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In this podcast episode, we will be discussing the big shock that can come with having the first conversation about swinging with your partner. We'll dive into ways to bring up the topic and the importance of good communication to ensure that this discussion has a positive impact on your relationship. Ideally, a good foundation of communication, a healthy sex life, and a desire to spice things up are necessary. We'll also explore various ways to initiate the conversation such as using porn, hints, turn-ons/kinks, or even podcasts 😉.

 We emphasize that this conversation will test the strength of your relationship, challenge personal fears and insecurities, and require mental and emotional fortitude. It's important to be empathetic, reassuring, and to listen to your partner's response, whether it's a yes or a no. Ultimately, this conversation will be the start of many conversations and hopefully lead to a deeper understanding between you and your partner. If you're not ready to start this conversation, how will you have harder conversations in the future?

Show Notes

1. How Do You Have That First Conversation?
2. I'm Afraid To Say What I Am Thinking
3. What's Your "In"?
4. Communicate, Communicate, Communicate
5. Listening Skills Are Critical
6. Being Okay With "No"

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If you’ve ever thought about swinging and nonmonogamy you’re not alone. In this episode we discuss some of the many reasons couples begin their journey into this alternative lifestyle or hobby. Whether you’re just starting to think about swinging, or have been in the lifestyle for a while we hope that everyone will learn something new.

  
SHOW NOTES

1. How Do People Get Into the Lifestyle? 
   1. 20+ year relationship v. new relationship
   2. Spicing it up – kids gone
   3. No other sexual partners – desire for more
   4. Being bi:  women/men – filling in the gap
   5. Fix the marriage – not recommended
   6. Sexually adventurous people
2. Non-Monogamy Feels Normal
3. Pleasing Others is Thrilling
4. Flirting
5. Learning New Techniques

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Welcome to the Swinger University! Ready to learn? We're eager to pass on our experience and help you get a head start!

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• Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon Store
• SwingerLinks.com  -  live schedule, special offers*,  and our 🌶️links!
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