Curious Life of a Childfree Woman

Personal Style: Why Are We Suffering from Overstuffed Closets and Nothing to Wear? | Emily Paulsen & Chellie Carlson


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How is it possible to have a closet overflowing with clothes yet still feel like we have nothing to wear? In this episode, Emily sits down with Chellie Carlson, a transformational wardrobe stylist with over 20 years in the fashion industry, to unravel the deeper issues behind our personal style struggles. Chellie works with high-performing executives, entrepreneurs, and creatives to help them move beyond the cycle of overconsumption and into a wardrobe that aligns with their authentic selves.

From fast fashion to body image, self-worth, and the psychology behind our shopping habits, this conversation dives into the reasons why so many of us feel disconnected from our clothing—and how we can reclaim our confidence through intentional style choices.

Whether you feel overwhelmed by your wardrobe, struggle with body image, or want to refine your style without constantly shopping, this episode is packed with insights that will shift your perspective.

Key Takeaways:

  • The Psychology of Style: Why we’re drawn to new clothes, how social media fuels overconsumption, and why more shopping doesn’t lead to better style.

  • Closet Detoxing & Editing: The emotional baggage behind our wardrobes and why letting go of clothes that don’t serve us is a critical first step.

  • Dressing for Your Future Self: How to align your wardrobe with the person you want to become—rather than who you used to be or who you think you "should" be.

  • Tailoring & Fit: Why the right fit is more important than size and how a good tailor can completely transform the way clothes look on your body.

  • The Energy of Clothing: How investing in fewer, higher-quality pieces can boost confidence and help you feel more magnetic in your daily life.

  • *The article Emily referenced in the podcast can be found here: https://www.empower.com/the-currency/life/dressing-up-monthly-spend-apparel 

    Host Emily Paulsen is an accomplished entrepreneur and happily childfree woman shining a light on the often overshadowed childfree-by-choice perspective. Whether interviewing innovative experts or positioning leaders to scale through her Brand Studio, Electric Collab, Emily’s power lies in allowing people to feel seen and celebrated for who they are . She’s spent years honing the ability to deeply understand and amplify others in an honest, high-impact way. 


    Learn more about Emily on her website: www.curiouslifeofachildfreewoman.com  


    And connect with her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/curiouslifeofachildfreewoman/ 

    The guest on this episode is Chellie Carlson, a transformational wardrobe stylist and the founder of The Method and The Style Society, where she helps high-performing entrepreneurs, executives, and creatives redefine their personal style with confidence and intention. With over 20 years in the fashion industry, Chellie’s expertise goes beyond trends—she believes that clothing is a powerful tool for self-expression and personal transformation.

    Her signature styling approach focuses on curating fewer, higher-quality pieces, creating a wardrobe that feels both authentic and magnetic. Through her deeply personalized process, she helps clients break free from the cycle of overconsumption, align their wardrobe with their future selves, and show up in the world with undeniable presence.

    From in-depth closet edits to luxury styling sessions, Chellie’s work is rooted in helping people feel seen, stylish, and empowered—every single day.


    Learn more about Chellie on her website: https://www.chelliecarlson.com/

    And connect with her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chelliecarlson/ 


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