Roses Are Dead

Just because you want to do something in your heart doesn’t mean it will come easy. Going into a relationship, you should put forth all efforts to be loyal and faithful to your partner. Otherwise agreeing to be in a committed relationship is pointless. If you are someone who hasn’t been in a relationship in some time or have yet to be in a relationship at all; you may find it difficult to be and remain faithful, ESPECIALLY if you and your partner are getting too comfortable! But there are so many roads and avenues that will lead you to being and STAYING that faithful and loyal partner that your significant other chose. Press PLAY and listen to Terry and Kam go through a list of things you can do to put forth the effort to stay faithful in your relationship. But always remember ladies and gentlemen, a cheater is a cheater and they cheat because they want to, not because of you! 

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As human beings, we all have experienced a situation where something that once brought us great joy is now boring to us. This could be a career, a hobby, even a relationship. And the reason for this is simply because we expected the joy to always be maintained, even without doing anything to keep it fresh! In relationships, this is extremely important because all that work you put in over time can be in vain if you do not find ways to revive and keep alive the companionship. Leaving too much space and opportunity for things to die down and get boring is very risky for a relationship and the true enemy of a healthy relationship. Press play and listen to Terry and Kam give a plethora of tips in regards to HOW to keep things fresh with your partner so you never forget exactly why you chose them as your person! 

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People always want to know your business. People always want to know the real you. People always want to learn about your past and what makes you who you are. But those same people don’t even know how to create a safe space for the ones they love and have so many questions for. Those same people end up judging, gaslighting, giving unsolicited advice or simply making a person feel like they can’t come to them about shit! However, creating a safe space is not easy and safe spaces are not easy to come by. What’s your safe space? Does everyone in your life provide one for you and vice versa? Press play and listen to Terry and Kam discuss the things both men and women can do to create a better space for their partners! 

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Have you ever met someone in person that you follow on social media and find out they’re in a relationship? And you would’ve never been able to tell based off of their social media? Is that necessarily a bad thing? What about if they post every else except that? Does it then become a bad thing? Why do people even hide their significant others and under what circumstances is it okay to be more private than public? Is posting your partner on social media something worth compromising about if that’s what they truly desire? Why do people show EVERY SINGLE THING that goes on in their relationship? When push comes to shove, to each their own always but in this instance, press play and listen to Terry and Kam tell a couple of stories of their own! 

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Before you lock in with someone, you have to make sure you both envision your future together from the same perspective. This isn’t to say you have to agree on every single little thing but the things that are important? Definitely. And these particular things need to be discussed prior to getting into a relationship because it’s a tough realization that you’ve wasted your time. Does this person even want children? Do they want to stay in their hometown forever? Did they vote for Trump? So many things that can cause an individual to realize they are not compatible with a person can be figured out in the TALKING stage if people actually asked questions. Press play and listen to Terry and Kam discuss some of their own plans for their own futures and how to determine if you share a vision with your person or if you two are on completely different pages. 

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More hard conversations....

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They say you get out of the universe what you put in. And as far as energy, good deeds and moral; that may be true! But in dating? Sometimes you find yourself giving more and more while the opposing party isn’t giving anything at all! But if you get to counting favors, is it really genuine? If you start tallying up what you do versus what they don’t do, should that be the end? If you’re only giving this to get that, is that truly showing sincerity? Perhaps that guy was doing all that they could for you…meanwhile you was just trying to impress him. Perhaps that woman trying to impress you was only doing it because they realized what you were truly after? At what point does transactional dating become an issue within a situation and is it even fixable after a certain point? Press play and listen to Terry, Kam and special guest Ramee The Writer discuss the ins and outs of making sure you get what you feel you deserve without entitlement. 

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When you fail to open your eyes and see someone for who they truly are, you get caught in a vortex that could blind you to the point where you don’t see what’s happening. You put them on a pedestal for likeness or love and they are doing the same thing over and over but you don’t register it because you don’t want to believe it’s happening. But when you finally get fed up, which could be months or even years later? You look back and realize this has BEEN going on and you probably should’ve BEEN gone. Those things people do once and then again in a few weeks and maybe take a break and do it again in a few months? Those are called patterns. And if you don’t pay close attention to how someone else moves and what their patterns are, you can end up wasting a lot of time and feeling like you were blindsided, when in reality, it was in your face the entire time. Press play and listen to Terry, Kam and special guest Osiris speak on the patterns they’ve experienced in the past and how it changed how they dealt with others moving forward in regards to their patterns! 

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