In this episode, we’re talking about how being “the nice girl” can leave you exhausted, anxious, and constantly second-guessing yourself. We break down how seeking validation from others drains your energy, weakens your boundaries, and keeps you from living confidently and authentically.

It’s time to stop people-pleasing and start standing firm in who you are — no guilt, no over-explaining, just peace and self-respect. 💕

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Can you be soft and still be structured? 👀 In this episode, we’re unpacking what it really looks like to stay disciplined without losing your feminine energy. From morning routines and emotional balance to setting boundaries and keeping peace while chasing goals — we’re talking about the balance between grace and grind.

If you’ve ever struggled with being “too hard” or feeling like discipline means losing your softness, this one’s for you. 💕

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We’re getting real about what it’s actually like being married young. From expectations vs. reality to learning who you are while building a life with someone else — this episode dives into the truth behind young marriage that no one talks about.

Whether you’re single, engaged, or already married, this conversation will make you reflect, laugh, and maybe even heal a little. We’re breaking down lessons about love, growth, independence, and what it truly takes to make it work in your 20s.

💍 Topics we cover:

– What nobody tells you before you say “I do”

– How to grow individually while growing together

– Balancing faith, love, and identity in marriage

– The beauty (and reality) of commitment at a young age

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In this episode, we’re getting real about all the things we wish somebody told us in our early 20s — from friendships and boundaries to money, men, mindset, and mistakes that shaped us. We’re breaking down the lessons that come with growing, healing, and trying to figure life out in real time.

Whether you’re in your 20s now or just reflecting on that era, this episode is full of gems, laughs, and hard truths we had to learn the long way.

🎙️ Tune in for transparency, advice, and the “sis, you’re not alone” energy we all need sometimes.

We’re keeping it 100 in this episode — because let’s be real, a lot of us love Jesus but still want the bag, the car, the house, and the lifestyle 👀. The question is: can you truly live for God while still desiring money and nice things? Or does that mean you’re storing treasures on earth instead of heaven?

In this conversation, we talk about:

✨ Why sin feels like freedom but is really bondage

✨ The difference between feeding your spirit vs. feeding your flesh

✨ Learning who God really is, not just blindly believing religion

✨ Fruits, discipline, stewardship, and how God changes your desires over time

✨ Balancing heavenly priorities with earthly blessings — without losing your soul

If you’ve ever wrestled with wanting success, money, or luxury while trying to live for God, this episode is going to hit home.

In this episode we’re getting real about the side of dating nobody warns you about — how the wrong man can completely derail your peace, your purpose, and your future. We’re breaking down the biggest red flags, the subtle signs of control and manipulation, and how to protect your heart (and your bag) before it’s too late.

If you’ve ever felt like love was costing you more than it should, or you’re ready to stop ignoring the signs and start choosing yourself, this one’s for you.

We’re breaking down the cycles nobody wants to talk about — generational curses, family trauma, and the silent patterns passed down for years. In this episode, we open up about what we’ve inherited, how it’s shaped us, and the steps we’re taking to heal, forgive, and move forward. If you’ve ever felt like you’re fighting battles bigger than you, this conversation will remind you that the cycle can stop with you.

Social media was supposed to connect us, but somewhere along the way we got lost. In this episode, Saria and Kay get real about how scrolling, flex culture, and double lives online are changing the way we see ourselves, our friendships, and our money. From entrepreneurs feeling pressured to post 24/7, to people moving out too early just to look successful, we’re breaking down the real cost of living for the ‘gram.

We’ll talk fake personas, financial mistakes, spiritual protection online, and how to find your way back to reality. This one’s honest, raw, and exactly the conversation we need right now.

👭 Hosted by Saria Raine & Kay Amari

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Self-love isn’t just bubble baths and affirmations. In this episode, we break down what real self-love looks like—the kind that requires honesty, discipline, and grace. We’re talking about accepting your flaws, holding yourself accountable, and learning to love yourself the way you love others.

This isn’t the “cute” version of self-love… it’s the raw, sometimes uncomfortable truth that actually leads to growth, healing, and freedom. If you’ve been struggling with self-worth, comparison, or feeling like “self-love” doesn’t work for you, this conversation will shift everything.

Why do so many entrepreneurial women struggle to keep a man? 👀 In this episode, we’re getting real about dating while being a boss. From being “too masculine” in relationships, to feeling like dating is too much work, to unintentionally emasculating men — we’re breaking down the tough truths that nobody really talks about.

We’ll share our own experiences, what we’ve learned about balance, and why independence doesn’t have to mean loneliness. If you’ve ever wondered why love feels so complicated when you’re building your empire… this one’s for you. 💼❤️