Not As We Planned

By Tash Gershfield & Carly HarrisSociety & Culture Relationships Parenting Kids & Family

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Not As We Planned episodes

February 13, 2025 76. Are We Dating The Same Guy?
Carly shares an emotional update, we hear from the woman who cheated, we get a lovely update from a listener and the dreading question of are we dating the same guy?

Producer: @TristanHehir

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37 min
February 06, 2025 75. Get the F*ck Out
Would you go back to a relationship where there’s no trust? Learning to set boundaries when coparenting, how to help your children handle big emotions about your divorce and finding pills for herpes.

Producer: @TristanHehir

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41 min
January 30, 2025 74. He Was Messaging Other Girls On OnlyFans
We talk about managing your kids emotions and feelings after a break up, having to watch an affair unfold in front of your eyes and catching your partner on ONLY FANS!

Producer: @TristanHehir

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41 min
January 23, 2025 73. He Has 6 Girlfriends
Trigger Warning: Rape

When a man gets caught with 6 girlfriends, hitting rock bottom after finding out about your husbands infidelity and trying to work out if you’re the toxic one!

Producer: @TristanHehir

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51 min
January 16, 2025 72. He Cheated On Me With My Midwife
We dive into the daily mundane life with young kids and how that can impact your relationship with your partner negatively, but how it can be improved. When you take him back time and time again, and you want our advice if he deserves one more chance?? And finding out your partner cheated on you with your midwife!

Producer: @TristanHehir

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47 min
January 09, 2025 71. We May Be The Villain But They Are The Clowns
Tash shares a big update in her relationship, we are hit with a dilemma when you find out your partner cheated on you 2 years ago at the beginning of your relationship, a thank you from a grateful follower for repairing her marriage and realising you chose the wrong man to have a baby with!

Producer: @TristanHehir

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42 min
January 02, 2025 70. If She Asks, Say I Was With You!
Happy new year you to all our amazing listeners! We kick off our first episode of 2025 seeing cracks beginning to show in a new relationship and if someone can really put on a front for a year? Going through a breakup after divorce and wondering how to trust again and it’s time to write down that one goal for 2025!!

Producer: @TristanHehir

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44 min
December 19, 2024 69. He’s Unstable
Our last episode of 2024, we discuss our 2025 goals, we get a final update from the fuck buddy situationship, knowing you should run a mile but can’t seem to stop and finding out your husband is gay.

Producer: @TristanHehir

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50 min
December 12, 2024 68. And People Say Men Can’t Multitask
When you find a new partner but you’re missing the bad boy, a segment of women in male fields, struggling to let go of your abusive ex and we finish with a gorgeous happy ending after a narcissistic relationship.

Producer: @TristanHehir

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39 min
December 05, 2024 67. He Would Shag His Mum If He Could
When your partner just ups and leaves for no reason, talking about how divorce doesn’t fuck up the kids, when he leaves you for his ex and hearing from a man who wants our advice on coparenting

Producer: @TristanHehir

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41 min