Autism & Neurodiversity

Teaching Calm: How to Help Build Emotional Regulation Skills with Debbie


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If you've ever found yourself saying "Calm down!" during your child's meltdown—only to watch it make things worse—you're not alone.

The truth is, neurodivergent children, teens, and young adults don't just know how to regulate their emotions... it's a skill that needs to be taught and developed.

But here's the kicker: emotional regulation isn't something you teach in the heat of the moment—it's something you build over time.

In this episode, I dive into what emotional regulation looks like for neurodivergent (autistic, ADHD, etc.) children, teens, and young adults, why it's often harder for them, and what you can do to help.

I share practical tools for teaching calm, not by demanding it, but by modeling it, practicing it, and making it part of everyday life.

You'll learn:

  • Why emotional regulation is a skill—not a personality trait
  • The role of co-regulation and why your calm is the first step
  • How to teach regulation tools outside of the meltdown moment
  • Simple, actionable strategies to help your child access calm

If meltdowns, emotional outbursts, or shutdowns feel like a daily struggle, this episode if for you.

And if you want to go deeper, join us for our upcoming workshop: "Helping Neurodivergent Children, Teens, and YAs Access Calm." We'll walk you through even more tools, real-life examples, and step-by-step strategies to support emotional regulation at home.

✨ RSVP for the Workshop here: NDM.Circle.so

📩 Want more insights and practical tools? Be sure to join our email list for inspiration and updates.

👉 For deeper support, join our NDM Circle Community at NDM.Circle.so—a space for parents and professionals navigating the complexities of parenting neurodivergent young people.

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