Sex With Emily

By Dr. Emily MorseHealth & Fitness Sexuality

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Sex With Emily episodes

November 25, 2025 How to Talk to Teens About Sex
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with developmental psychologist Dr. Aliza Pressman—and discovers why her parenting book kept her up at night, even though she's not a parent. Why an entire generation is having less sex: the isolation epidemic where teens sit next to each other scrolling instead of connecting—and why even being in the same room doesn't mean being together anymore.
The porn conversation most parents get wrong: instead of saying "this isn't good for you" (which teens reject), try "watching this is a vote for exploitation"—because teenagers care more about justice than their own wellbeing. The five principles that work for every parenting crisis—from catching your kid watching porn to finding your vibrator: relationship, reflection, regulation, rules, and repair. Why your reaction when your nine-year-old feels aroused by porn determines whether they carry shame for years—and the exact words to say instead. The pronoun and gender panic parents are feeling: why we don't have the data yet, the pendulum always swings back, and why being curious beats being certain.
The magic wand incident: what to text your mortified teenager after she's caught with your vibrator—and why "I'm here with any questions" is enough. The truth about love that Dr. Pressman wishes she'd known younger: love is not anxiety.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
2:10 - The Five R's Framework for Difficult Conversations
4:58 - How Phones Are Destroying Teen Connection & Intimacy
7:08 - Talking to Kids About Porn: The Social Justice Approach
10:12 - What to Do When Your Kid Watches Porn (Real Parent Story)
14:34 - The Power of Repair in All Relationships
20:30 - Navigating Gender, Pronouns & Sexual Identity with Kids
28:26 - Why We Need to Stop Gendering Empathy
34:00 - Raising Sexually Healthy Humans Without Being Weird
38:30 - My Teenager Found My Vibrator: What Now?
39:46 - Five Quickfire Questions on Sex & Relationships

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48 min
November 21, 2025 5 Things Secretly Stealing Your Pleasure
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings on sex educator Dr. Emily Nagoski for a live conversation—and they get brutally honest about their own sex lives falling apart.

Why even bestselling sex experts lose their desire—and how Dr. Emily's nervous system was so shot she didn't even want orgasms.

The myth that kept her terrified to stop sex once it started: believing "blue balls" required hospitalization—and the truth that you can stop and start anytime.

A parent worried their college-age kids aren't having sex or relationships—the questions to ask instead of pushing sex on them, and why nobody dies from not having sex but people do die from loneliness.

The most important thing parents can do around sexuality: unlearn your own shame first—because your embarrassment when they ask questions teaches them more than any words ever could.

The reframe for anyone struggling with desire: what you actually want when you want sex (it's not orgasm—you can do that alone), and what you don't want when you don't want sex.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Introduction
1:26 – Sex Experts Lose Desire Too
7:24 – The Pleasure Thieves
17:53 – Why It's Okay to Stop During Sex
20:20 – Cold Feet and Orgasms
25:50 – The Role of Shame
30:17 – Navigating Social Media Censorship
35:41 – Teaching Kids About Sex
38:47 – The Patriarchy Problem
39:49 – Closing

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43 min
November 18, 2025 Your Dating List Is Keeping You Single
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman to dismantle the fairy tales keeping you stuck in your dating life.

Why your mile-long partner checklist (six feet tall, specific job, perfect abs) is sabotaging your search for real compatibility—and the question you should ask instead: "How do I want to feel?"

The difference between dating for superficial traits versus shared life goals—why wanting a yoga partner matters way less than wanting the freedom to pursue your own interests in a relationship.

A caller who's getting ghosted on dating apps wonders if women have too many options—the real reason your profile isn't working, and it has nothing to do with competition.

The "three C's" that'll transform your dating profile overnight: strategic color to stand out, context that tells your story, and character that shows who you really are (no sunglasses photos—we need to see your eyes).

Why "chemistry at first sight" is actually lust, and you can't know if you love someone the minute you look into their eyes—the three-date rule that gives real connection time to build.

The reframe that takes the pressure off: stop trying to be liked and start being upfront about what you want—it'll filter out the wrong people and attract your actual match.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Introduction
1:21 – F The Fairytale
13:00 – The Dating Tracker Strategy That Changes Everything
22:48 – Values Over Political Labels in Dating
25:48 – The Chemistry Myth
34:15 – How to Know If You're Coming On Too Strong
45:07 – Dating Profile Photos: The Three C's
47:35 – Five Quickie Questions
49:17 – Closing and Where to Find Damona

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53 min
November 14, 2025 Terrified of Dating After Divorce (How To Bounce Back)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings back holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons for live caller coaching sessions that'll change how you think about sex and dating.
A woman married 10 years whose husband won't explore sexually at all—why "I want to try new things" might sound like "what we're doing isn't good enough" to a partner raised in a conservative home.
What "deepthroating" really represents when your partner grew up being told sex was wrong—and the outside-the-bedroom conversation they need to have before anything changes in bed.
A woman terrified about her first date after a breakup because she thinks the sex will be "unwilling"—the breathwork practice that gets you out of your anxious mind and into your confident body.
Why a first date is just a "warm-up" to see if you're having fun, not an audition for marriage—and how to tell if someone's worth seeing naked just by watching how they treat wait staff.
The reframe that takes all the pressure off dating: ditch the checklist, get present in your body, and remember you're the gatekeeper with all the power.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
2:11 - Growing Up Conservative: How Family Beliefs Kill Your Sex Life
6:39 - The Compliment Sandwich: How to Ask for What You Want
9:46 - Antidepressants Killed Our Sex Life: Now What?
12:44 - Medical Issues vs. Sexual Needs: Finding Balance
16:03 - The Power of Hope: Changing Your Sexual Dynamic Instantly
19:03 - Beyond Penetration: Alternative Ways to Stay Connected
24:57 - Dating After Great Sex: Overcoming Fear of Bad Partners
29:44 - First Date Anxiety: Embodiment Practice Before Going Out
34:47 - Stop Performing on Dates: Be Your Authentic Self Instead

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45 min
November 11, 2025 Why Cohabitation Destroys Intimacy (And How To Bring It Back)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica dive into your questions about sex and relationships.
A woman who's been living with her partner for over a year and can't stand his unsexy pecks on the lips anymore—why moving in together kills sexual tension and the surprising move she needs to make instead of waiting for him to change.
The listener who ended a relationship because their partner refused to give oral sex—why sexual dealbreakers are valid and the one question Dr. Emily wishes she'd asked before walking away.
A man in England with a specific fetish whose girlfriend gets "nasty and defensive" every time he tries to talk about sex—the cultural shame around sex talk that's blocking exploration and whether therapy books can replace actual therapy.
Why "I don't want to seem pushy" is code for "we have a communication problem"—and the difference between a fantasy you'd like to explore and a fetish that's a requirement for arousal.
The real reason your partner gets defensive when you bring up sex (spoiler: it's not about you).
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
3:14 - Why Living Together Kills Sexual Tension (And How to Fix It)
8:43 - Dating Someone with Herpes: What You Need to Know
10:32 - The Truth About Herpes Transmission and Risk
15:00 - My Partner Won't Give Oral: Should I Break Up?
17:43 - How to Have the Difficult Oral Sex Conversation
21:56 - When Your Partner Won't Explore Your Fetish
23:15 - Defensiveness in Sex Talks: Red Flag or Fixable?
25:54 - When Sexual Incompatibility Becomes a Deal Breaker

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31 min
November 07, 2025 Why I Opened My Marriage After 20 Years

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1 hr 9 min
November 04, 2025 Why Your Partner Refuses Intimacy (And What To Do)

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33 min
October 31, 2025 Why Couples Never Talk About Sex (And How to Start)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily tackles why starting intimate conversations early matters more than waiting for the "right time"—and how your sex life begins long before you get to the bedroom.
A 51-year-old in Spain has been dating someone gorgeous for six weeks with incredible chemistry but zero penetrative sex—discover why having the "are we ready?" conversation over dinner (not after making out) prevents months of unnecessary confusion.
Someone married for years realizes they're bisexual but fears coming out will end everything—learn the gradual approach that starts with general sex conversations, not dropping identity bombshells.
A long-term couple has never discussed desires or fantasies despite years together—find out why waiting until there's a problem to talk about sex means you've already waited too long.
Timestamps:
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily tackles why starting intimate conversations early matters more than waiting for the "right time"—and how your sex life begins long before you get to the bedroom.
A 51-year-old in Spain has been dating someone gorgeous for six weeks with incredible chemistry but zero penetrative sex—discover why having the "are we ready?" conversation over dinner (not after making out) prevents months of unnecessary confusion.
Someone married for years realizes they're bisexual but fears coming out will end everything—learn the gradual approach that starts with general sex conversations, not dropping identity bombshells.
A long-term couple has never discussed desires or fantasies despite years together—find out why waiting until there's a problem to talk about sex means you've already waited too long.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:17 - When to Have "The Sex Talk" in a New Relationship
3:26 - Building Sexual Anticipation vs. Rushing Into Sex
5:25 - How to Talk About Sex Before You've Had Sex
8:14 - Faking Orgasms: Why It Hurts Both Partners
11:31 - Reader Question: Navigating Painful Sex & Communication
16:42 - Creating Safety When Past Experiences Were Painful
20:38 - The Importance of Lube and Going Slow
24:16 - Reader Question: Coming Out as Bisexual in Marriage
28:36 - Starting Conversations About Desires & Fantasies
30:38 - Living Your Sexual Truth at Any Age
32:24 - Practical Steps for Difficult Conversations

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37 min
October 28, 2025 Why She's Uncomfortable Being on Top (And How to Fix It)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily breaks down why the sex positions everyone asks about aren't actually the secret to great sex—but learning to move your body intentionally might be.
A 21-year-old people pleaser can't stop until her boyfriend finishes (even when exhausted) but worries constantly when he's pleasuring her—discover why treating sex like a finish line kills orgasms. Someone's uncomfortable being on top because she feels exposed and on display—learn the slow-motion approach that makes cowgirl about grinding pleasure, not bouncing performance.
A woman's boyfriend has a strongly curved penis causing discomfort, plus he can't orgasm during sex despite being fine alone—find out why curved penises are actually G-spot advantages and why sex lasting "too long" damages vulva owners.

Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:04 - People Pleaser Advice: Breaking Sexual Double Standards
2:46 - The Importance of Being Present During Sex
3:40 - Reframing Sex as a Dance, Not a Finish Line
5:04 - The 69 Position: Practical Tips & Variations
6:25 - Side-by-Side 69: The Game Changer Position
11:42 - Doggy Style Deep Dive: Angles & Modifications
18:09 - Missionary Reimagined: Why It's Underrated
25:07 - Cowgirl Position: Taking Control of Your Pleasure
28:02 - Debunking the Coconut TikTok Trend
29:15 - The Lotus Position: Intimacy & Tantric Connection

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35 min
October 24, 2025 The Reverse Kegel That Pro Athletes Use for Better Sex
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In this Sex with Emily episode, wellness educator Lauren Roxburgh explains why Western medicine discarded the body system that might be blocking your orgasms—and how to bring it back online.
Lauren reveals fascia: the communication network your body uses to record trauma, send arousal signals, and feel everything. Medical schools in the 1900s threw it away as "packing wrap" without studying it. Now we know it's your sixth sense, and when it's congested, you age faster and feel less.
A woman with a tilted uterus faces sudden stabbing pain with her well-endowed partner after a decade of great sex—discover why the diagnosis isn't the whole story. Someone's tried every technique for premature ejaculation with zero results—learn why most solutions create the opposite effect and what pro athletes know about lasting longer. A post-menopausal woman on hormones still bleeds during painful sex—hear which ancient practices work when Western medicine falls short.
Lauren teaches the reverse Kegel (why opening beats squeezing), how stress clenches your pelvic floor without you knowing, why Brazilians walk differently than Westerners and what that reveals about sexual energy, and the breathing pattern that pumps toxins from your brain while awakening sensation below.
If pain during sex, premature ejaculation, or post-menopausal dryness have stumped your doctors, this reveals what they're missing.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
1:16 - What is Fascia? The Body's Communication Network Explained
5:05 - Why Western Medicine Ignored Fascia Until Now
9:36 - How Fascia Impacts Sexual Pleasure and Embodiment
15:03 - Releasing Trauma Stored in Your Body's Tissues
21:27 - The Blood Flow Problem Behind Sexual Dysfunction
27:34 - Pain During Sex: Understanding Your Pelvic Floor
30:24 - The Reverse Kegel Technique for Better Orgasms
33:40 - Painful Sex with Tilted Uterus: Solutions Beyond Positions
38:38 - Fixing Lifelong Premature Ejaculation with Body Work
43:07 - Postmenopausal Pain: When Hormones Aren't Enough

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55 min

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