What if performance starts with belonging, not tactics? We sit down with Nick Evans—All Black fly-half turned Harlequins attack coach—to unpack how culture, clarity, and a few well-chosen words can change the way a team competes under pressure. From honoring ancestry to owning identity, Nick shows why connection is the foundation that makes hard conversations possible and results sustainable.

We trace his journey from player to coach, including the painful lesson of a 28-slide attack deck that put half the room to sleep—and the pivot to short, sharp meetings that land one idea and get the squad back on the field. Nick breaks down the identity pillars that fueled Harlequins’ resurgence—tempo, ruthless standards, unpredictability, and enjoyment—and explains Conor O’Shea’s radical act of leadership: telling players the result was his responsibility so they could play with freedom. We dig into personalization, balancing detail for different minds, and why shape should create chances rather than cage instincts.

You’ll also hear practical tools any team can steal: interactive video reviews that build rugby IQ and leadership, match-day “no waffle” comms inspired by air traffic control, and a crisp “combat chat” glossary—like “next job” for reset and “60” for an instant energy lift. Threaded through it all is a mental model that keeps coaches and players moving forward: learn it or affirm it. Capture the lesson or the win, then let it go.

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