Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World

Saying Yes When You Mean No: Jacqueline LeKachman on Sexual Compliance, Losing Her Virginity & Gen Z Dating Culture


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For the 212th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes writer and teacher Jacqueline LeKachman for a candid Gen Z dispatch on sex, consent, and dating culture.

In this episode, Jacqueline shares her experience of losing her virginity at 22—a moment that left her feeling disconnected from her body and later revealed itself as an instance of sexual compliance: saying yes to sex without truly wanting it. We explore how she processed the experience, what it taught her about desire and boundaries, her evolving views on relationship models, and where she’s at on the sex and dating front today. Jacqueline gives us a fascinating glimpse into the Gen Z dating scene.

For more from today's guest, Jacqueline LeKachman:

  • Read Jacqueline's article for Women's Health on sexual compliance 'I Haven’t Had Sex In Two Years, And It’s The Best Decision I Ever Made'
  • Follow Jacqueline on Instagram @jacqueline.lekachman

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