It s not unusual to be in recovery and have had a divorce or two or even three! nor is it unusual to have children from an ex that you are responsible for. So, divorced, sober, and likely have some co-dependency issues. Do you wonder what to do with all the emotions of single parenting, co-parenting, and step-parenting? Let alone how to be a loving and supportive partner. Maybe your ex is the one with the blended family, and you stand on the sideline judging how they do it? Assuming you think you know the right way. One of my favorite past sayings was, Parenting didn t come with a handbook, but it should have; why did no one tell me about . Let alone stepparenting. I was a step-parent before I was a birth parent. Then there is the learning how to navigate with your partner. What is mine to parent? What is theirs? Watch: https://youtu.be/nhB_0xaSzPc