Sex Love Psychedelics

Sex Love Psychedelics

By Dr. Cat MeyerHealth & FitnessSexuality
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  • 121: Polarity, Spirituality, + Sensuality in BDSM with Miss Lila Sage

    Are you curious about embodying a dominant role in the bedroom? My dear friend Miss Lila Sage joins me on the most recent Eat Play Sex podcast to share about her work. Lila is an international Dominatrix, certified hypnotherapist, and performance artist. Her work is a prime example of how eroticism can be an enriching and activating experience, rather than depleting.

    I’m honored Lila will be teaching about power play, polarity, and BDSM in the next round of Erotically Undone!

    In this episode you will hear:

    • How a professional dominatrix expresses BDSM and eroticism
    • How chemistry, attraction, and energy dynamics synergize together
    • The art of role-playing with a partner
    • How to weave sensuality + spirituality with BDSM
    • Erotic hypnosis + psychological play
    • How confidence + empowerment can be a result of BDSM
    • Where can people find events or communities or dungeons in their area?
    • How to take Miss Lila Sage’s workshop in Erotically Undone
    • THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

      Miss Lila Sage is an international Dominatrix, certified hypnotherapist, and performance artist.

      She interweaves spirituality and energy work with her classical training as a Dominatrix to transform play into sacred expression.

      Beyond erotic entertainment and private facilitation, Lila is an educator on consent, inclusivity, and sensuality.

      She has been featured in Anthony Padilla’s “I spent a day with Dominatrixes”, modeled for Torture Garden London, and was a guest of honor at the German Fetish Ball in Berlin.

      She is also the Creatrix behind Fétische, an immersive theatre experience bringing fetish to the stage.

      Playboy calls her work simply “a fetish dream come true”.

      Find out more about her at MissLilaSage.com

      Links from the show:

      Erotically Undone: 6 week course for women/femme on sex + eroticism.

      https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/EroticallyUndone

      Want more?

      https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays

      Check out SexLoveYoga.com and EatPlaySex.com for more juicy articles, guides, erotic audio stories, + more!

      47 min
    • 120: Quickie - Edging to Amplify Your Orgasms

      In this week’s Quickie Episode of Eat Play Sex podcast, I introduce to you one of my favorite s/xual techniques: Edging. Edging is the practice of teasing the F*ck out of yourself or your lover so that their desire turns into CRAVING + their orgasmic potential becomes potent + body shattering.

      This is a non-gendered experience of frustration + ecstasy that can be enjoyed by all. It teaches you how to transform the frustration of non-fulfillment in order to access the gold of your orgasmic bliss. 

      Sounds juicy right?.

      In this episode, you’ll hear:

      • How the practice of edging can bring more expansive orgasms.
      • Examples of how edging can increase your polarity, passion, and pleasure.
      • My personal tips and techniques when it comes to edging. 
      • The different edging variations: The Stop, The Distractor, or The Continuous Edge.
      • How edging can help men with early ejaculation or difficulty maintaining erections
      • Learn which edging variation might be right for you
      • Tune into this quickie to get inspired for your workday, or even send it to your boo just to get their mind fantasizing + warmed up.

        Like foreplay for your day. ;)


        LINKS MENTIONED ON THE SHOW:

        Erotically Undone: 6 week course for women - https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/EroticallyUndone

        Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays

        If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

        23 min
      • 119: Mastery of Primal Sexual Energy for Men with Destin Gerek

        As more men access their primal s.xual energy, the world will be a more balanced place. In this fiery episode, Certified Sexologist + CEO of The Evolved Masculine, Destin Gerek joins me to talk about accessing the primal sexual energy as a man, what might be getting in the way of your being able to harness it, + techniques for sex that will amplify your orgasmic potential.

        We even give the partners of men tips on how to invite the conversation towards more sensual, slow, and present type of sex. This episode is packed with sexy goodness.

        In this episode you’ll hear:

        • Redefining sex to be more than intercourse
        • The cultural struggles + wounds men have to navigate as it relates to sex
        • How to responsibly respond as a partner when shame comes up
        • Strategies for men to release the pressure on performing and having more pleasurable experiences
        • Tips on non-ejaculatory orgasms + moving sexual energy through the body
        • How to communicate your needs efficiently to either slow things down or turn it up a notch
        • THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

          Destin Gerek is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists Int’l, he is the founder & CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men & author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin hosts the D3c0d1ng W0m3n podcast, live streamed on Twitch and distributed on most platforms.

          Want to join his Men’s Self Mastery program?

          I HIGHLY recommend.

          Check it out here: http://EvolvedMasculine.com/sexloveyoga


          LINKS MENTIONED ON THE SHOW:

          Erotically Undone: 6 week course for women - https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/EroticallyUndone

          Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays

          If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

          52 min
        • 118: Quickie - Anal Sex Guide

          I’m giving you another quickie today focused on tips to help your anal sex game. Getting to know your own ass-ets can be an incredibly fun and pleasurable sexual activity. This episode will tell you everything you need to know about booty play.

          In this episode you’ll hear:

          • My top tips on anal play
          • The anatomy of your butt and how you can educate yourself to strengthen your connection with your body
          • How to receive the most pleasure from your ass
          • Why it’s important to find a sex-positive physician
          • Water based lubes vs silicone based lubes - Which is the best?
          • The best ways to train yourself to connect with your pleasure
          • Why it’s important to not over douche
          • The safe way to use dilating sets
          • How to prepare yourself for partner play
          • Attuning and communicating with your partner
          • If it’s normal for bleeding to occur
          • Which toys I suggest and juicy resources to continue your education

          • Resources shared in this episode:

            The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino

            Intimate Invasions: The Erotic Ins and Outs of Enema Play

            Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin

            The Surrender: An Erotic Memoir by Toni Bentley

            The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men by Bill Brent

            The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex by Karlyn Lotney

            Nina Hartley’s Guide to Anal Sex -- Video on adameve.com


            WANT MORE?

            Erotically Undone - 6 week sex course for women/femme

            https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/EroticallyUndone

            Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays

            If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

            23 min
          • 117: Quickie - Friends With Benefits + Loverships

            It's time to get back into your pleasure-filled game. This "quickie" sex share episode is full of important factors you need to consider when you’re stepping into (or contemplating) a Friends with Benefits. Love + non-attachment are two key elements here, and I even share my personal process when creating lovers from friends, and friends from lovers. 

            In this episode you’ll hear:

            -Questions to guide you if you’re curious about entering into a friends with benefits.

            -Perspective of why it’s important to hold true to your individual values

            -Reframing hookup culture to be a sex positive culture

            -How to create strong boundaries that align with you and your partner’s desires

            -The process of gaining clarity on what are you NOT available for or desiring

            -The power of consent and how to communicate your needs clearly

            -Love + nonattachment and the dynamic nature of being human


            WANT MORE?

            Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays

            If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

            31 min
          • 116: Psychedelics, Non-traditional Marriage, and Vulnerability in Love with Kelli + Conner Moore

            Sex love and psychedelics are probably my three favorite topics to talk about. In my opinion, all three of these are massive catalysts for personal evolution. Kelli + Conner Moore, an epic power couple, join me to jam on relationships, life after marriage, and how to navigate them when you + your boo think and talk and have an interest in different things. Aka most couples.


            In this episode you’ll hear:

            • The personal + relational expansion that comes with managing conflict, exploring with psychedelics + opening your relationship.
            • If love is a feeling or a choice.
            • Reconstructing the collective images of relationship, love, marriage to serve you. 
            • How to navigate individual differences in your relationship.
            • The different sexual progressions: Resting, healing, curiosity, adventure, transcendence.
            • The impact that psychedelic journeys have had on their relationship and as individuals. 
            • The lessons and lovers of non-traditional relating.

            • Kelli + Conner also answer listener questions:

              • “I know that vulnerability is important but I literally don’t know how to start that with someone. It feels awkward to just start talking about myself.”
              • What do you do if you are spiritual, but your partner isn’t and you want them to be?

              • THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS

                Conner and Kelli Moore are the hosts of the top rated podcast Ok, Babe. and co-founders of the premiere media company, Soulfire Productions. With a passion for curiosity, freedom and doing things differently, the newlyweds share their experiences around ethical non-monogamy, communication, spirituality and plant medicine. Conner is also the host of Politically Homeless, a political commentary podcast that calls out hypocrisy and intentional divisiveness to create a little bit of leverage.


                WANT MORE?

                Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays

                If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

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                1 hr 15 min
              • 115: Breakups, Boundaries + Overcoming Unhealthy Dating Patterns with Amy Chan

                How do you handle breakups? Are your go-to tools a pint of ice cream watching chick-flicks with your best homegirl while throwing used kleenex at the screen? Or do you believe the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else?

                ⠀

                Amy Chan, the brilliant founder of Breakup Bootcamp Retreat and author of the Breakup Bootcamp is here to help us through the process of healing our hearts after a breakup. We even get into the ways you can improve your dating life + release the patterns that have bound you.

                ⠀

                In this episode you will hear:

                • The different breakup coping mechanisms
                • Strategies for moving forward in the newer stage of a breakup
                • Navigating shame + balancing a shared responsibility
                • “Dating patterns” - Can we break the cycle? 
                • How to identify healthy boundaries in relationships + for yourself
                • Short term relationship vs. Long term relationship heartbreak
                • How men and women fall in love differently
                • How sexuality + sensuality can help heal heartbreak
                • ⠀

                  Amy Chan even answers some of our audience questions:

                  ⠀

                  • How can you tell if it’s something to keep working on or move on already?
                  • How can I support my friend who is literally crying over this dumbass dude for a year now and she needs to move the fuck on?
                  • ⠀

                    Notes from the show:

                    Breakup Bootcamp Retreat: www.renewbreakupbootcamp.com

                    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

                    Amy Chan is the Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, a retreat that takes a scientific and spiritual approach to heal the heart. She is also the Editor-in-Chief of Heart Hackers Club - an online magazine that focuses on the psychology behind love, lust, and desire. The Observer calls her  "A relationship expert whose work is like that of a scientific Carrie Bradshaw" and her company has been featured across national media including Good Morning America, Vogue, Glamour, Nightline, and the front page of The New York Times. Her book, Breakup Bootcamp - The Science of Rewiring Your Heart, published by Harper Collins is available now.

                    WANT MORE?

                    Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again.

                    If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again.

                    50 min
                  • 114: Gender Fluidity, Navigating Pronouns, + Identifying as Non-binary with Eleven XX

                    There’s a lot of talk about the concept of gender, and the conversations can move fast about what is most inclusive + accurate. Eleven XX is a two-spirit and identity alchemist + advocate here to drop some magical knowledge about the gender spectrum. You'll hear both the raw, lived, spiritual process of a person going through their discovery around gender + identity, as well as, my more clinical voice from the experience of research and some of my students.

                    In this episode you will hear:

                    • The difference between sex and gender identity + gender expression
                    • How we can approach inclusion that encompasses the entire gender spectrum
                    • Examples of how to step forward as a non-binary ally
                    • The distress that happens when gender identity does not match their assigned sex at birth - Gender dysphoria
                    • Using they/them pronouns
                    • How spirituality can be a resource for making sense of life + strife
                    • Eleven even answers some of our audience questions:

                      • How to find spaces where you can express your gender fluidity?
                      • Do you think our partners should be more committed to our evolution than the relationships?
                      • THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

                        Once upon a time, two globe-trotting magicians had a child that was born with a glitch in the matrix --not 10, but 11 toes! Yep, its true. Raised within the world of magic and make-believe since the beginning aided in the ability to remain within the truest essence of childlike awe and wonder. From a young age, this cosmic being has been channeling spirits, been a predictor of future events, and a true master at reading energy. For over the last decade, Eleven has been a sought-out dream seer, clairvoyant, spiritual teacher, and entertainer in Los Angeles for top celebrities, world-class entrepreneurs, and some of today's leading thought leaders. Eleven is an otherworldly two-spirit, an identity alchemist, and modern-day mystic here on a mission to initiate souls back home to that which they already are, the infinite. With an ancestral background that spans across the globe (Native American, Chinese, +more) they intuitively blend sacred ritual practices from the indigenous into their very essence.

                        www.instagram.com/iamelevenxx

                        www.thesoulinititation.com

                        WANT MORE?

                        Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again.

                        If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again.

                        51 min
                      • 113: Initiating Sex

                        “Not tonight honey.” 3 infamous words that can sting like a dagger to the heart. But what if there was more information hidden behind these words that could help revive our sex life + desire? Sexual initiation is a vulnerable act. We can help ourselves when we know how our body and that of our partner best receives our efforts. Here we talk about the different styles of initiation that we can approach out partner with in more effective + meaningful ways that are unique to them + you.

                        In this episode you’ll hear:

                        • Why initiating sex can be vulnerable + what contributes to our avoiding the role
                        • How past rejections can contribute to a freeze response + diminish sexual desire
                        • The importance of knowing what our styles of receiving, giving, + receiving a no when it comes to initiation of sex
                        • How you can identify your style of initiation (We give 5 to help)
                        • Effective tools for communicating it with your partner

                        • NOTES FROM THE SHOW:

                          www.yonipleasurepalace.com and use my code DRCAT for 10% off


                          WANT MORE?

                          Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again.

                          If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again.

                          34 min
                        • 112: To Please a Pussy

                          Does your pussy struggle with experiencing orgasm at times or always? There are many reasons why our orgasms may be elusive. In this episode, we explore what some of the blocks + barriers may be for sex that is more optimal for your pussy. We look outside the traditional sense of “sex” + into concepts that might be more authentic + exciting for your body needs.  We also discuss different tips + techniques to broaden your options for play.

                          In this episode you’ll hear:

                          • Why women/femme may struggle with experiencing orgasms
                          • The importance of redefining sex outside of the cultural conditioning we’ve grown up with
                          • The trap of co-dependency when it comes to getting our sexual needs met
                          • Creating sovereignty in our own pleasure + satisfaction in sex
                          • What Dr Cat learned from sex with women
                          • The power of playfulness + sensuality when it comes to sexual exploration
                          • Techniques for expanding your sexual repertoire
                          • Outer + Intravaginal exploration with g-spot stimulation, cervical stimulation, grinding, shallowing, and more!

                          • NOTES FROM THE SHOW:

                            www.yonipleasurepalace.com and use my code DRCAT for 10% off


                            WANT MORE?

                            Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again.

                            If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again.

                            46 min

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