Rethinking Traditional Horsemanship and Finding a Kinder Way Forward

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In this episode of Ride On with Julie Goodnight, we take a deep dive into what non-confrontational handling looks like with horses. I’ll share how guidance differs from micromanagement, and how trust, consistency, and clarity create willing partners—not resentful ones. I’ll start with some seasonal updates from the ranch, then share a powerful story about a mare named Truth Takes Time, who showed me just how far quiet leadership can go. Finally, we’ll wrap up with listener questions on managing ulcers, working through disagreements with your trainer, and a question about one of the important tenets of Classical Horsemanship.

Desensitizing with Advance & Retreat  -

Clear cues/sequencing cues/cue clarity  -

Calming exercises: 3-step circling and lateral flexion/changes of direction  -

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Have you ever asked your horse to do something—and got a big, resounding “NO”? Maybe they planted their feet, balked at the trailer, or just shut down. It’s frustrating, even scary at times.

In this month’s episode of Ride On with Julie Goodnight, we’re tackling one of the most misunderstood behaviors in horses: refusal—and what it really means.

Show Notes:

Julie Goodnight’s Blog Archives:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/julie-blog/

Fear and Refusal:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/rearing-to-go/

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In this episode, we’ll kick things off with a crisp fall update from the ranch, then I’ll share a story from my days galloping racehorses—an experience that taught me a lot about how to handle speed in the saddle. 

Our main topic this month is adapted from one of my live presentations called The Need for Speed—all about helping riders advance their skills so they can ride safely and confidently at higher speeds.

And finally, we’ll wrap up with our What the Hay? Q&A segment, where I’ll answer your questions about a mare’s emotional recovery after her rider falls off, how to master the sitting trot, 

and how to handle the tough situation of an older horse showing signs of lameness.

Show Notes:

Show Notes:

Julie Goodnight’s Balance Exercise:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/may-blog-2025/

Pulley Rein Stop (Runaway Horse):

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/october-2024-blog/

Sit the trot/Balance Exercise:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/training-advice/sitting-the-trot/

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/videos/video-training-tips/daily-dose-of-horsemanship-homework-balance-exercise-raggedy-ann/

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In this episode, we’ll kick things off with an update from my ranch, I’ll share a story about one of the best horses I’ve ever owned — and the unexpected lesson I learned through her — and then we’ll dive deep into a crucial horsemanship topic: deciding whether or not to let someone else ride your horse. It’s a common question, and *spoiler alert* There's no one-size-fits-all answer, but this month we’ll explore the pros, cons, and everything in between, on this topic.

And at the end of the show, I’ll answer some excellent listener questions in our expanded What the Hay? Q&A segment — covering everything from clicker training without hand feeding, to physical fitness for older riders, to herd behavior, trailering challenges, bit selection, and more.

Show Notes:

Julie Goodnight’s Blog Archives:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/julie-blog/

Special Highlight Blog:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/should-i-let-someone-else-ride-my-horse/

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Julie’s Shop:

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In this episode of Ride on with Julie Goodnight, she shares her secrets for teaching a horse to stand tied patiently, with consideration for the horse's perspective. 

SHOW NOTES:

Julie Goodnight’s Blog Archives:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/julie-blog/

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Rope Halter & Lead:

https://shop.juliegoodnight.com/product/packaged-premium-marine-rope-lead-halter-with-accent-noseband/

Safe Clip:

https://shop.juliegoodnight.com/product/slow-release-clip/

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Today’s podcast is on a subject that many riders ask about, "How to get started in Dressage." I decided to use "entry-level dressage," for both English and Western riders, as the first long-term goal and set of lesson plans in my new training app. This big goal can be broken down into almost an infinite number of small steps, lessons, or skills to master, which I'll share in this podcast!

Show Notes:

Do You have a Codependent Relationship with your Horse:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/julies-blog/do-you-have-a-codependent-relationship-with-your-horse/

Smooth Transitions:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/julies-blog/small-steps-to-big-achievements/

Good on Trail: Bad in the Arena (requires login): https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/training-advice/issues-from-the-saddle-good-on-trail-bad-in-the-arena/

Proactive Riding-Taking the Driver’s Seat (requires login):

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/proactive-riding-take-the-drivers-seat/

Every Arena has a scary place (requires login):

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/training-advice/issues-from-the-saddle-spooky-horse/

Private Lesson Audio by Julie Goodnight:

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In this episode of RideOn, I’ll talk about building your confidence with horses. It’s a huge subject that affects equestrians of all ages and ability levels, and I know you’ll find some helpful tips.

And in “What the Hay? Q&A” at the end of this episode, we have questions from listeners about a hard-to-catch horse, ground manners for a young filly, how to correct a mare that pins her ears, PLUS I’ll answer the burning question: why does my horse always roll after I bathe him?

Show Notes:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/horse-goals-or-bust-goal-setting/

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Horses are social animals with a strong herd instinct, and different rules apply when humans are involved. I teach what I call the “no fraternizing” rule at the beginning of all my clinics and here it is:

When in the presence of humans, when being handled, led, tied, or ridden, a horse should not interact with, fraternize with, or make any displays of herd behavior toward another horse.

Show Notes:

Julie Goodnight Horsemanship Facebook Page:

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Contact Us:

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Submit your question to Julie for answering in the What the Hay Q&A:

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Instinctive Behavior:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/horse-behavior-horses-instincts/

No Fraternizing Rule:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/julies-blog/the-making-of-a-trail-horse-part-3/

Raise Your Foal Right:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/julies-blog/raise-your-foal-right/

Focus on Me/Focus on Nothing:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/back-from-the-brink-managing-emotional-meltdowns-in-horses/

Reinforcement or Correction:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/training-advice/the-dish-on-discipline/

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/julies-blog/guest-blog-my-top-3-lessons-from-the-julie-goodnight-yoga-riding-retreat/

Training & Continuing Education Resources:

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https://shop.juliegoodnight.com/product/behavior/

Ground Manners:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7jXrDt6vVg&list=PLlJpbEbtHKYrmKbJMz8AraYSJAu7bDZq

Ground Manners: Leadline Boundaries:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CeR43GKXmQI&t=1533s

Ground Manners, Establishing Boundaries:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQjaYTNs6fE&t=73s

Julie Goodnight: Clip from show 719 Norwegian Feud (Fjord Horse with Poor Ground Manners):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BlLvPnP6e2Y&t=159s

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For years, I’ve been sharing my insights on horsemanship, helping riders like you build better relationships with your horses and reach your full potential in the saddle. And one of the most powerful tools I’ve found in this journey is the simple yet profound act of setting goals. 

Show Notes:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/horse-goals-or-bust-goal-setting/

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/julies-blog/making-time-for-horses/

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/?s=Horse+Goals+or+Bust

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/interactive-membership-benefits/

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/training-advice/fun-games-and-exercises/

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/april-blog-2025/

We do our annual vet exams, vaccinations, and dental care every Spring. Just as we prioritize annual check-ups for ourselves, a yearly wellness exam by an equine veterinarian is paramount for maintaining your horse's health.

Annual Horse Health Maintenance Checklist:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/annual-horse-health-maintenance-checklist/

Issues From The Ground: Ground Manners For The Veterinary Visit

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/issues-from-the-ground-ground-manners-for-the-veterinary-visit/

First Aid Kit:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/first-aid/

Ground Work:

https://shop.juliegoodnight.com/product/lead-line-leadership-full-video/

Stand Still:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/training-advice/stand-statue-still/

Training:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/training-advice/head-down-cue/

How to (and How Not to) Handle Your Horse’s Feet (Video): https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/videos/video-training-tips/how-to-and-how-not-to-handle-your-horses-feet/ Free

How to Get a 5-Star Rating From Your Farrier:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/how-to-get-a-5-star-rating-from-your-farrier/

Desensitizing Lesson with Truth (Video): https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/videos/video-training-tips/desensitizing-lesson-with-truth/

Issues From The Ground: Desensitizing To Touch In Sensitive Areas:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/free-articles/issues-from-the-ground-desensitizing-to-touch-in-sensitive-areas/

Vaccine:

https://signin.juliegoodnight.com/articles/training-advice/safety-concerns-administering-vaccines/

Fecal Egg Count Kits/Info.:

https://horsemenslab.com/faq.html

Silver Honey Wound Spray:

https://absorbine.com/products/silver-honey-combo-pack?variant=39493392990369

Cosequin Equine:

https://www.cosequin.com/horses/julie-goodnight-chooses-cosequin-asu-joint-hoof-pellets/?

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