Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast

In this encore episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by Julieta Chiara for a candid and informative conversation that breaks down common myths and misconceptions around penis size, performance, and sexual expectations.

Together, they explore the realities behind what we often see in porn, including how male performers are selected and how this can create unrealistic standards around bodies and pleasure. Julieta and Eve unpack the differences between “growers” and “showers,” including the actual parameters that define them, helping listeners better understand natural variations without comparison or pressure.

The conversation goes beyond size, emphasizing what truly enhances intimacy and satisfaction—communication, confidence, connection, and awareness. They also highlight the importance of aftercare, explaining how it can deepen emotional connection, increase trust, and improve overall sexual experiences.

With a mix of humor, education, and myth-busting insights, this episode offers a grounded and empowering perspective on pleasure, helping listeners move away from unrealistic expectations and toward more fulfilling, connected intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• The truth about penis size and common misconceptions

• The difference between growers and showers (and how they’re defined)

• How porn creates unrealistic expectations around sex and bodies

• What actually contributes to satisfying intimacy and pleasure

• Why aftercare is essential for connection and emotional safety

• How to approach sex with confidence and communication

Connect With the Guest

Julieta Chiara

Website: https://chiaracollective.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this engaging and insightful season finale of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by her personal trainer, Prince Wayne, for a fun and eye-opening conversation that recaps some of the most fascinating insights from Season 2.

Together, they explore key statistics and truths around sexual health, pleasure, and communication—bringing both humor and education into the conversation. Eve and Prince break down the realities behind topics like faking orgasms, highlighting how common it is and why honest communication is essential for more fulfilling intimacy.

They also discuss the importance of understanding women’s arousal, including why many women require external clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm and why taking time for proper buildup and connection can significantly enhance the experience for both partners.

With a blend of curiosity, laughter, and practical knowledge, this episode encourages listeners to explore intimacy with more awareness, patience, and openness. It’s a perfect wrap-up to a season dedicated to breaking taboos, improving communication, and empowering pleasure.

What You’ll Learn

• Key insights and takeaways from Season 2

• The truth about faking orgasms and why it happens

• Why many women need clitoral stimulation for orgasm

• The importance of arousal, timing, and preparation in intimacy

• How communication improves sexual satisfaction

• Practical ways to enhance connection and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Prince Wayne

Instagram: https://instagram.com/mrmarvelous

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful and inspiring episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Darlene Greene to explore her extraordinary journey of healing, resilience, and transformation.

Faced with multiple autoimmune conditions while also caring for her husband after his Alzheimer’s diagnosis, Darlene shares how she searched tirelessly for solutions—trying everything from conventional treatments to traveling abroad for advanced medical care. What she eventually discovered changed the course of both their lives.

Darlene opens up about her experience with stem cell activation technology and how it supported her recovery, improved her overall health, and even impacted her husband’s condition. She explains how this approach works to support the body’s natural healing processes and why it’s gaining attention as a potential breakthrough in wellness and longevity.

The conversation also takes an unexpected and intriguing turn as Darlene shares how many people report a renewed sense of vitality—including a noticeable increase in libido—after using this technology. Eve and Darlene discuss the connection between physical health, energy, and sexual wellness, highlighting how healing the body can naturally enhance intimacy and desire.

This episode is a compelling look at alternative healing, personal empowerment, and the possibilities that emerge when we take an active role in our health journey.

What You’ll Learn

• Darlene’s journey through autoimmune disease and caregiving

• How stem cell activation technology supports the body’s healing

• The connection between overall health and sexual vitality

• Alternative approaches to managing chronic illness

• How healing can impact energy, confidence, and intimacy

• Why many people report renewed libido after treatment

Connect With the Guest

Darlene Greene

Website: https://iamreverseaging.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this transformative episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Hoshandra for a powerful conversation about personal responsibility, growth, and the lessons that shape how we approach sexuality and relationships.

Hoshandra shares her journey of learning the hard way—navigating challenges, reflecting on her experiences, and ultimately realizing that the only true control we have is over our own thoughts, choices, and behaviors. Her story is both honest and empowering, offering insight into how self-awareness can change the course of our lives.

Together, Eve and Hoshandra dive into what they believe are essential lessons—especially for teenagers and young adults—before stepping into the world of sexuality. They discuss the importance of understanding boundaries, emotional awareness, communication, and making informed, intentional decisions.

This conversation highlights how early education around self-worth, consent, and personal responsibility can create healthier relationships and more confident individuals. It’s a grounded and practical episode that blends lived experience with meaningful guidance.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking clarity, growth, and a more conscious approach to relationships and sexuality.

What You’ll Learn

• Why personal responsibility is key to growth and self-awareness

• How past experiences can shape healthier future choices

• Essential lessons about sexuality for teenagers and young adults

• The importance of boundaries, consent, and communication

• How to build confidence through self-understanding

• Practical insights for navigating relationships with intention

Connect With the Guest

Hashondra Smith

Website: https://dontoverthink.me

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast

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In this expansive and thought-provoking episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with June Edward for a fascinating conversation that bridges the physical and spiritual realms.

June shares her unique perspective on living with one foot in this dimension and a deep connection to something far beyond it. She invites listeners to explore the idea that we are more than our physical bodies—that our souls are vast, powerful, and capable of shaping the lives we desire.

Together, Eve and June dive into the concept of energy, personal responsibility, and the lessons we’re here to learn. June explains how our experiences—both challenging and uplifting—can serve as opportunities for growth, alignment, and deeper understanding.

This conversation also explores how we can consciously choose our path, tap into our inner wisdom, and use our energy intentionally to create a life that feels aligned, purposeful, and fulfilling.

This episode is an invitation to expand your awareness, trust your intuition, and explore the connection between energy, soul, and the life you’re creating.

What You’ll Learn

• How to understand your life through a spiritual and energetic lens

• The concept of the soul and its role in personal growth

• How energy influences your experiences and relationships

• The importance of learning from life’s challenges

• How to consciously choose your path and create alignment

• Tapping into intuition and inner wisdom

Connect With the Guest

June Edward

Website: https://www.juneedward.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this thought-provoking episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Alexandra Stockwell to challenge one of the most common beliefs in relationships: that compromise is the key to happiness.

Together, they explore how constantly “not rocking the boat” can actually lead to disconnection, resentment, and a loss of authenticity. Alexandra offers a refreshing perspective—inviting listeners to move beyond surface-level compromise and instead step into honest, aligned communication that honors both partners fully.

Alexandra shares how being true to yourself doesn’t mean creating conflict, but rather learning how to express your feelings, needs, and desires in a way that is both loving and clear. This approach fosters deeper intimacy, stronger emotional connection, and relationships that feel expansive rather than restrictive.

Eve and Alexandra discuss the importance of emotional honesty, self-awareness, and courage in building relationships that are not just functional—but truly fulfilling.

This episode is an empowering invitation to stop settling for “good enough” and start creating relationships rooted in truth, connection, and mutual understanding.

What You’ll Learn

• Why compromise isn’t always the best solution in relationships

• How avoiding conflict can lead to disconnection and resentment

• The importance of expressing needs and desires authentically

• How to communicate with love, clarity, and confidence

• Building deeper intimacy through emotional honesty

• Creating relationships that feel aligned and fulfilling

Connect With the Guest

Alexandra Stockwell

Website: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this inspiring episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Paul Zolman for a powerful conversation about transforming your life through love, self-awareness, and intentional connection.

Paul shares his personal journey from anger and disconnection to embodying love in all areas of his life. Through deep self-reflection and growth, he discovered the importance of not just understanding love—but actively expressing it in ways that foster real connection and fulfillment.

Together, Eve and Paul explore the concept of the five love languages and how becoming fluent in all of them can transform your relationships. Rather than relying on just one default way of expressing love, Paul introduces a more dynamic approach—learning how to give and receive love in multiple ways to create deeper intimacy, understanding, and emotional connection.

Paul also shares the tools he’s created to help individuals practice and integrate love into their daily lives, making it easier to build meaningful relationships and attract the kind of love they truly desire.

This episode is a heartfelt and practical guide to shifting from reactive patterns into intentional love, helping you create more connected, fulfilling relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• Paul Zolman’s journey from anger to living with love

• How the five love languages influence relationships

• Why becoming fluent in all love languages deepens connection

• Practical tools for expressing love intentionally

• How to attract healthier, more fulfilling relationships

• The role of self-awareness in creating lasting love

Connect With the Guest

Paul Zolman

Website: https://roleoflove.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this fascinating and expansive episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Leslie Draffin, a psilocybin coach, to explore the intersection of psychedelics, feminine healing, and sexual wellness.

Leslie shares how her work guides women back into connection with their bodies—especially the womb space—and into a deeper relationship with what she describes as sacred feminine or “mother” energy. She offers insight into how this connection can support emotional healing, self-awareness, and a more embodied experience of pleasure and intimacy.

Together, Eve and Leslie discuss the potential of psilocybin (magic mushrooms) as a tool for healing trauma, anxiety, and depression—factors that often impact libido, intimacy, and overall sexual well-being. Leslie explains how intentional, supported experiences can help individuals process emotions, release stored patterns, and reconnect with themselves in a meaningful way.

They also address common concerns around safety, emphasizing the importance of education, preparation, and proper guidance when exploring psychedelic work. This conversation is both intriguing and grounding—opening the door to new possibilities while encouraging responsibility and self-awareness.

This episode is an invitation to explore alternative pathways to healing, reconnect with your body, and consider how emotional well-being and sexual health are deeply intertwined.

What You’ll Learn

• How psilocybin can support emotional and trauma healing

• The connection between mental health and sexual wellness

• What it means to reconnect with womb energy and feminine wisdom

• How psychedelics may help with anxiety and depression

• The importance of safety, intention, and support in psychedelic work

• How healing can positively impact intimacy and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Leslie Draffin

Website: https://lesliedraffin.com

Free Guide: https://lesliedraffin.myflodesk.com/microguide

Community: https://lesliedraffin.circle.so/checkout/the-sanctuary-membership

(Code: Sisters)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast

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In this raw and deeply transformative episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Marina Pearson for a powerful conversation about healing, feminine wisdom, and reclaiming authentic expression.

Marina shares her journey from navigating childhood trauma and confusing societal messages to developing a more holistic understanding of life, love, and pleasure. She opens up about her struggles with chronic people-pleasing and how it impacted her relationships, voice, and sense of self.

Through her healing process, Marina discovered a deeper connection to her feminine wisdom—what she describes as her “conch”—a source of intuition, expression, and inner truth. She explains how reconnecting with this part of herself allowed her to communicate more openly, set boundaries, and step into her power with confidence.

Together, Eve and Marina explore how unlearning old patterns and tuning into the body can create profound shifts in intimacy, self-worth, and personal freedom. This conversation is an invitation to move beyond conditioning and into a more embodied, expressive, and empowered way of living.

This episode offers honest reflection, emotional depth, and empowering insight for anyone on a journey of healing, self-discovery, and reclaiming their voice.

What You’ll Learn

• How childhood experiences shape beliefs around love, pleasure, and identity

• The impact of people-pleasing on relationships and self-expression

• What feminine wisdom is and how to reconnect with it

• The importance of communication and authentic expression

• How to move from conditioning into empowerment

• Practical insights for embodying confidence and self-trust

Connect With the Guest

Marina Pearson

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast

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In this bold and eye-opening episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Annie for an honest and deeply human conversation about sex work, intimacy, and challenging societal misconceptions.

Annie, a proud massage goddess and advocate for the global sex workers community, shares her perspective on the meaningful and often misunderstood role sex workers play in people’s lives. Together, she and Eve explore how sex work can provide not just physical connection, but emotional intimacy, presence, and healing for clients who may otherwise feel isolated or unseen.

This conversation also challenges the idea that monogamy is the only valid relationship structure. Eve and Annie discuss how expanding our understanding of connection and intimacy can reduce shame and open up more honest, consensual ways of meeting human needs.

Annie speaks candidly about her own experiences, her most intimate relationships, and her mission to destigmatize sex work through education, compassion, and advocacy. This episode invites listeners to move beyond judgment and into a more nuanced understanding of intimacy, connection, and choice.

This is a powerful, perspective-shifting conversation about respect, autonomy, and the many ways humans seek and experience connection.

What You’ll Learn

• Common misconceptions about sex work and the reality behind them

• The role of intimacy and emotional connection in sex work

• How stigma impacts sex workers and their clients

• Expanding perspectives beyond traditional monogamy

• The importance of consent, respect, and autonomy in all relationships

• How to approach conversations around sex work without judgment

Connect With the Guest

Annie

Website: https://annietemple.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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