Out Late With David

Mark D’Agostino: I’m Not Starting Over, I’m Becoming


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A retired Army officer and father comes out at 67, choosing authenticity, love, and a fuller life — as himself.  

In this episode of Out Late With David, Mark D’Agostino, a retired U.S. Army officer and father of three, shares his powerful coming-out story at age 67. After a 43-year marriage and a military career shaped by duty and silence, Mark chose to stop surviving and start becoming. He reflects on family, love, reinvention, and the profound relief that came with finally living authentically — not starting over, but becoming fully himself.

Takeaways  
  • It’s never too late to come out.
  • Living in alignment feels like a weight lifted.
  • Family acceptance often exceeds our fears.
  • Reinvention doesn’t mean erasing the past.
  • Choosing yourself expands your world, not shrinks it.
Where to find Mark:  Join me on a culinary journey inspired by the flavors of Italy. In Nonnos Kitchen, roll up your sleeves and learn to make fresh pasta with confidence right in your own kitchen. This hands-on class ends with a four-course meal—appetizer, salad, pasta, and dessert—featuring the pasta you’ve created. Young chefs are welcome, so put down the screens and enjoy a fun evening of pasta-making. Find Mark on Instagram at @nonnos_kitchen01  

Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com  

YouTube Edition:   https://youtu.be/6zibRI6n1TI

YouTube Channel:   https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg  

Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton:  https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com  

Contact me:  mailto:[email protected] https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com https://linktr.ee/davidacotton  

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