This year has been hard, you guys. And honestly? My style completely took a backseat while I was just trying to get through it. In this episode, I'm getting real about how our wardrobes need to work for us during the tough seasons—not add more pressure. I talk about how "fearless" was supposed to be my style word for this year, but instead I found myself playing it safe and reaching for the same reliable pieces over and over. And you know what? That's exactly what I needed. But here's the thing: I'm ready for a shift. If you've ever felt like your style disappeared during a hard season, or like you've been stuck in survival mode with your wardrobe, this one's for you.

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It's my birthday AND the Style Thief Fashion podcast's one-year anniversary, so we're celebrating with all the good stuff! I'm recapping last Thursday's live show at The Slowdown—the energy, the outfits, the moments that made it magical. Plus, I'm breaking down the exact outfit that made me feel like a total badass on stage (because yes, what you wear matters). And remember those questions you asked at the show about dressing for your age and how to actually pack for a trip? The ones we ran out of time for? I'm answering them NOW. This episode is part celebration, part style education, part "let's keep this party going." Let's go.

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I need to be real with you about something: I don't promise confidence through style. And here's why.

Confidence isn't some permanent state you achieve and then you're done. It fluctuates. Some days you've got it, some days you don't. And the fashion industry loves to sell you this idea that the right outfit will make you confident, but I call bullshit.

Style isn't about chasing confidence. It's a tool for self-expression and personal growth. So instead of waiting around to feel confident before you start finding your personal style? Take action anyway.

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I'm so excited to have my friend and fellow stylist Paul Julch from UrbSuburbStyle on the podcast! Paul & I have been friends for years after connecting on social media. During the pandemic we started doing monthly instagram lives and seasonal style challenges. If you loved our regular Instagram Lives you won't want to miss this in-depth conversation about our personal style philosophies, finding joy in your wardrobe and the 3 things we (as your stylists) really want you to know!

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What if you had a personal stylist who showed up in your inbox every season with exactly what you need? My Seasonal Style Guides are like having a stylist on speed dial. LEARN MORE & SUBSCRIBE TO THE STYLE GUIDES HERE

STYLE THIEF FASHION SHOW TICKETS HERE: A groundbreaking, interactive show celebrating YOUR unique style. Real women, real style moments, real tools - all happening live on stage with infectious energy and empowering style insights.

Welcome to Season 2! In this episode, I'm tackling something I hear all the time from clients: "I don't want to look like I'm trying too hard."

Let's talk about what's really behind that fear - the societal pressure to blend in, the worry about what others think, and why we hold ourselves back from wearing what we actually love. But here's the twist: sometimes embracing a more effortless approach can actually free us from overthinking our style choices.

I share stories from my own style journey and what I've learned working with clients who've struggled with this exact thing. Whether you're holding back from bold choices OR overcomplicating getting dressed, this episode explores both sides.

Here's the truth: your style is for YOU, not for anyone else's approval. It's time to stop letting fear - whether it's about "trying too hard" or not trying enough - dictate your fashion choices.

Season 2 is underway but I want to hear from you! What style topics do you want to hear about? Send me a DM on Instagram or email me at [email protected]

JOIN MY EMAIL LIST so you never miss a new episode or other fun announcements!

What if you had a personal stylist who showed up in your inbox every season with exactly what you need?My Seasonal Style Guides are like having a stylist on speed dial. SUBSCRIBE TO THE STYLE GUIDES HERE!

STYLE THIEF FASHION SHOW TICKETS HERE: A groundbreaking, interactive show celebrating YOUR unique style. Real women, real style moments, real tools - all happening live on stage with infectious energy and empowering style insights. Coming to a city near you!

ANNOUNCEMENT! I'm so excited to share that the Style Thief Fashion Show is back! After our amazing show last August here in Omaha, we're doing it again - Thursday, November 20th at the Slowdown!

This whole thing started from my own journey of breaking free from all those ridiculous style "rules" society tries to impose on us. I realized how powerful it is when women come together to support each other's personal expression, and that's exactly what this live show is about.

What makes these live shows special is how interactive they are - you're not just sitting there watching. You can ask questions, jump into styling sessions, and really be part of the experience. And here's the big news - we're taking the Style Thief Fashion Show on TOUR! Tickets are available TODAY for the Omaha show and for several other cities that have already been announced, with more tour dates coming soon!

It's all about community, breaking the rules, and having fun with fashion. I want women of all ages to feel welcome and empowered to embrace their own unique style. Get your tickets HERE

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I can't wait to see you at the show!

In this episode, I'm talking back-to-school shopping with teens! I'm sharing the mindset shifts that will completely change how these shopping trips feel for both of you. I'll share the simple and powerful tools YOU need to for yourself and how to give your kids the style knowledge that truly empowers them while letting them make their own choices. We'll talk about being mindful of our reactions, encouraging real self-expression, and asking 'How does this make you feel?' to help them connect with their authentic style.

Remember, this is about so much more than clothes – you're helping your teenager build confidence and discover who they are. If this was helpful, please share it with other parents embarking on back-to-school shopping. We're all in this together, and every parent deserves to feel equipped for these moments!

And hey, now that you've got the kids taken care of, let's talk about YOU! My Seasonal Style Guides are full of shopping links and hundreds of outfit ideas that make getting dressed so much easier. Subscribe this week to get the current price of $125 for the whole year – because that price is going up on August 11th. The fall style guide is coming soon, so you'll be all set for the new season! SUBSCRIBE TO THE SEASONAL STYLE GUIDE HERE!

The Style Thief Fashion podcast has a new studio: My Closet! Now that I'm recording here, I honestly don't know why I didn't do this from the jump. This is my favorite room of the house. For years I've been filming try ons, sharing my styling process and having conversations with you on Instagram so it just makes sense that I share it here too!

Since we talk so much about style and I love sharing visuals, YouTube is honestly the perfect place to watch this episode---and all of my episodes! You'll get to see everything we're discussing, from the styling tips to the closet transformation itself. Let me know if there are certain parts of my closet you want to see, or pieces you want me to style from my wardrobe.

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Today I'm diving deep into something that's become such a huge part of my work—my seasonal style guides. I wanted to take a moment to really talk about why I create these and how they've evolved into something so much more than I originally envisioned.

What makes me most excited is how these guides are designed for real women living real lives. Whether you're thrifting, shopping Old Navy, or ready to invest in high-quality pieces, you'll get actual tools to think differently about your style. I curate and provide you pieces from small businesses, focus on size-inclusive brands, and include something for every style—all with real life in mind. Plus, the digital lookbook shows you how to style each piece in multiple ways for maximum outfit inspiration.

These style guides are honestly one of the best tools I've created for helping women curate their personal style. They're not just inspiration boards or shopping lists—they're real, informative frameworks that help you approach your wardrobe with intention, no matter your budget.

Looking ahead, I'm SO VERY excited about some developments that are going to make these guides even more valuable! I can’t WAIT to share it all with you next month! But for now, I just want you to know that when you're using these guides, you're not just getting shopping suggestions—I'm giving you a toolbox of inspiration and education. This is professional styling knowledge packaged for your real life - tools, not rules!

Listen, I have to tell you—these guides are only $125 until August, then they're going up to $199. That's a $74 difference! If this is calling to you, don't sleep on it.

Want to see what the guides are all about? Here is a sneak peek for you!

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I'm really excited to share this conversation with my friend Andrea McCarter from Clothes Mentor! Working with her has taught me so much about business and the secondhand clothing market. We get into what it's really like opening a sustainable store, how women business owners can actually support each other, and why secondhand shopping is such a smart move for your closet and wallet.

Andrea shared honest insights about what to look for in secondhand clothing, how sizing really works when thrifting, and practical styling tips for seasonal looks. We also discussed why making fashion more inclusive matters.

I'm thrilled to now include secondhand finds from Clothes Mentor in every seasonal style guide! My summer style guide is out now and features the pieces we show you in this episode and several other afforadble summer finds- you can subscribe to the guides HERE. Plus, Clothes Mentor is offering free shipping to Style Thief Fashion podcast listeners with code SFFREESHIP at https://omahane.clothesmentor.com/

If you've been interested in adding more sustainable options to your wardrobe, this episode is for you!

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share today’s episode it with anyone who could use some sustainable style inspiration!