In this episode of Trend Told Me, I go from laughing about awkward dates to opening up about the deeper things — religious guilt, desire, breakups, and figuring out what I actually want. I talk about the art of fingering (yes, really), why knowing your own body matters, and how learning to communicate your desires can change everything.

I share stories about getting over an ex, letting go of the version of myself that lived for someone else’s approval, and finding closure on my own terms. There’s humor, there are uncomfortable truths, and there’s a whole lot of honest girl talk.

For me, this episode is about growing into myself — learning that pleasure isn’t shameful, that faith and desire can coexist, and that every relationship teaches you something important. It’s a soft rebellion against guilt and a celebration of self-discovery.

If you’ve ever felt torn between who you were raised to be and who you’re becoming… this one’s for you.