Ever silently fumed because your partner didn’t do something you never actually asked them to do? (Yep, we’ve all been there!)

 This episode is pulled straight from one of our amazing weekly Support Sessions in the Facebook group, where we dove into the three sneaky types of expectations—explicit, implicit, and covert—that can really mess with your relationships. Get ready for some fun, real-life examples and actionable tips to help you communicate your needs clearly and avoid the frustration of unmet expectations! 

You might want to listen if:

• You’re done feeling frustrated by unmet expectations
• You wish your partner just knew what you needed
• You struggle with expressing your needs (without it turning into a fight)
• You want a fun, relatable guide to handling communication issues
• You’re ready to create stronger, happier connections

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• Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn
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• Become a Speak Honest Member and access all you need to become secure.
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
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• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
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• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

Curious about what it looks like at the start of a transformational journey? In this episode, we get a before look at Amanda, a member of my 12-week Relationship Reboot Program. During this coaching call, Amanda opens up about her struggle with triggers and negative spirals that affect her communication. We discuss how the program will help her build healthier communication habits and develop the confidence to express her needs without crumbling. This is just the beginning — we’ll check back in 12 weeks to see her progress.

You might want to listen if:

• You struggle to communicate your needs without feeling overwhelmed.
• Triggers send you into spirals of self-doubt that affect your relationships.
• You’re in a good relationship but feel like there's room for growth in communication.
• You want to stop repeating unhealthy communication patterns.
• You’re curious about how a 12-week relationship program can create real change.

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• Grab Your Copy of the #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment
• Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn
• Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Become a Speak Honest Member and access all you need to become secure.
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

Are you holding back from being truly vulnerable in your relationships out of fear of rejection or being misunderstood?

In this episode of Speak Honest, I dive deep into why vulnerability can feel so terrifying and how avoiding it might be keeping you from the meaningful relationships you truly want. I share practical steps for getting clear on your feelings and needs, allowing yourself to be vulnerable without overwhelming fear, and why embracing discomfort can lead to deeper connection. I even share a personal story about how vulnerability transformed one of my friendships, and how it can do the same for you! Plus, I’m inviting a few listeners to get coached for free on the podcast to help work through their relationship challenges live! 

You might want to listen if:

• You’re afraid of being vulnerable and it’s causing a disconnect in your relationships.
• You feel misunderstood or rejected when you open up emotionally.
• You’re unsure how to express your needs or don’t even know what they are.
• You want to overcome the fear of vulnerability and build stronger, more authentic connections.
• You want to hear Jenn’s real-life example of how vulnerability led to deeper understanding and support.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Grab Your Copy of the #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment
• Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn
• Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Become a Speak Honest Member and access all you need to become secure.
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

Do you ever feel like you're holding yourself back from success? 

In this powerful coaching session, I dive deep with Martie to explore the real reasons behind her struggle with self-sabotage. Together, we uncover whether her actions are truly sabotaging her or if they’re a form of self-protection. By examining her subconscious fears and desires, Martie begins to shift her perspective on what’s really happening when she can’t seem to balance her career, family, and personal goals. This conversation is perfect for anyone who feels like they’re fighting an uphill battle with their own mind.

You might want to listen if:

• You feel like you’re constantly juggling roles and expectations but still aren’t satisfied.
• You struggle with balancing your career, family, and personal well-being.
• You often blame yourself for not being “enough” in any aspect of life.
• You feel guilty for wanting to slow down, even when your body and mind are craving it.
• You want to explore if what you call self-sabotage might actually be a form of self-protection.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Grab Your Copy of the #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment
• Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn
• Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Become a Speak Honest Member and access all you need to become secure.
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

Are you tired of those moments when your partner says or does something that sends you into a spiral, but you don’t know why?
 
In this episode, we dive deep into understanding relationship triggers—those emotional reactions that feel so out of proportion to the situation at hand. I guide you through recognizing your triggers, understanding their roots, and how you can manage them more effectively, so they don’t control you or your relationships. Let’s get curious, not furious, and take the first step toward healthier connections.

You might want to listen if:

• You find yourself reacting to the same situations over and over again, and it’s impacting your relationships.
• You’ve ever felt like your emotions are out of control, and you’re not sure why.
• You struggle with unspoken needs and boundaries that lead to big emotional blow-ups.
• You feel overwhelmed when covert expectations aren’t met in your relationships.
• You want actionable tools to manage your triggers and improve communication with loved ones.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Grab Your Copy of the #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment
• Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn
• Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Become a Speak Honest Member and access all you need to become secure.
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

Are you struggling with grief that feels like it won’t let go, whether it’s from losing someone or ending a relationship?

In this episode, we talk with  Chelsea Ohlemiller about the many faces of grief. From losing her mother and the journey to healing, to understanding how grief can affect every aspect of your life—Chelsea brings both vulnerability and practical wisdom. Together, we dive into how grief isn't just about loss through death but can also show up when relationships end, and how to navigate those emotions while still honoring yourself.

You might want to listen if:

• You feel stuck in grief after losing a loved one or relationship.
• You struggle with guilt over moving forward while still holding on to your pain.
• You're looking for a way to process difficult emotions without getting overwhelmed.
• You want to understand why grief can feel like a never-ending process.
• You’re in need of practical, compassionate advice for healing from loss, whether it's recent or from years ago.

About Our Guest:
A wife, mother and educator who has Indiana roots and a passionate spirit. Chelsea is a sappy romantic, coffee junkie, book collector, and person who wears her heart on her sleeve. She’s sarcastic, full of jokes, full of tears, and enjoys writing most when life gets messy or complicated. In 2017, Chelsea's mother passed away. Through her grief journey, she decided to take her mother’s advice and share her writing with the world. One day she gained the courage to honor her mother's wishes and write. It turned out to be one of the best decisions she's ever made.

• Website: https://hopeandharshrealities.com/
• Book: Now That She's Gone

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• Grab Your Copy of the #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment
• Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn
• Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Become a Speak Honest Member and access all you need to become secure.
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

Why do we tell ourselves stories that only bring us pain? In this episode of Speak Honest, I dive deep into some gut-wrenching listener questions about love, breakups, and why it feels like your ex is thriving while you're stuck in heartache. We break down the stories we tell ourselves, challenge those limiting beliefs, and shift the focus back on you—because healing starts with understanding your own truth.

You might want to listen if:

• You're stuck wondering why your ex seems happier than you.
• You feel unworthy after a breakup and question your value.
• You're battling with deep-rooted attachment wounds and need guidance to move forward.
• You keep getting dumped "out of the blue" and wonder why it's a pattern.
• You’re ready to start rewriting your story and reclaim your happiness.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Grab Your Copy of the #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment
• Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn
• Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Become a Speak Honest Member and access all you need to become secure.
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

Are you ready to unlock the power of movement for healing and self-discovery? In this episode of Speak Honest, I chat with Cheryl Killilea , a certified personal trainer and trauma-informed yoga instructor, about how yoga and movement can help release stored emotions and improve our mental and emotional health. Cheryl shares insights on how different attachment styles might affect our approach to exercise and wellness and offers practical tips on finding balance and peace through trauma-informed practices.

You might want to listen if:

• You’ve experienced trauma and are looking for new ways to heal.
• You feel stuck emotionally and need tools to help you move forward.
• You’re curious about how attachment styles affect exercise preferences.
• You want to learn how simple movements like walking can transform your emotional health.
• You’re seeking a supportive, non-judgmental approach to yoga and wellness.

About Our Guest:'

 Cheryl Killilea is a seasoned personal trainer and trauma-informed yoga instructor with over 12 years of experience in the health and wellness industry. Passionate about empowering others, Cheryl believes that the strength gained from working out is often the very strength needed to get through another day. She specializes in creating safe, inclusive spaces where clients can explore movement, heal from trauma, and connect more deeply with themselves. Cheryl’s approach combines physical fitness with mindful practices, guiding her clients toward holistic well-being and resilience.

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• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
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• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

Ever feel like setting boundaries makes you the "bad guy" in your relationships? Let's change that!

In this episode of "Speak Honest," we're diving into the real talk about boundaries—what they are, why they matter, and how we can set them without feeling like we're letting everyone down. We get into the nitty-gritty of setting boundaries in our everyday lives—whether it's with our time, emotions, or even our personal space. Together, we'll explore practical, relatable ways to say "no" when we need to and "yes" to what truly matters. We’ll also share some honest stories (because we’ve all been there) and give you steps to start reclaiming your energy and peace in your relationships.

You might want to listen if:

• You find yourself saying "yes" when you really mean "no."
• You're feeling drained from taking on others' emotional baggage.
• You're tired of your personal space being invaded in social settings.
• You're constantly overcommitting at work or with friends and feeling burned out.
• You're looking for ways to stand your ground when it comes to your financial choices.

Grab a cup of coffee (or tea, or wine, or a whiteclaw!—no judgment here!) and join us as we figure out this boundaries thing together. Let's build those stronger, healthier relationships one step at a time!

FIND OUT MORE!

• Grab Your Copy of the #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment
• Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn
• Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Become a Speak Honest Member and access all you need to become secure.
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

Ever catch yourself wondering if you’re missing some major red flags in your relationships?

Or maybe you’ve noticed a few but weren’t quite sure what to do next? In today’s episode, we’re diving into the world of red flags—what they really mean, how to spot them, and most importantly, how to handle them like a pro without all the stress!

You might want to listen if:

• You’ve ever looked back and thought, “How did I not see that coming?”
• You’re curious about how your body signals red flags before your brain catches up.
• You want to stop second-guessing yourself and start tackling red flags head-on.
• You’re ready to ditch the guilt and treat yourself with compassion when it comes to past relationship patterns.
• You’re all about learning practical steps to make your current and future relationships healthier and happier.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Grab Your Copy of the #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment
• Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn
• Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Become a Speak Honest Member and access all you need to become secure.
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...