The A to Z of Sex

This week on the A to Z of Sex with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey, we will discuss interracial relationships, objectifying and fetishising, race play and what is behind the desire to form a relationship with someone from a different race.

There are many fetishes and fetish groups formed around interracial contact. Most of these are taboos that have been formed around stereotypes. For example the BBC (big black cock) stereotype leads to a variety of fetishes. Cuckholding relationships are often built on the stereotype of the weak small white man and the BBC.

Many people believe that when people who are involved in the BDSM or leather communities form a relationship that crosses racial lines it is because they want to engage in taboo forms of play including race play. Though this may be true for some, the majority of relationships are relationships like any others.

I will talk about the history of sex and censorship with the help of Bosch who sells and collects historical erotica. We will talk about the reasons for censorship in the past in various locales and current censorship scenarios. We will answer questions about sex, erotica, and censorship via phone and email.

Dr Meg-John Barker joins me to discuss all things gender and non-binary. We will cover current cutting edge ideas about gender, why life can be and should be seen as non-binary, the basics of gender pronouns, understanding ambivalence and shades of grey. We will finish off the show with some tips and tricks to increase your ability to deal with the non-binary and live in the shades of grey or the rainbow of colour.

In this episode, Dr Lori Beth talks about the mythic femme fatale, female dominance and professional dominatrices with Miss Cameo, a professional dominatrix from the UK. Questions are encouraged and can be phoned in or sent via email either in advance, during or after the show.

This week on the A to Z of Sex, E is for Erotic. We will talk about everything erotic and how to become more erotic.

Socrates felt that eroticism was one of the four essential qualities needed for a life worth living. Eroticism was once considered a major way of learning about the world around us. It is only in modern times that eroticism seems to be downgraded and equated with all the negative forms (but not the positive forms) of pornography.

Mistress Lucille is joining Dr Lori Beth Bisbey to talk about all aspects of the erotic. Dr Lori Beth will provide some tips to new patterns, new ways to approach the world that will increase your level of eroticism.

In this episode I will talk about why we categorise sex as dirty, why sex is delicious and how to make it more so and my guest, Terence Scott, will join me to talk about drumming and the sexiness of the rhythm as well as creating a human drum circle.

On the A to Z of Sex with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey ® , C is for Climax. I will be talking about all things climax, cum, or orgasm. We will talk some anatomy for both women and men and then get talking all about the experience.

Problems with climax? Phone in or email in and we will do our best to help you get where you want to go.

Stories about orgasm? Phone in or email in and we will share those and add some of our own.

Dr Lori Beth will be joined by Nadia Deen who is sometimes known as the orgasm whisperer!

B is for BDSM

Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, SadoMasochism

Joining me to discuss this topic are some of the cast and crew of Divine Deviance (https://divinedeviance.com). This is a multipart documentary on BDSM and Kink worldwide. Race Bannon has been an organizer, writer, educator, speaker and activist in the LGBT, leather/kink, polyamory and HIV/STI prevention realms since 1973. Jörg Fockele is a critically acclaimed filmmaker, executive producer and TV director/producer of shows such as Bravo’s “Queer Eye,” ABC ’s “Wife Swap,” MTV’s “Savage U” and AMC’s “Small Town Security.” Lola De Milo, is a German systemic sexual therapist and relationship coach with 20+ years of kink and BDSM activities. .Adam Ouderkirk has been organizer and activist in the LGBTQ, HIV/STI service communities since 1981, working to expand freedom, sexual expression for all. Beatrice Stonebanks has been in the San Francisco BDSM scene for 20 years and lives in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship.