Taylor and Travis got engaged this week and all we can see are his blinding-white thighs. Also, how much did they plan this proposal and does Taylor really have the best PR? In this ep we also discuss:

Is Taylor Swift destined to end up with Joe Alwyn in the end?

The weather on 9/11 doesn’t get enough credit

Talia met a security expert on a plane and had the time of her life

Too Far: TSA precheck is out of control

...and should we ban ice cream samples?

Why people take their sweet time after waiting in line

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Talia is in the hot seat this week as Sean grills her about what she wants out of life. Is she looking for a relationship? Does she even need her “person” in life? What does her ideal man look like and is she open to finding him? In this ep we also discuss:

Matchmakers and setups: are we less cynical about people that’ve been vetted?

First loves and what those experiences teach us about ourselves

What to do when a guy won’t call you his girlfriend

The Before Sunrise movie series and why it changed Sean’s outlook on love

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Why is everyone talking about butt stuff these days? Talia and Sean try to get to the bottom of everyone’s obsession with getting… to the bottom. It’s not for everyone, but we share tips for how to make it a more comfortable and enjoyable experience. In this ep we also discuss:

How NOT to approach a group of women

Talia’s story of rejecting a man for exactly the right reason: misogyny

An amazing trick for getting a girl’s number in a bar

The art of approaching people in public

The one segment from our old podcast that never made it to the air

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The streak is over… Talia finally went home with a man and he’s a glorious firefighter. But is it already over? She tells us why their politics got in the way and we debate whether or not it’s okay to associate with someone across the aisle. In this ep we also discuss:

Boob guy or butt guy… what’s it say about you?

Fun fireman facts everyone deserves to know

The Coldplay concert cheating scandal

Sean started therapy

Our latest movie recommendations

How to stay comfy when you’re camping

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Be honest… does anyone actually use soap on their arms and legs? Talia goes in on Sean for not owning a loofa and letting shampoo do all the work in the shower. Plus, Talia got hit on this 4th of July and it didn’t go as planned. In this ep we discuss:

Talia got punched by a random woman in Times Square and her story deserves to be told

Talia has some selfish takes for all the brides out there

Funner needs to be a word

Cocktail prices are out of control

Do babies really ever need to be in a stroller? We debate

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Who’s the new consensus “it girl” and “it guy” in Hollywood? Talia and Sean debate who holds the crown right now and what it says about our taste in hotness. Plus, Talia tells us why you shouldn’t care if other people think your boyfriend is ugly (even if it’s true). In this ep we discuss:

Sydney Sweeney and Tom Brady at Jeff Bezos’s wedding

Popping pimples for the sake of others

Tampons and wide-set vaginas

Sharing your location on Find My Friends (and why Talia loves to lie)

Sabrina Carpenter’s new single Manchild and judging the song of the Summer

What it’s really like to take LSD and emotional hangovers

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Friends and SATC have so much to teach us. Talia recently learned that she wants her life to be more like the TV show Friends (Sean already knew this) and it starts with getting someone to watch her cat. How offended should you be by a friend not helping you out? We also debate Sarah Jessica Parker’s petty unwillingness to acknowledge that Samantha even exists. In this ep we discuss:

Friend breakups and why they happen - do guys have it all figured out?

Helping people move (don’t do it) and the secret to getting big favors

Talia’s new kink for a guy who talks about her in therapy

The best new show you should be watching

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It’s time to talk about sexting – Talia tells us exactly what you shouldn’t say to a woman over text if you want to turn her on (and how to use punctuation. Sean also tells us which dirty word he wants us all to start saying a whole lot more. We also get listener thoughts on last week’s conversation about female hygiene. In this ep we also discuss:

A certain someone slid back into Talia’s DMs

Karen Read’s recent acquittal and why it doesn’t mean Talia was wrong

Apparently there’s a male loneliness epidemic and we can’t agree what that means

People need to go back to dating within their own league

The internet has made many guys a little too embattled (aka “Not All Men”)

Sean tells us why more people need to start taking performance enhancers for sex

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Talia’s having a tough week so our friend Tracey Carnazzo stops by to help her dig an even deeper hole for herself. We talk about what it takes to get out of a rut, why it’s more fun to flirt than it is to seal the deal, and how you can actually learn to de-center men in your life. In this ep we also discuss:

Using boric acid to clean up (and the fear of smelling bad)

What dissociation really feels like  

Being good at making out and how to deliver the perfect kiss

Getting used to being alone and why that’s a good thing

Tips for going down on a woman  

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Did we just discover the perfect breakup text? Talia tells us how she stumbled upon the ideal sentence designed to let a guy down easy and make him go away forever. In this ep we also discuss:

Your five non-negotiables for finding someone you’re truly compatible with

How important sex and attraction are in a relationship

Dating a man for money

Picking someone who admires you (and what you do)

The joy of wearing a blindfold during sex and why it can be hot

Why you should try dirty talk and be willing to “do it scared”

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