Everyone's Talkin' Money

Money Together: Building Love, Equity, and Wealth Without Keeping Score


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Money and love don’t come with a rulebook—but they do come with plenty of emotions, power dynamics, and unspoken expectations.

In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, I sit down with Heather and Douglas Boneparth, the husband-and-wife team behind the new book Money Together.

Heather, a lawyer-turned-writer, and Douglas, a nationally recognized financial advisor, share candid insights about the real challenges couples face when it comes to money—and how to turn those challenges into stronger, more equitable partnerships.

You’ll hear:

  • Why “trust” isn’t enough when one partner disengages from money decisions.
  • How caregiving and emotional labor factor into financial fairness.
  • The biggest money missteps couples make (and how to avoid them).
  • How to move from financial independence to true interdependence without losing yourself.
  • Why “fair” doesn’t always mean “even”—and how to redefine equity when income levels differ.
  • How to start money conversations earlier in dating to gauge compatibility.
  • Practical ways to bring more joy and balance to your financial life as a couple.
  • If you’ve ever wondered how to merge love and money without resentment, hidden debt, or endless fights, this episode will give you the tools and inspiration to start building wealth together.

    Follow Douglas on Instagram @dougboneparth

    Follow Heather on Instagram @averagejoelle

    Get their new book: Money Together: How to find fairness in your relationship and become an unstoppable financial team

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