The Introvert Leader

People Pleasing


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In this episode, I'm discussing people-pleasing—something I've struggled with since I was a kid. I'll explain why we people-please, how it holds us back, and how it can damage our relationships. Stay tuned for actionable strategies to overcome it.

Even if you don't struggle with people pleasing yourself, you'll learn how to help the people pleaser in your life.


Timestamps
1:07 - Austin Update

3:46 - Why Discuss People Pleasing: Why this topic matters and how it impacts your career and relationships.

4:24 - What Is People Pleasing: A breakdown of what people pleasing is and why so many struggle with it.

4:50 - What Does People Pleasing Look Like: Common examples of people pleasing in work and personal life.

7:44 - Why I People Please: A personal look at my own struggles with people pleasing and where it comes from.

9:56 - Negatives of People Pleasing: How people pleasing can hold you back, damage relationships, and create stress.

14:40 - Overcoming People Pleasing: Actionable strategies to stop people pleasing and start setting boundaries.

18:30 - Story Time: A story about the Superbowl a few weeks back.

20:40 - Challenge For Listeners: A practical challenge to help you recognize and reduce people pleasing this week.


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