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We have a generation of boys struggling to launch and leave the nest. They seem easy at home because they are content on technology, but many parents find it feels hard to get them motivated to fly the coop.
In today’s episode Quinn addresses:

1. If the phrase “He’s so easy. Just give him a video game and food and he doesn’t make a peep!” is
something to applaud.
2. What E word we should be focusing on as parents that isn’t the word easy.
3. 7 Focuses We Want to Give Our Attention to When Raising Sons  

Mind Renewal Tip:
We don’t want easy boys, we want engaged boys, and they also end up engaged in easy, then we’ll take that too!  

Scripture Renewal Tip:
David defeated Goliath with a sling and rock. He killed him without even using a sword. David ran over and pulled out Goliath’s sword. Then he used it to cut off Goliath’s head. 1 Samuel 17: 50-53 

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The world often shows preference to extroverts because they seem friendly, warm and engaging, but introverts have equally needed and powerful traits that can get overlooked if they don’t have opportunities to show their strengths.  

In today’s episode, Quinn highlights:

1. The differences between introverts and extroverts
2. The myth of being shy versus being introverted
3. The traits that make introverts great leaders 

Mind Renewal Tip:
Introverts often show their best self when they are focused on a task versus connection because the pressure of connecting does not take their energy.  

Scriptural Renewal Tip:
There is one body, but it has many parts. But all its many parts make up one body. It is the same with Christ. 13 We were all baptized by one Holy Spirit. And so we are formed into one body. It didn’t matter whether we were Jews or Gentiles, slaves or free people. We were all given the same Spirit to drink. 14 So the body is not made up of just one part. It has many parts. I Corinthians 12: 12-14

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In today’s episode, Quinn addresses the subtle pressure many parents feel to make their children “great” in something be it academics, sports or another extracurricular activity. Because while most parents wouldn’t say anyone is directly telling them to do this, they can admit they feel the outside influence to prepare their child to excel more than generations in the past.   

In the episode, Quinn teaches parents how to keep a balanced perspective and also encourages to be mindful of: 

       1. Two questions to ask yourself when feeling the pressure that your child needs to be doing big things
2. Times when you might be taking it too far in the expectations you have of them
3. A powerful connection time that can refocus your goals in parenting  

 
Mind Renewal Tip:
If this won’t be relevant to you in ten years, it shouldn’t be something that keeps you up at night.  

Scripture Renewal Tip:
“You don’t get wormy apples off a healthy tree, nor good apples off a diseased tree. The health of the apple tells the health of the tree. You must begin with your own life-giving lives. It’s who you are, not what you say and do, that counts. Your true being brims over into true words and deeds. 

Article:
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Avoidant attachment is one of the four attachment styles that can present in a person that affects their view of self and others.  

       1. How it happens or what it looks like in a relationship
2. What someone with avoidant attachment feels when someone tries to get too close
3. How to help them out of their shell and not take it personally 

Mind Renewal Tip:
Avoidant attachment is something that is meant to be personal to others. It’s a coping mechanism developed to protect the person from stress.  

Scripture Renewal Tip:
A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1

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Alcohol and drinking can be a controversial topic for Christians. Some believe drinking is a sin and some believe that Jesus is accepting of it because he drank wine himself. But the question remains: “How much alcohol is acceptable (if any) as a Christian seeking to honor God?” 

In today’s episode, Quinn discusses this very topic by talking about: 

     1. What the surgeon general stated in his January 2025 advisory
2. What the Bible has to say about drinking and what is recommended as a healthy amount
3. Questions to ask yourself about your drinking to help you have a clear mind 

Mind Renewal Tip:
Drinking often takes more than it adds but we tend to focus on the short term benefit and ignore the long term cost. 

Scripture Renewal Tip:
Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. Acts 11:24 

Resources:
https://www.brown.edu/news/2025-01-14/alcohol-cancer-warning 

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Around twenty percent of the population struggles with procrastination regularly but it is often a source of frustration and shame to those that experience it. Procrastination can often lead people to feel like they are lazy and or unintelligent when really they are just the opposite! 

In today’s episode, Quin teaches listeners:  

       1. The two kinds of procrastination and why they aren’t the same
2. The myth about what causes procrastination and the mindset to change it
3. The power of writing out your problems when ready to get started 

Mind Renewal Tip:
When you forgive yourself for procrastinating, you are less likely to procrastinate the next time you want to! 

Scripture Renewal Tip:
Whoever watches the wind will not plant; whoever looks at the clouds will not reap. Ecclesiastes 11:4

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Many people look at their lives and feel like they are stuck in a negative story that repeats itself chapter after chapter. In today’s episode, Quinn talks about how to get out of a bad chapter of our life and start a new story.  

In the episode, Quinn teaches listeners how to: 

       1. Identify lies keeping you stuck
2. Learn what to look for in order to change the perspective of your story
3. Focus on good story writing pointers 

Mind Renewal Tip: 

We change our story when we change the way we view God, ourselves and others! 

Scripture Renewal Tip: 

His mercies are new every morning. Lamentations 3:22

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Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria is symptom associated with mental health disorders including ADHD, autism and depression. When someone experiences RSD, they can have extreme reactions to experiences of rejection not just emotionally but also physically.  

In today’s episode, Quinn teaches listeners: 

       1. What RSD is and how it affects the brain
2. How to take a self-assessment to see if they meet criteria for it
3. Easy ways to begin not allowing RSD to drain them 

Mind Renewal Tip: 

Rejection is not a hate of you as a person but a clash of needs between two people.  

Scripture Renewal Tip: 

For the Lord will not reject his people. He will never forsake his inheritance. Psalm 34:17 

Resources:

https://laconciergepsychologist.com/blog/rejection-sensitive-dysphoria-adhd/ 

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Over 366 million adults worldwide are affected by symptoms of attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder which is a developmental disorder characterized by an ongoing pattern of inattention, hyperactivity, and feeling restless. Yet research suggests that women are often underdiagnosed in childhood because they do not display the hyperactive symptoms.  

In today’s episode, Quinn sheds lights into some of the adult symptoms women with ADHD experience that often go undiagnosed. In the episode, Quinn teaches listeners:


1. What ADHD is and how’s it diagnosed
2. The different subtypes of ADHD
3. Less known symptoms that lead to it being underdiagnosed in women 

Mind Renewal Tip: 

ADHD in women is less about being hyperactive and more about being overactive and the mental load. 

Scripture Renewal Tip: 

Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28-30 

Resources:
https://youtu.be/ohGLvsy4HCg?si=WxoUSUGRUfahKblitw https://www.aafp.org/dam/AAFP/documents/patient_care/adhd_toolkit/adhd19-assessment-table1.pdf 

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One of the reasons kids struggle with anxiety is that they feel scared of their own anxiety and unsure they can stop it! In today’s episode, Quinn teaches kids and parents the mindset that helps reduce anxiety by empowering your child.  

Additionally, Quinn discusses techniques that can be used to reduce anxiety. After listening, you will understand: 

       1. Two Simple Breathing Techniques to reduce anxiety
2. The Even if Mindset
3. 3, 3, 3 Method for Grounding 

Mind Renewal Tip:
We have the tools we need to work through anxious situations. We are stronger than we think! 

Scripture Renewal Tip:
"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7

Resources:
https://youtu.be/kpSkoXRrZnE?si=8caKJSvf4No9tMGL 

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