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A review of one of the fabulous swinger events in Northern California.  A unique, sexy and sensual swing lifestyle experience that draws new and long-time swingers for dancing, and on-premise play.

1. Getting Ready:  "The first part about getting ready for any event whether a drink date or party, is to primp, prune and pluck."
2.  Setting the Scene: The Hotel and Event description
3.  Fun & Sexy Things: How our night went and some of the fun we had

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 Show Notes

1. ABC Party: Hotel Event
2. Handsome and Beautiful: Days in Advance! 
   1. Get to Know Your Neighbors
3. Staycation: Arrive Early
4. Setting the Scene: Dance, Boom Boom Room, S&M Area
5. Security/Safety/Privacy
6. Sexy Fun People

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In today's course we are going to talk about dipping in to your first swinger event.  We will cover: cost, boundaries, intent, goals, reconnecting, and the afterglow.  Attending your first swing event can be terrifying, exciting and fun.  You will learn more about yourself and each other with each swinger event.  So, cum inside….it's class time!

Show Notes

1. Cost of Swinger Events: Clubs, House Parties, Hotel
2. The Cost of Looking Good: Hair, Nails, Waxing, Tanning, Gym Membership
3. Sitters, Uber and Hotel 
   1. Our First Event: Yay Orgy!
4. Expectations v. Reality: Going with the Flow
5. Spontaneous v. Planned
6. Set Boundaries
7. Have A Plan
8. Work the Room!
9. Language and Rules
10. Reconnecting
11. Afterglow

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A sexy review on a swinger house party in Sonoma with a few close friends.  We begin with how we met, stayed in contact and drove 2 hours to share a bed…a couch…and another bed with some of our favorite sexy, swinger friends!  We will describe the environment and re-create the mood to bring you into this fabulous swinger party!

Show Notes

1. How We Met: Ken, Barbie, Greg and Marsha
2. House Party Invite
3. Fun In The Bedroom
4. Fun On The Couches
5. Coffee and Morning Sausage!
6. Beers & Brats!

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In this episode we talk about communication tools for connecting with other swingers.  We are going to describe how in-site email works, chat rooms, Kik, MeWe and a handful of swinger dating apps.  These technologies, some of them geared specifically to swingers, offer a great way to get in-touch and stay connected with other people in the swing lifestyle.  However, they do have their share of hiccups, and we share some stories about our adventures with virtual people.

SHOW NOTES

1. Swinger Site Email: Pros v. Cons
2. Swinger Site Chat Rooms: Pros v. Cons
3. Swinger Chat Apps: Kik, MeWe, etc.
4. Swinger Dating Apps: Bumble, 3-Fun, etc.
5. Text Messaging
6. Google Images & PicFind

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Communication with other swingers is just as fluid as sex, which is why you need to have good communication and follow through in the swinging lifestyle.  How should you handle communications? Do you have a primary communicator? What is too much, or not enough? How do you switch from being a passive communicator to active?

Swinging, just like dating is an approach game, knowing how to approach another couple and close the deal. This episode will help with those awkward swinger moments where you don't know how to turn someone down. Or more importantly how to pick someone up. We cover communication styles and etiquette, letting someone down, and how to close the deal.

SHOW NOTES

1. Primary Communicator v. Group Communication
2. Group Fun!
3. A lot v. A little Communication 
   1. Ghosting
4. Passive Communication
5. Active Communication
6. Acknowledge
7. Decline
8. Counter
9. Follow Through
10. Closing The Deal!

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 Communication is a key ingredient in any relationship. With swingers it's critical, not only for your success in the lifestyle, but also for the success of your relationship. We talk about rules, topics, insecurities and fears in the communication process.

SHOW NOTES

1. The Ideal Conversation
2. Rules of Communication
3. Let's Talk About Sex
4. Fears & Insecurities

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Your swinger profile, or your dating profile, will either make or break your chances with prospective play partners. .  We have some tips for putting together a first-class profile that should make a great first impression. So sharpen your pencils, sit back, take some notes... It's class time!

SHOW NOTES

1. Purpose Of An Online Presence
2. The Right Swinger Site For You
3. To Swinger App Or Not 
   1. Detailed Description
   2. Preferences
   3. Photos - Current
   4. Update Often
4. Profiles, Profiles, Profiles

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Today’s elective course is about the April 2019 Bliss Swinger Cruise. We’ll talk about what to expect, what to bring, and some sexy stories. Grab your sunscreen cause its a hot one. Let’s get sailing...

SHOW NOTES

1. Bliss Swinger Cruise
2. What to Bring Other Than Clothes
3. What to Expect
4. Meet and Greets
5. Demonstrations
6. Pool Parties and Games
7. Playrooms: Types, Mood, Cleanliness, Provisions
8. Dining with Others

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This episode discusses some of the benefits and downsides of the swinging lifestyle to help you figure out your reasons for joining in the fun. 

SHOW NOTES

1. Pleasures of Swinging: 
   • communication
   • more sex
   • techniques
   • bonding
   • fun
   • sex positions
   • confidence
   • experiences
   • exploration
   • emotional challenges.
2. Pitfalls of Swinging 
   • flakes
   • over indulgence
   • drugs
   • emotional challenges
   • anonymity
   • disappointment
   • expectations
   • bad sex

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We take some time to break down some common swinger lingo and terminology to help you navigate this exciting world of swinging. Of course we throw in a few stories to help spice up this lesson.

While you could go searching across the internet for the definitions to these, we bring them to you in a nice delicious package.

Here are just a few of the terms we cover:

Vanilla Hunting

 Unicorn

Cuckold

Cuckqueen

Bi-curious

Play

Soft Swap

Full Swap

DTF

Kissing Rule

Same Room

Hall Pass

Voyeurism

Barebacking

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