we often face the same threshold moments in life. She explains how we need to trust the process, push through fear, and take that first step, even when we are not sure of the outcome. She also touches on how to regain momentum when you feel like you are stuck in a cycle of inaction and how prioritizing our goals can be the key to breaking free from it.

What You’ll Learn:

• How to identify and confront the fear holding you back
• The importance of trusting the process and taking that first step
• Why redefining priorities can help you make progress in 2026

For more from Tiffany:

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(02:11) A 5-year-old’s fear and insight

(03:43) Training wheels as a life metaphor

(05:12) Trust before you have proof

(09:21) Reframing fear: “How do I do it?”

(11:13) An invitation to go further

Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

Learn more about First Internet Bank: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/First-Internet-Bank

What if the thing holding you back isn’t clarity, confidence, or capability, but whether you trust yourself enough to decide?

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with longtime mentor and monthly conversation partner Brian Kavicky of Lushin to explore the quiet moment where bold vision often stalls: the moment of decision. It’s the space between knowing what you want and choosing it. When certainty fades, the stakes feel real, and your choice may affect others. Tiffany reflects on stepping away from a role she had mastered and what it’s been like to rebuild belief while leading something new without guaranteed outcomes.

Together, Tiffany and Brian examine why capable, high-performing leaders hesitate even when the vision is clear. They discuss how outside feedback and “reasonable” caution can erode self-trust, and why waiting for proof keeps leaders stuck in incremental thinking. Brian offers a different path: decide first, trust your history, and stay committed even when discomfort and doubt show up.

You’ll walk away with a framework to:

• Recognize when you’re outsourcing belief instead of owning it
• Separate helpful data from fear-based feedback
• Decide before the path is fully visible
• Stay committed when growth creates friction for you and others

Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. 

For more from Tiffany:

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Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 

Mentioned in this episode:

• 290: How to Set Goals That Scare You (and Actually Hit Them)

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:19) Self-trust as the real leadership skill

(02:18) Three questions to surface hesitation

(05:13) “What if I’m wrong?” and ignoring your history

(07:18) Outsourcing belief to other people

(10:55) When teams slow down big vision

(15:21) Stop negotiating your goals

(20:52) Discomfort means it matters

(22:36) Negative feedback can be a good sign

Check out the apps and sponsor of this episode: 

• This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.
• Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

Learn more about First Internet Bank: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/First-Internet-Bank

When you feel the constant pull of other people’s priorities, it can be hard to carve out time for your own goals, leaving you feeling stuck in a cycle of exhaustion and unfulfilled potential. As we kick off 2026, Tiffany reflects on the importance of clarity in setting priorities, especially in a world that constantly demands more of us.

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares how undefined priorities can cause burnout, how shifting from being available all the time to protecting your time can create lasting change, and how setting clear boundaries helps women take control of their time, energy, and goals. Through practical insights, personal stories, and the power of “and,” Tiffany shares how you can stop living reactively and start building a life aligned with your true priorities.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why undefined priorities lead to burnout and how to break free from the cycle of exhaustion
• How protecting your time and setting clear boundaries can help you build a sustainable life
• The power of “and” in balancing ambition and generosity, growth and service, progress and presence

For more from Tiffany:

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(00:47) Welcome to 2026: Reflecting on changes

(02:28) The importance of time management

(06:35) Defining goals and priorities

(10:52) The cost of undefined priorities

(15:13) Balancing service and self-care

(18:54)  Setting boundaries and communicating priorities

(24:32) Redesigning systems for work-life balance

(33:12) Q&A: Navigating priorities and boundaries

(45:05) Encouragement for new year

Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

Learn more about First Internet Bank: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/First-Internet-Bank

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Logan Montague, an entrepreneur, coach, and founder of marketing agency Your Marketing BFF’s, to discuss the journey from burnout to balance. Logan shares her story of starting an agency at 25 and the challenges she faced as it grew. She discusses her decision to scale back after feeling overwhelmed and how she’s now building a life that aligns with her personal values.

They explore the messy middle of business growth, the importance of setting boundaries, and how to balance ambition with self-care. Logan talks about her transition to a more sustainable freelance lifestyle and the lessons she’s learned about maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Tiffany reflects on her own growth, helping Logan clarify his next steps while honoring her need for both personal and professional fulfillment.

What You’ll Learn:

• How to identify and overcome limiting beliefs that hold you back from growth
• Why scaling your business too quickly can lead to burnout and what to do about it
• The importance of defining personal and professional boundaries to achieve long-term success

If you’re interested in working with Logan, check out this link:

• Your Marketing BFF’s: www.yourmarketingbffs.com

For more from Tiffany:

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:27) Meet Logan: marketing agency founder

(03:58) Burnout and challenges from scaling too quickly

(04:46) Scaling back to find work-life balance

(06:45) Personal growth during business transitions

(13:57) Logan shares strategies for time management

(22:09) How Logan plans and prioritizes her time

(26:52) Navigating special projects and overcoming distractions

(29:15) Balancing business growth with personal life

(30:20) Staying disciplined with personal and professional goals

(30:44) Using business principles for personal life balance

(32:40) Life changes affecting priorities and business growth

(35:09) Setting foundations for future success

(35:44) Logan’s transition to professional growth and coaching

(38:36) Defining goals and setting boundaries for success

(49:17) Pricing strategies for business growth

(50:34) Implementing systems to manage boundaries and time

Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

Learn more about First Internet Bank: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/First-Internet-Bank

When you are building a career, raising a family, and carrying the weight of constant opportunity, it can feel like you are moving fast without a clear line of sight, especially as one year closes and another begins.

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany and Sam reflect on 2025 and look ahead to 2026, unpacking the tension women feel between unprecedented opportunity and profound exhaustion. They explore why burnout has become so common for working women, how cultural expectations and outdated systems contribute to it, and what it actually takes to build a sustainable life that grows alongside your ambition. Through personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and a clear framework for boundaries, priorities, and leadership, Tiffany shares how women can stop brute-forcing life and start building a life with clarity, intention, and hope.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why women experience burnout at the height of opportunity and how we got here culturally over the last 40 years
• How outdated systems and invisible domestic labor create exhaustion even when careers are thriving
• Why boundaries must be defined alongside goals to build a sustainable life

For more from Tiffany:

Check out Tiffany’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:38) The tension facing modern working women

(02:57) Lessons learned from testing in 2025

(07:03) Podcast rebrand and audience growth milestones

(13:07) Corporate partnerships and executive retreats explained

(21:02) Personal transitions shaping leadership decisions

(22:21) Defining boundaries alongside ambitious goals

(23:13) Choosing family presence without losing ambition

(25:24) Why self-prioritization is personal responsibility

(27:20) Tracing forty years of women’s progress

(30:41) Cultural expectations fueling burnout and guilt

(34:28) Technology changed work, but not expectations

(37:20) Outsourcing ordinary tasks to regain capacity

(41:56) Scaling the Life of And framework

(45:02) Gratitude for the Life of And community

Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

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What if the limits you’re carrying into next year are actually just leftovers from last year?

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with monthly mentor and longtime partner Brian Kavicky of Lushin to dig into the mindset traps that keep leaders stuck, especially the belief that the future must be an incremental extension of the past. Together, they explore why small, “reasonable” goals drain energy, how setting massive goals forces clarity, and what to do in the uncomfortable space where you still don’t know how you’ll achieve them.

They also break down the difference between momentum and real data, why experimentation is essential in seasons of growth, and how to avoid confusing positive feedback with actual market traction. Tiffany shares the behind-the-scenes details of her testing process as she builds Life of And, including the experiments that are working, those that aren’t yet, and what she’s learning from early conversations with companies and ERGs.

You’ll walk away with a framework to:

• Use experimentation to validate ideas and accelerate learning
• Build a healthy sales culture that centers on solving real problems
• Shift from founder-dependent revenue to team-powered growth
• Identify when to let go so your team can scale what you started

Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. 

For more from Tiffany:

Check out Tiffany’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 

Mentioned in this episode:

• 286: Why You Need To Stop Apologizing
• 290: How to Set Goals That Scare You (and Actually Hit Them)

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(02:28) Incremental vs. massive goals

(04:19) Exploring big goals

(10:10) Setting and testing hypotheses

(11:12) Experimentation and data collection

(16:37) Leveraging speaking engagements

(18:49) Setting priorities and testing pro forma

(20:14) Understanding market feedback and inventor syndrome

(23:23) Rebuilding sales culture at Element Three

(25:18) Defining and building a sales culture

(33:16) Scaling revenue and leadership development

Check out the apps and sponsor of this episode:

• This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.
• Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

Learn more about First Internet Bank: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/First-Internet-Bank