Episode 71 of She Said It First brings all the smoke and the laughs with special guest Nicholas “Mr. Bankshot” Banks. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ waste no time roasting their friend like only besties can—calling him out for showing up late, questioning his “Lovely Day” legacy, and debating who’s really the best friend in the room.  

In What Irritated Me the Most This Week, the crew takes aim at people who can’t mind their business online, poking fun at the way trolls create drama out of thin air just to get attention. From there, the conversation shifts to Bankshot’s creative career—his viral parodies, stand-up comedy, and Twitch streaming—where he breaks down how authenticity beats chasing algorithms every time. Naturally, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ have questions about just how many hours a man can spend on a gaming console before it stops being “work” and starts being a problem. 

The episode rounds out with their signature mix of comedy and real talk, touching on relationships, Cheesecake Factory dates, and whether men should ever be paying for girls’ night tabs. With endless laughs, sharp side-eyes, and the kind of roasting only friends can get away with, this one proves: lovely day or not, Bankshot wasn’t safe in that studio. 

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During Girl Talk, Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae, along with guest Kira J spoke about relationships, and the burden Black women carry when they’re expected to be everybody’s superhero. Kira got candid about taking her “cape” off before she crashes out, leaning on family when needed, and learning the difference between friendships and mentorships (because not everyone who wants to be in your circle can pour back into you). 

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Episode 70 of She Said It First is giving therapy, laughs, and side-eye all at once. Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae welcomes their special guest, poet and multi-hyphenate creative Kira J, who’s fresh off the release of her powerful new spoken word album, I Have No Idea What I’m Doing. And while Kira might not claim to have all the answers, she definitely brought wisdom, raw honesty, and a couple of gut-punching poems that had everybody clutching their chest like, “girl… me personally, I couldn’t.” 

In What Irritated Me the Most This Week, the ladies went off on folks who keep giving attention to toothless trolls on social media. Jerrilyn and Lynee made it clear: stop making think pieces about people with three missing molars and a Wi-Fi connection—mute, scroll, and move on. By the time Kira chimed in about trolls and toxic commenters, the whole segment felt like group therapy mixed with a roast session. 

For Girl, What Happened, the three women dove into Kira’s artistry, the inspiration behind her album, and her viral poem “If I Never Get to Love You.” Between discussions of heartbreak, healing, and knowing when to ask for help, the episode proves you can laugh, cry, and side-eye a dusty troll all in the same hour. Then in Girl Talk, the conversation shifted to relationships and the burden Black women carry when they’re expected to be everybody’s superhero. Kira got candid about taking her “cape” off before she crashes out, leaning on family when needed, and learning the difference between friendships and mentorships (because not everyone who wants to be in your circle can pour back into you).  

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On What Irritated Me This Week, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae go in on people who borrow your stuff, call it “little,” and then forget they were broke knuckle-deep in pocket lint when they asked you in the first place. From lending money to “elevating homelessness” (yes, they really said that), the ladies turn irritation into pure comedy, reminding us all why you should never loan out anything you can’t live without.

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Episode 69 of She Said It First is peak best friend banter meets real talk. Kicking things off with What Irritated Me This Week, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae go in on people who borrow your stuff, call it “little,” and then forget they were broke knuckle-deep in pocket lint when they asked you in the first place. From lending money to “elevating homelessness” (yes, they really said that), the ladies turn irritation into pure comedy, reminding us all why you should never loan out anything you can’t live without.

In Girl, What Happened, the spotlight is on Cardi B beating her civil case—because apparently a $24 million scratch wasn’t scratching enough. The ladies drag the lawsuit for being greed in a wig, clown the plaintiff for thinking Cardi wouldn’t show up, and side-eye celebrities who somehow always find themselves in court but never in choir practice. Things escalate with talk of Epstein files, Timberland’s creepy Aaliyah confession, and a whole detour on how men in power have been getting away with predatory nonsense for decades. It’s a heavy conversation, but they sprinkle enough side-eyes and punchlines to keep it balanced.

Finally, in Girl Talk, dating disasters take center stage, with one story about a pool-owning man who ghosted so hard he deserves an Olympic medal.  The ladies also unpack Tabitha Brown’s viral moment telling struggling entrepreneurs to “get a job” if their business isn’t paying the bills. While the internet clutched its pearls, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ defended Auntie Tab, pointing out that humbling yourself with a paycheck isn’t failure—it’s called funding your dreams (and keeping the lights on).

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Episode 68 of She Said It First is a whole sermon and a roast rolled into one. Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae start off with a word on boundaries—because apparently some folks still think sliding into DMs with “what’s up, dummy?” is a love language. Spoiler: it’s not. The ladies break down how “being funny” doesn’t give you a free pass to be disrespectful, and why calling women “females” might just earn you a quick trip to verbal jail. It’s giving “match energy or get matched out.”

From there, the conversation swerves to Offset’s “don’t get married unless you’re ready to change your whole life” revelation, which the ladies politely translate as: “congrats on finally learning Marriage 101, sir.” They applaud him for at least removing himself from the dating pool before he could waste anybody else’s time, but remind us all to consider the source before taking relationship advice from men whose résumés are stacked with red flags and reality TV-worthy drama. That theme carries into discussions about oversharing on social media, the mess that was the Jussie Smollett documentary, and why sometimes the most revolutionary thing you can do is mind your business.

Of course, the hilarity doesn’t stop there. On "Girl Talk," the hosts go in on engagement rings that don’t ring true (ladies, it’s okay to say you hate it—just don’t pawn it too quick), the nightmare of having a roommate in your 30s (“you wash your ass in my sink? You gotta go”), and why privacy is priceless when you’ve got a platform. By the time they close out inviting listeners to join them on a group trip to Thailand, you know one thing for sure: Jerrilyn and Lynee will give you the truth, the laughs, and the side-eye that you didn’t know you needed—but definitely did.

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Besties, we're serving HOT TEA and existential crises this week! Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae are back with another chaotic episode of the She Said It First podcast where we're discussing why the Instagram algorithm has us in a chokehold, why making friends in your 30s hits different, and how to gracefully ghost a bestie who no longer sparks joy. We're getting vulnerable about becoming our mothers (the audacity!), why our backs hurt from just existing, and how tequila is now our sworn enemy. Plus, we're sharing the tea on what happens when you realize your childhood bestie and you are living in completely different universes - spoiler alert: it's not always messy, sometimes you just... drift. And because we can't help ourselves, we're also dragging certain political figures who think they can buy their way into heaven (sir, this is not a Wendy's). Grab your wine (preferably that Sauvignon Blanc we're still hunting for) and settle in for another episode of your favorite millennials oversharing for your entertainment.

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Episode 66 of She Said It First feels like the ultimate group chat you didn’t know you needed. Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae kick things off by blaming all of life’s chaos on “Mercury in Gatorade”—because what else explains bad moods, tangled microbraids, and that one cousin who’s always “just not okay”? The ladies break down what Mercury retrograde actually is and drag it for all the inconveniences of the past three weeks. They even debate if folks are just manifesting messiness once they hear Mercury’s acting up—though Lynee’ insists her life was already headed straight for the toilet bowl, no astrology required.

But the laughs don’t stop there. The duo dives into the “male loneliness epidemic,” clowning the way men avoid deep conversations with their friends—like how you could lose your job and still tell the boys you’re “just chilling.” They challenge men to actually check in with each other (and maybe read past the first line of a text) because “do a little more” applies to everything—convos, hygiene, and yes, even wiping.

The show caps off with pure comedy gold: from people online thinking they can fight gorillas, to Trick Daddy claiming women over 35 are “damaged goods.” The verdict? Sir, you are the damage. 

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This week on The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae have a special guest this week. Podcast host Kiara “Kiki Said So” Walker joins She Said It First to talk about her new podcast, The xo Man Podcast. Kiara Walker has been the host, along with Medina Monroe, of The CockTales Podcast: Dirty Conversations. Now, Kiara is talking to black men and having in depth conversations that they normally do not have with women. In this interview, Kiara spoke about her experiences with men as well as Jerrilyn and Lynee’.  

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On this episode of The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discusses various topics, but before they get into that, they tell the fans What Irritated Them this week. Jerrilyn is irritated that her apartment complex is not giving her security deposit back but has not given a reason or even inspected the apartment to determine. Lynee’ is irritated that people are making executive decisions to not wash their body and just be funky.  

During, Girl, What Happened, Lynee and Jerrilyn spoke about being a wing woman for your homegirl if you have a man already. Is it okay to be outside with another man when you have a man. They also talk about non-sexual turn ons and turn offs. The conversation switched to Victoria Monet’s interview with Michelle Obama and her brother Craig. Monet spoke about people on her team telling her to not have a baby at the time she did. She clearly did not listen, but it did stick with her. Jerrilyn and Lynee’s spoke about choosing their personal lives ahead of their career.  

Hook:
Y'all ain't ready for this juicy girl talk! Geraldine and Lake get real about stinky men, cheating friends, and whether motherhood will ruin their careers. You'll be laughing out loud and yelling "Preach!"

Timestamps and Key Takeaways:

12:45 - To wingwoman or not to wingwoman? The cheating friend dilemma
Takeaway: Don't enable a friend to cheat on a good man, but all bets are off if he's not treating her right!

23:10 - Do men only want kids to control women? Geraldine and Lake's controversial views
Takeaway: Men pressure women about "settling down" and having babies because they want to control them, not because they care about the kids.

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