Soul-Shaking Love

Dating can be challenging enough without worrying if you’re being love bombed, only to feel betrayed later. We’re not looking to diagnose anyone; but I’ve seen too many people get won over and then once they’re attached, they realize that the other person lacks empathy and integrity. How can we identify these qualities in the   [...read more]

Anxious attachment can make navigating the modern dating landscape really challenging: how to tell if someone is attracted; how to read their signals if they run hot and cold; it’s enough to turn anyone into an anxious mess. Fortunately, dating and relationship coach Claire Grigson specialises in supporting women to feel more secure as they   [...read more]

You’ve probably heard the adage that until you love yourself, you can’t fully love someone else either. I don’t believe that fully, especially if, because of childhood programming, we find it easier to love others. But if that’s the case, we usually feel insecure because there’s no guarantee that others will give back to us   [...read more]

Secure attachment is a buzz word in the relationship coaching world, but how do we create it? Why do some relationships fizzle out while others last a lifetime?  In the latest episode of the SSLP Podcast, I interview transformational relationship mentor Dr. Gary Salyer. For the last decade, Dr. Salyer has helped singles and couples   [...read more]

If you’re doing everything you know to do to attract love and still feeling unsatisfied, you might have blind spots that are unknowingly pushing away the love you want. In this eye-opening episode I interview Mayan Tran and Angus Scott, who are both a real-life couple and relationship experts/coaches that specialize in helping people remove   [...read more]

If you’re feeling burnt out, taken advantage of, or if your relationship isn’t working for you, boundaries and overcoming people pleasing tendencies might be the first place to look.  Saying “yes” can become a habit and an act of selflessness, but if the other person isn’t doing the same for you, it leads to burnout,   [...read more]

Intuition is a widely-misunderstood phenomenon. Many people have had the experience of “knowing” something is about to happen without knowing how they know. Few people have been able to reliably count on their intuition to attract the things they want, like a true soul connection. I know I struggled to tell the difference between intuition   [...read more]

Do you keep attracting the same type of person or situationship again and again, only to wonder, “Why do others have it so easy?” That’s the question that Holistic Dating Coaches Orna and Matthew Walters have solved in their own lives after years of struggle; and now they shorten that learning curve for others. In   [...read more]

Dating is now harder than ever before. With more personal and professional success, the expectations of a partner in a relationship have changed. How do we cut through the games and find real love? In the latest episode of The Soul-Shaking Love Podcast, I interview Glenn Sandifer, who spent 20 years in the corporate world   [...read more]

As a young woman with a feminine energy, I struggled growing up in a world dominated by masculine energy, trying to understand why I couldn’t hear my intuition or know what I desired. I was raised to follow my rational mind and make logical decisions, but I didn’t know what I wanted in the first   [...read more]