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We have to be careful when letting new friends into our lives and into our friend groups. It’s just like dating — we don’t introduce a new guy to our friends and family right away. The same level of caution applies when we meet new friends. Take your time before letting them all the way in. It's very important to find out who they are, what their background is, etc. 

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I'm still going to post episodes and will continue to do all the things I have planned. I'm finally setting up my Pateron, all I need to do is add a few things. My Instagram is going to be more of a lifestyle page, showing you all the cool things about life living in Austin. I actually have a due date for my debut novel. A car accident isn't going to stop me. 

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Friendships can resemble a beehive—there’s always a queen bee at the center, her trusted henchmen nearby, and the rest of us forming the outer ring, guarding the hive and politely pretending we’re on board with everything.

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Ladies, we need to take a real look at what it means to be in a long-term relationship with no wedding proposal in sight. With the holidays approaching, I know many of you are wondering the same thing — will this finally be the year? I’m going to share a list of honest reasons that may help you understand whether a proposal is actually coming or not. 

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I believe this is worth contemplating. Who is the real winner in this scenario? What really happens to him when you're not there anymore?

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It was a listener’s question. I don’t think they were being mean-spirited; I think they were just concerned because my mom and Lulu aren’t here anymore.

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Holiday magic has a way of clouding our judgment. The twinkling lights, cozy nights, and festive excitement can make every connection feel deeper than it really is. But just because the season feels magical doesn't mean the person you're with is truly right for you. The real question is: how can you tell if he's genuinely a good match, or if you're just caught up in the holiday charm? 

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Some men don’t stop taking until you stop giving. As long as you keep showing up, he’ll keep using you. He’ll drain your last bit of dignity if you let him. He’ll drag your name you up and down the street if you let him. So don’t just say you’re done — show it. 

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Ladies, here’s what happens when you start to be the provider in your relationship. 

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The dating scene may appear to be declining, but this often happens when you lower your standards. Many men today expect women to be the providers while they benefit from the women's efforts and finances. Ladies, maintain your standards and stop entertaining men who offer nothing but excuses. Remember, you are not their safety net. 

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