In this episode of Revolutionise Your Love Life, Heather is joined by webinar expert Paul Jordan to demystify the world of online webinars for coaches, therapists and heart-centred entrepreneurs. With warmth and clarity, Paul shares how webinars can offer a powerful way to build connection, establish trust and gently guide potential clients toward meaningful work. They explore the fears that so many practitioners face – especially around visibility, sales, and tech – and how Paul’s supportive, step-by-step approach helps to turn overwhelm into calm, confident delivery. If you're someone who wants to reach more people without compromising your values, this conversation offers practical insight and deep encouragement.

Key Takeaways:

Paul shares why webinars are especially suited to coaches, therapists and service-based professionals, allowing clients to get a real sense of who you are before ever booking a call.

Many entrepreneurs freeze at the thought of tech and sales. Paul breaks down his practical system for moving through that freeze into structured, supportive action.

Heather and Paul discuss the mindset shift from “I shouldn’t have to sell” to “I deserve to be paid for the value I offer,” reframing sales as an act of service.

About your host:

Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Paul:

Paul Jordan brings over 20 years of expertise in digital marketing and information technology, having worked across diverse sectors including pharmaceuticals, real estate, national security and transport. Alongside this, he’s no stranger to the realities of running a small business himself – which gives him a deep understanding of the challenges that entrepreneurs face when starting from scratch.

Paul has a particular passion for helping heart-led professionals who are brilliant at what they do but struggle with marketing. Through his signature online course, one-to-one support and done-for-you services, he guides motivated individuals to market their businesses with confidence, clarity and ease.

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In this powerful and intimate episode of Revolutionise Your Love Life, Heather Garbutt in conversation with Sadie Beyl opens a sacred space.  This was a deep exchange between Sadie and Heather about traumatic events that they had both experienced and Sadie‘s way of guiding through to grow through them to a greater sense of self and spiritual awareness.

They revisit early childhood memories - one involving a red cardigan, a burning electric ring, and the absence of the comfort every child deserves. What unfolds is a moving exploration of inner child work, emotional safety, trauma stored in the body, and the lifelong effects of not feeling protected.

The episode journeys through breathing practices, chakra-activating movements, visualisations, and profound conversations about unmet needs, suppressed rage, and the heartbreak of abandonment. Memories are shared with raw honesty, allowing listeners to witness and feel into their own hidden stories.

This is not just a podcast episode - it’s a mirror for all who are learning to reclaim the parts of themselves that were left behind.

Key Takeaways:

The Red Cardigan Memory: A pivotal story of childhood shame and surprise - expecting punishment and receiving compassion - sparks a deep conversation about learned hypervigilance and people-pleasing.

Wailing into the Cushion: Guiding through a process of expressing long-held rage, helplessness and grief using voice and movement - unlocking profound inner release.

The Question of Worth: Through tears, breath, and dialogue,  we hear the words: You are safe. You are loved. You are allowed to feel.

About your host:

Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Sadie Beyl:

An architect turned spiritual guide whose life took a profound turn after the sudden loss of her husband in 2019. What followed was a journey across continents and deep within herself, as she began to rebuild from grief and awaken to her greater soul purpose.

Now based in Italy, Sadie is a meditation teacher, energy healer, and co-host of the From Mourning to Light grief summits, which have supported thousands through healing and spiritual connection. With over 25 years of experience in Reiki, past-life regression, and intuitive guidance, she offers a grounded, heart-led approach to navigating grief, awakening intuition, and reconnecting with the sacred.

Sadie’s work reminds us that healing doesn’t mean forgetting - it means remembering who we really are.

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In this deeply personal and illuminating episode, Heather Garbutt welcomes Melinda Jacobs - a clinical hypnotherapist, trauma-informed coach and spiritual teacher - for an exploration of love, identity, and neurodiversity. Melinda shares her late-in-life autism diagnosis and how years of masking shaped her sense of self, relationships, and nervous system.

Together, they delve into the experience of navigating love while neurodivergent, the trauma of not being seen, and the power of attuned partnership. With warmth and insight, they challenge the cultural belief that independence means isolation, and invite listeners to embrace interdependence, self-awareness, and the kind of love that begins with curiosity and compassion.

Melinda also shares the therapeutic methods that have supported her healing, especially cellular release therapy, and the importance of shifting inner narratives that echo shame. The episode is a profound invitation to meet ourselves - and each other - with patience, presence, and care.

Key Takeaways:

From Masking to Meaning: Melinda’s emotional story of discovering her autism diagnosis shines a light on how masking and people-pleasing can fragment identity and disconnect us from our needs.

The Power of Presence in Partnership: A single moment of attunement—three gentle options offered by her partner—transformed a near shutdown into a moment of reconnection.

Healing the Nervous System: Heather and Melinda explore the physical impact of unprocessed trauma, micro-stress, and how somatic techniques like rocking and breath can restore regulation and calm.

About your host:

Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Melinda

Melinda Jacobs is a Clinical Hypnotherapist, Trauma-Informed Health/Life Coach, Spiritual Leader, and Author with over 30 years of experience guiding individuals through life’s challenges—including emotional pain, uncertainty, and inner struggle—into clarity, healing, and meaningful inspiration. Her trauma-informed, spiritually grounded work helps people move beyond subconscious blocks and repeating patterns to reclaim their wholeness and live with purpose.

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In this heart-opening conversation, Heather Garbutt speaks with Lisa Hawkins, relationship and self-awareness coach and founder of Consciously Awake Counselling. Together, they unpack the misconceptions surrounding self-love and explore what it truly means to honour all parts of ourselves—even the ones we’d rather avoid. Lisa shares her personal and professional wisdom on how self-abandonment, often disguised as duty or selflessness, keeps us from authentic connection. She introduces her powerful “pause method,” the importance of having a safe witness to mirror compassion, and the ongoing, evolving nature of loving oneself. The episode is a tender invitation to presence, self-trust, and radical inner care.

Key Takeaways

About your host:

Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Lisa

Lisa Hawkins is a relationship and self-awareness coach, and the founder of Consciously Awake Counseling. For over 26 years, she’s been passionate about the human experience—why we love, how we connect, and what gets in the way. She works with both men and women to awaken the part of themselves that already knows how to love deeply, freely, and consciously.

Through spiritual inquiry, emotional accountability, and her signature Pause Method, Lisa helps people question old beliefs, shift their patterns, and create authentic relationships—starting with the one they have with themselves. Her work is about truth, healing, and connection at a higher level.Whether you're navigating love, healing from heartbreak, or learning to trust yourself again, Lisa brings wisdom, presence, and a deep respect for the human experience.

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In this deeply soulful episode, Heather Garbutt is joined by Monica Douglas—spirit-led relationship coach, interfaith minister, and creator of the Wild Wisdom of Relationships framework. Monica shares her transformational journey through conscious uncoupling after a 27-year marriage and the emergence of new love rooted in presence, ritual, and authentic connection. Together, they explore the sacred power of everyday rituals, seasonal cycles in relationships, and the importance of being in alignment with one’s values, intuition, and spirit. The conversation is rich with imagery, grace, and grounded practices—offering listeners insight and inspiration to lovingly navigate endings, beginnings, and everything in between.

Key Takeaways:

About your host:

Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Monica

Monica Douglas is a spirit-led relationship coach, interfaith minister, and founder of the Wild Wisdom of Relationships framework. With over 25 years of experience, she supports heart-led individuals to heal from heartbreak, reset their relationships, and thrive in love. Her work integrates ritual, coaching, spiritual practice, and tools like her Wild Wisdom Oracle cards and relationship cycle quiz.

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In this episode of Revolutionise Your Love Life, Heather Garbutt is joined by coach, speaker and midlife mentor Ali Miles-Jenkins to explore the experience of women in their 60s and beyond. Together, they reflect on the outdated cultural narratives that often leave older women feeling invisible or irrelevant—and how to reclaim power, vitality, and purpose at this stage of life. Ali shares her journey of challenging societal expectations and supporting women to reconnect with their self-worth, confidence and joy. From dancing in nightclubs to mentoring clients through transformation, her message is clear: now is the time to thrive. With heart, humour and honesty, this conversation invites women to redefine what it means to age—on their own terms. Whether you’re navigating a new chapter, reconnecting with your identity, or rediscovering your spark, this episode is a celebration of possibility at every age.

About Your Host:

Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Ali:

Ali is an award-winning management consultant, coach, trainer and business owner for 34 years.

Since 2017 Ali has been championing the age agenda for women and built a community of over 6,000 wonderful women, also delivering a TEDX talk: ‘The Surprising Truth About Women over 50’. She's on a mission to enable women over 60 to be sassy, s*xy and successful, living the amazing lives they so deserve!

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In this heartfelt and deeply practical episode of Revolutionise Your Love Life, Heather Garbutt is joined by senior family solicitor Colette Bain. With warmth, wisdom, and sensitivity, Colette shares her invaluable insight into navigating separation and divorce with dignity, clarity, and compassion.

Far from the combative courtroom narratives we often hear, this episode focuses on conscious uncoupling—an approach to separation that honours emotional wellbeing, mutual respect, and long-term peace. Colette offers expert guidance on how to build a supportive network ("your tribe"), how to seek out trustworthy advice early on, and why staying out of the “trauma drama triangle” is key.

Together, Heather and Colette explore the emotional and practical aspects of separation: from looking after yourself through the process, to working with professionals who match your values, to using SMART targets to reduce overwhelm and stay grounded. It’s an empowering listen for anyone facing a relationship transition—filled with encouragement, honesty, and actionable steps.

About Your Host:

Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Collette:

Collette is a Partner at Knights in the Family team.  She advises on a wide range of private family law matters including legal issues arising from relationship breakdown (married, civil partnered, and unmarried) including child arrangements, matters relating to nuptial agreements to protect family wealth, and surrogacy.

 

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In this deeply empowering episode of Revolutionise Your Love Life, Heather Garbutt speaks with breakup coach and podcast host Janice Formichella about her personal journey of surviving domestic violence. With honesty, clarity and compassion, Janice opens up about the cycle of emotional, financial, and physical abuse she endured—and how she finally found the strength to leave for good.

This episode explores how domestic violence can begin with love bombing, charm and seduction, and slowly escalate into isolation, control and terror. It also addresses the painful realities of victim blaming, the emotional aftermath of trauma, and how survivors can begin to rebuild their lives.

Key Takeaways

Janice breaks down the early warning signs of abuse, from overwhelming gifts and attention to the subtle erosion of independence and support networks.

Janice explains why leaving an abuser is rarely straightforward, discussing financial control, emotional dependency, and social isolation—and offering practical advice for escaping safely.

She reflects on her journey of healing, including the role of Codependents Anonymous, trauma therapy, and the joy of finally building a healthy, independent life on her own terms.

About The Host:

Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Janice:

Janice Formichella is a breakup coach and the host of the podcasts Sex and the Solo Girl and Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On. She is passionate about helping people from all backgrounds to beat their breakup, overcome loneliness, and make the end of a relationship the start of a powerful new beginning. She is also a survivor of domestic violence and now uses her story to support others and raise awareness about the harmful impact of victim blaming.

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In this heartfelt and courageous episode of Revolutionise Your Love Life, Heather Garbutt is joined by Janice Formichella—breakup coach, podcast host, and outspoken advocate for healing after relational trauma.

Together, they explore the often-taboo topic of family estrangement. Janice shares her deeply personal story of navigating life after separating from her birth family, revealing the emotional complexity and, ultimately, the liberation that came from her decision.

Janice opens up about her upbringing in a strict religious household, the betrayal she faced after choosing a different path, and the years of hurt that followed her efforts to reconnect. Her story is both devastating and empowering, offering insight into the psychological toll of toxic family dynamics—and the strength it takes to walk away.

For anyone feeling isolated in their experience or burdened by the shame of choosing distance from family, this conversation is a light in the dark.

Key Takeaways:

Normalising Estrangement: Janice highlights why family estrangement, though painful, is sometimes essential for safety, growth and emotional health.

The Scapegoat Role in Dysfunctional Families: An eye-opening conversation about how family systems unconsciously assign roles, and the psychological toll of being cast as the ‘problem’.

A Roadmap to Healing: Janice offers compassionate guidance on how to begin healing from estrangement—including building new community, finding professional support, and trusting one’s decision.

About The Host: Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Janice:

Janice Formichella is a breakup coach and the host of the podcasts Sex and the Solo Girl and

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On. She is passionate about helping people from all

backgrounds to beat their breakup, overcome loneliness, and make the end of a relationship the start of a powerful new beginning. She is also a survivor of domestic violence and now uses her story to support others and raise awareness about the harmful impact of victim blaming.

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In this solo episode of Revolutionise Your Love Life, relationship psychotherapist and love coach Heather Garbutt explores the complex inner world of empaths in relationships. Drawing from both professional insight and personal experience, she examines how deeply caring and emotionally attuned individuals can unintentionally lose themselves in love.

The episode focuses on the shadow side of empathy—when giving becomes over-functioning, boundaries become blurred, and relationships drift into imbalance. Heather speaks candidly about how these patterns can leave empaths burnt out, unfulfilled, and even vulnerable to narcissistic partners.

💬 Key takeways:

Heather outlines the warning signs of empathy becoming self-sacrifice—how the instinct to care for others can turn into emotional depletion and burnout.

Listeners are guided through how empaths can unconsciously attract narcissistic or highly self-focused partners, and what can be done to break this pattern.

Heather offers practical tools for cultivating self-worth, honouring one’s needs, and stepping into emotionally balanced and fulfilling partnerships

This is an episode for anyone who has ever cared too much, given too much, or felt unseen in their relationships.

About The Host: Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

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