Jesse, my husband, and I deeeep deep dive into Twilight and 50 Shades of Grey. We talk about the history of both and how 50 Shades started as Twilight Fan Fiction. We also judge if these movies are actually sexy or silly. Basically, every thought anyone can have about Twilight and 50 Shades we address. By the end, you will know more than you ever needed to know about this universe LOL. 

The legendary sexpert Dan Savage is on the pod!! He is teaching us all about sexual compatibility, from figuring out if you have it with a new partner or bringing up your preferences to a new partner to realizing you are not sexually compatible with a current partner and how to change it. Or at least how to free them and yourself from boring sex! 

We also nibble on kinks, sexual peaks, the correct frequency to do it, fuck buddies, monogamy, polyamory, White Lotus, spicy Disney scenes, and more.  

We got married, y'all!!! We are here to tell you what we learned from our wedding day! Listen for some laughs and to make a note of what to do or not to do on your future big day. We cover ceremony traditions, decompressing, getting ready, flowers, drunk food, wedding planners, bar options, weather prep, having sex on your wedding night, officiants, the after-party, cake cutting, and everything related to weddings! 

We also nibble on 50 Shades of Grey, Twilight, Honeymooning, Greece, Chappel Roan, milk thistle, and more. 

My sister, Grace Jensen, joins us to chat about mistakes you might be making on first dates. We cover texting, the dating apps, first date spots, flirting, crossing the line, sober dating, dating events, etc. 

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We also nibble on Botox, filler, intuitive eating, wedding stuff, weight lifting, pilates, body confidence and more. 

This week, we answer all your orgasm questions and teach you how to orgasm! 
The questions we answer are: 
"How do you get to an orgasm? I get tense but can’t get to the point of release.
Is there a way to make my orgasms smaller? I cry after orgasms because I am overstimulated.
Never have I ever successfully masturbated before. Any tips on how to start?
Does drawing it out really make it more powerful?
I feel overwhelmed during penetration with clit stimulation and can’t O.
Can you talk about anorgasmia?
I learned that not every woman can orgasm during sex. Is that the case? It happened to me.
How will I know when I’ve orgasmed?
What are the different types of orgasms?
How many women are touching themselves or using a vibrator during penetration?
Are doing Kegels bad for me, and should I be doing it while masturbating or having sex?
How do you bring up to a long-term partner that you are not orgasming?
How do I use a vibrator with a partner? Is it possible?
What do you say to get a guy to the right pressure or place to do oral?"
And more!!

Also- I accidentally called the cowgirl position cowboy in this ep, so I apologize!!! 

My fiance, Jesse Townes, is on the pod this week, and we are discussing everything we've done to prepare for the wedding! We share all the tips and tricks we've learned along the way and how we've prepped our relationship. We touch on wedding costs, combining finances, balancing family expectations, bridezillas, mental health, body confidence, wedding diet culture, cold feet, relationship anxieties, planning regrets, thoughts on kids, etc. 

My fiance, Jesse Townes, is back to answer your relationship questions! We cover: my husband refuses to give oral. How do I get around it?, Navigating when to say I love you and what to do if they don't say it back, what to do if your partner's sex drive is lower than yours, spontaneous desire vs responsive desire, feeling doubts during an engagement, when is the appropriate time to try and win your ex back, how to emotionally support your partner when they have a hard time maintaining an erection, is it okay to have a work wife?, how to handle the division of emotional and physical labor, mental load, how to release resentment, my ex came back and has seem to have changed what do I pay attention to?, moving into a partner's place, how to discuss money and splitting bills. 

We also nibble on periods, tampons, smut books, reality TV, door dash prices, and Wheel of Fortune. 

Another episode on bjs!! We answer all your burning questions. Like should you put your tongue in the pee hole, how to give a bj to someone with a foreskin, the proper way to face f*ck, using a vibe during a bj, how to build up sensation and tension, what to do if your arms get tired, enthusiasm, what to do with your teeth, is 53 too old to learn how to give a good bj, how to bring up trying new things to your partner, how to talk about s*x with your partner, how long bjs should take, whiskey d!ck, and more! 

Jesse Townes, my fiance and overall hot person, joins us to answer your relationship questions!! We cover p0rnography, jealousy, strategies for fighting healthy, what to do when you have different love languages, encouraging your partner to go to therapy, backsliding, being friends with your ex, boundaries, bringing up kinks with your partner, reconnecting after an argument, not being in the mood after a fight, the importance of sexual attraction, desire types, what to do if your partner tells you to lose weight, how to align on your goals, communication, and more. 

We also nibble on Swifties, Love Island, bees, boxing, etc. 

Abigail answers your most pressing BJ questions in this episode of Rat Girls podcast! We talk about deep throating, gag reflex, partners who can't come from bjs, what to do if you have GERD or struggle with acid reflex, what to do if your partner is super big or your mouth is small, hand motions, what to do if your tongue is short, how to handle a sore jaw, feeling confident, avoiding boredom, giving the balls some love, what to do when they finish, how to tell your partner you hate bjs, where they can come, and hawk tuah, and more!