It can be challenging to keep that thankful glow about you when confronted about your relationship status, your lifestyle, or the myriad of other things you’d rather not discuss with someone you see once a year and who is more interested in the spectacle of it, as you gobble your turkey. 

In today’s episode we address some of the toxic language and unsolicited advice that you might hear around the holiday. Go in prepared this year and set some healthy boundaries, so you don’t find yourself on the spot again. Avoid waking up in the middle of the night with the perfect comeback, 12 hours too late. Your holiday experience is under your control. YOU set the guidelines, the boundaries, and the expectations. Listen for tips on how to make this Thanksgiving go exactly the way you envision it, and even have some fun!

(00:00:00) Welcome to the podcast and the holidays

(00:02:08) What is “unsurity” and how it leads to taking more sh*t

(00:04:40) You are not the CEO of someone else’s life

(00:12:17) Funny clapbacks for comments on relationship status

(00:15:40) Funny body shaming, diet culture clapbacks 

(00:16:24) Clapbacks for parenting comments

(00:19:00) Tip #1 for dealing with difficult family members: radical acceptance

(00:22:10) Tip #2: How to manage your expectations 

(00:23:53) Tip #3: Set a time limit 

(00:26:48) Tip #4: Plan some games 

(00:29:50) Tip #5: Go easy on the booze 

(00:30:56) Tip #6: How to create clear boundaries

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