The boys are strapped in, but it turns out Brad and Matty have been seeing a lot of each other recently.

First there was the birthday dinner where Brad learnt something about Pockets that he's been hiding, and it got him very hot and bothered.

Then the two of them had a date night Saturday night at Brad's house - and yes, it did involve a Sticky Bishop - but Matty needs to confess something.

Chris brings a brand-new term to the table - soft swapping - but we think it might be more intimate than straight sex.

Plus, apparently there's a hot new city for the gays, and it's right here in Aotearoa - but you'll never guess where!

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