In this episode of The Aligned for Success podcast, Nikki tackles the controversial topic of mom guilt, sharing why she doesn't experience it and challenging the societal narrative that guilt equals good motherhood.

Inspired by a conversation with Stephanie Wigner in a London pub, Nikki explores the myth that mom guilt comes standard in the "motherhood starter kit." She argues that guilt doesn't equal love, and feeling guilty isn't proof you're a good mom—just as not feeling guilty doesn't mean you're disconnected or love your child any less.

Throughout this candid conversation, Nikki shares how her own mother's career success shaped her perspective on working motherhood. Discovering her mom had a corner office at USA Today when she was 25, Nikki realized her mother was "a total badass" who modeled that women can have both successful careers and be devoted mothers. This experience taught her that showing your children what's possible can be more valuable than constant presence.

Nikki explains her approach to work-life integration, emphasizing quality over quantity time with her daughter Hazel. Rather than pieced-together moments throughout the week, she prioritizes longer stretches of uninterrupted family time—vacations, weekend trips, and boat rides that create lasting memories. She views her business success as enabling these experiences rather than stealing from family time.

Addressing listeners who do experience mom guilt, Nikki provides practical strategies: block family time in your calendar first, build business systems that protect vacations and weekends, learn to say no to things that don't light you up or move your business forward, and communicate openly with your children about work commitments while reassuring them they're a priority.

This episode delivers a powerful reminder that your children won't remember the exact hours you worked—they'll remember the memories you made and the example you set, making it a must-listen for working mothers seeking permission to build meaningful careers while raising confident, capable children.

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