Swinger University® The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle and Travel

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Overindulging on your drug of choice can have an impact on your interactions while swinging. We recall some of our experiences, and provide examples of how moderation is an important strategy for navigating social, and sexual interactions at lifestyle events.

If you are looking for a guide on how to use drugs in the lifestyle, this is not your episode.  There are resources on the internet for this information, but we’re not one of them.

Note: We're re-listening to this episode after receiving some constructive criticism from a listener. We intended this episode to be a reflection of our personal experiences with drugs and alcohol in the lifestyle. We acknowledge that drugs and their use are complex and nuanced issues. 

We are NOT scientists or pharmacists. We have personal experiences with drugs: Our use and the use of others amongst our families, and friends. This still doesn't make us experts for all people or experiences. We're just people who have had experiences and passing them on to the community.

We will try to address these criticisms... Stay tuned!

SHOW NOTES:

1. Ed & Phoebe's story
2. Effects of drugs and alcohol in the lifestyle
3. Remember me, not remember me
4. Pros v. Cons: alcohol, cannabis, cocaine, MDMA, Special K
5. Resources:
6. The Center for substance Abuse Treatment - 24 hour hotline 1-800-662-HELP

Sunrise House - American Addiction Centers https://sunrisehouse.com/club-drugs/molly/

DrugRehab.com www.drugrehab.com

The Fresh toast  www.thefreshtoast.com

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Join Ed and Phoebe for New Year's 2019 at the largest Northern California Swinger Party.  Swing into 2020 with the lows and highs of each night.  We met some sexy friends then rang their bell and set the tone for 2020!

Show Notes

1. NYE PreParty Blues
2. NYE Glam, Clits and Tits 
   1. NYE Blues 2
3. NY DAY Post Party Panned Out!
4. Take Away & Lessons Learned 
   1. Planning & Backup Plans
   2. Gracious & Respectful Behavior
   3. "Drama" v. Normal

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Another elective course reviewing a local house party! This party was hosted by one of the local unicorns, and it was fabulous... Join us to hear all the delectable details.

Show Notes

1. Sexy House Party & Buffet!
2. More Than Just an Appetizer - Oh My!
3. Mystery Meal
4. Main Course - Sloppy but Not Seconds!
5. Dessert Review 
   • House Party Perfection: Scene, Food, People
   • Single Guy A+: What Worked
   • Observation Tips on Couples

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We interview Alexa (because she does what she's told...), a lifestyle Unicorn.  She will be sharing how she got started swinging, provide advice for the lifestyle, sharing her experiences and advice as well as some funny stories!

SHOW NOTES:

1. Frisky Unicorn – How to Get Started 
2. The Glitter Life of a Unicorn 
   1. Regulars v. One-timers
3. How to Find a Couple 
   1. Caged v. Free
4. Rules of the Unicorn Horn
5. The Dark Side of the Horn 
   1. Safety
6. Unicorn Advice

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Ed and Phoebe document their first trip together out of the country and to a clothing optional, swinger resort! Come join the sexy swinger fun with Swinger University at a swinger resort takeover in Jaco, Costa Rica.  

Show Notes

• Preparation and Packing
• Travel Day - Oh My!
• Naked Swinger Resort
• The Jungle
• Fabulous Food
• Playroom and the Toys!
• Sex at the Pool
• Included Excursions
• Pool Games
• Hot Fun!

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An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle, with a combined experience of 50 years, documenting the history of swinging in the Northern California area, the fun, the challenges and the long term rewards. 

Show Notes

• History of swinging in the Northern California area over the past 40 years. 
  • Trends
  • Changes
• How Gino & Ginger got started in the lifestyle.
• Stories: challenges and rewards.
• Advice

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A review on a fabulous time at the biggest swinger Halloween Party in Northern California. 

Two nights of on-premise play with 800 sexy swingers having fun!  Join us for dancing, swinging, sexy and sensual swinger lifestyle experiences. 

SHOW NOTES:

• Halloween Swinger Party
• Two Nights of Fun 
  • Pajama Party
  • Halloween Party
• Unpredictable Play Dates
• Sexy Times

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Dating couples in the swing lifestyle has advantages and disadvantages.  Some couples prefer to hit and quit.  Depending on your swing style, dating as a couple is more challenging than dating as a single person, because the dynamics are four times as complex.  Getting four people to agree on a date, show up, experience a great vibe all around, and be on the same page…well, it gets complicated!  Whether you put in the time or not, couple dating can be rewarding and so can hit and quit depending on your swinging taste.

SHOW NOTES

1. Advantages to Dating
   1. Better Sex
   2. Tips for Success
   3. Time Consuming
   4. First Date - Never at you house
2. Disadvantages to Dating 
   1. Off Night
   2. No Vibe
3. Hit and Miss 
   1. One Night Stand
   2. Check List
   3. Hall Pass
4. Hit and Quit
5. Gratitude and Thanks

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An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle since 2009 sharing how they started swinging, their funny stories about the lifestyle, advice and changes they have seen over time.

Show Notes

1. How Adam & Belle got started in the lifestyle.
2. Play style, boundaries, and how it changed over time.
3. Funny stories
4. Advice
5. Changes seen in the lifestyle over time.
6. Straight men comfortable with bi experiences.
7. Trends: drug use, singles, culture, respect, diversity, taboo.

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Have you communicated about how you are communicating for an event?  We will cover pre-event communication, pep talk, non-verbal and verbal communication and signals.  We share some of our favorite exit phrases we have heard over time and talk about how important it is to have a post-event conversation.

Show Notes

1.  Pre-event Preparation Communication
2. Pre-event Pep Talk
3. Non-Verbal Signals
4. Verbal Phrases
5. Missed Communication Signals
6. Non-verbal Communication
7. Post-event Wrap-up

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