Are you stuck in constant battles with your teen—no matter how many consequences you hand out? You're not alone. In this episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, I sit down with renowned psychologist and TEDx speaker Dr. Paul Sunseri, author of Gentle Parenting Reimagined. With over 40 years of experience, Dr. Sunseri offers parents a powerful shift: how to stay calm, set firm boundaries, and transform behavior—without yelling or giving in. If you’ve got a strong-willed or defiant teen, this episode will be a game-changer.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

What to do when consequences no longer work with your teen

How to set effective boundaries without yelling or power struggles

The difference between gentle parenting and permissiveness

How to tie privileges (like screen time) to responsibility

5 KEY TAKEAWAYS FOR PARENTS OF TEENS

Shift from “Fixing the Kid” to Changing the Dynamic: Teen defiance is often about the relationship, not just behavior. Focus on how you respond.

Speak Calmly and Clearly: Avoid emotional reactions. Use matter-of-fact requests to maintain authority without fueling conflict.

Use Privileges Strategically: Tie screen time and other privileges to daily responsibilities—then follow through consistently.

Expect Resistance, But Stay the Course: Change won’t happen overnight. Stay patient and consistent even when it’s tough.

Believe in Their Ability to Grow: Set high (yet compassionate) expectations. Let them fail and learn—it’s how resilience is built.

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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

Gentle Parenting When to Lean Out Instead of Leaning In – Psychology Today

Consequences Don’t Work With My Kid – Psychology Today

Gentle Parenting Deserves Another Chance – Today’s Parent

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EPISODE CHAPTERS:

00:00 Understanding Defiance in Teens

ABOUT THE SHOW

The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth. Whether you’re struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding. Perfect for both new and seasoned parents, this podcast helps you build the confidence to handle teen challenges and thrive together.

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