Sira Busch received her formal autistic diagnosis a year ago and during this podcast episode she and her partner Marcel share their lived experience before and after the diagnosis.  They were both interested in math and that was one of the things that attracted them to each other.  Sira talks about the relationship she has had with herself for the last 28 years and how she fully accepted all the differences she saw, even though others may not have understood them.  Sira shares how she was often observing her feelings and herself through her own beautiful lens.  Sira wants to go on adventures alone and enjoys observing life in her own way.  Marcel and Sira both do power building and love sharing that common interest.  They talk about the way in which they make their meal time together work, the importance of Sira's routines and how they each treasure their own individual rooms and space, but have also created ways in which they can both have quality time together.  Sira addresses the accomodations she needed at work, but didn't get, and how that created some challenges with employment.

This is another wonderful episode that you may want to listen to with your partner.  Sira and Marcel have found such a beautiful flow that works for both of them to get their needs met, understand each other's routines and view their neurodiversity as a gift that gives them opportunities to grow as individuals and as a couple.

Sira just published a book on norms and stereotypes .  The book is in German, but if you want to check it our here are 2 links to her book:

https://www.lektora.de/buecher/weltbilder/

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Weltbilder-Normen-Stereotype-Gleichberechtigung-verhindern/dp/3954612267

You can also follow Sira  on Instagram @omnomnomknusper

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