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Adrian, a transracial adoptee, shares his adoption journey from Peru to Canada. He was adopted at two weeks old due to the political unrest and economic struggles in Peru. Growing up in a predominantly white area, Adrian stood out as the only person of color. Despite this, he had a good childhood and was well-liked by his peers. As he got older, Adrian became more interested in his Peruvian culture and took Spanish classes. He made several trips back to Peru to learn the language and connect with his roots. Learning Spanish boosted his self-esteem and gave him a deeper sense of identity. Adrian discusses his experience with language learning and how he has become fluent in Spanish. He also talks about his dating preferences and attraction to Latin girls. The conversation then shifts to Adrian's experience as an adoptee and his relationship with his adoptive and birth families. He shares his journey of reconnecting with his birth family in Peru and the emotions he felt during that process. Adrian also mentions his therapy sessions in Spanish and how it has helped him in his personal growth. Adrian shares his experiences with his biological mother and father, highlighting the challenges and complexities of building relationships with them. He discusses the difficulties of communication and the economic disparities that affected their interactions. Adrian also emphasizes the importance of managing expectations when reconnecting with birth parents and the need to be prepared for various outcomes. He expresses gratitude for the support of his adoptive parents throughout his journey and encourages other adoptees to explore their first culture and heritage.

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Dakotah shares their experience as an adoptee, starting from being put in foster care at a young age. They recall memories of their birth parents and the reasons they were taken into foster care. Dakotah discusses the challenges of being separated from their siblings and the difficulties they faced in the foster care system. They then talk about their adoption at the age of seven and the dynamics within their adoptive family. Dakotah reveals the abuse they experienced from their adoptive father and the complex emotions they felt about speaking up due to their concern for their siblings. They also mention the favoritism shown by their adoptive mother towards their younger brother. Dakotah shares her experience of growing up in an abusive adoptive family, where she faced physical and sexual abuse from her adoptive father. She discusses the lack of support from her adoptive mother and the denial and gaslighting she experienced. Dakotah eventually sought therapy and confronted her adoptive father, leading to her decision to cut off contact with her adoptive family. She emphasizes the importance of breaking the cycle of abuse and creating her own family. Despite the challenges, Dakotah finds strength in sharing her story and hopes to inspire others.

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The conversation covers Tarcia's journey of reuniting with her birth family, the emotional rollercoaster of meeting her birth father, and the self-reflection and healing that came with it. It also delves into the complexities of adoption trauma and the importance of self-love and storytelling within the adoption community.

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Chanelle Harris shares her adoption journey, from discovering her adoption at age five to reconnecting with her biological family as an adult. She discusses the emotional impact of seeking her biological family and the challenges she faced along the way. The story unfolds with moments of hope, disappointment, and eventual reconnection. Chanelle E Harris shares her emotional journey of reuniting with her biological family, meeting her birth mother, and coping with the loss of her mother. The story is a testament to the complexities of adoption, the search for identity, and the power of family bonds.

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In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith interviews Dr. K.E. Garland, an award-winning author and fellow adoptee. They discuss Dr. Garland's journey of self-discovery as an adoptee and her experiences with sex addiction. Dr. Garland shares her epiphany of realizing she was an adoptee and the emotional impact it had on her. She also delves into the concept of sex addiction and how it relates to unresolved trauma and attachment issues. Throughout the conversation, they touch on themes of loss, identity, guilt, shame, and the importance of seeking therapy for healing.

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Garrett Lee shares his experience as a same race adoptee and how he found out about his adoption at the age of 11. He recounts the moment when a family friend revealed the truth at his father's funeral. Garrett discusses his initial disbelief and the subsequent conversation with his mother, where she confirmed that he was indeed adopted. He shares his journey of questioning his identity and searching for answers about his biological parents. Garrett also reflects on his gratitude for his adoptive parents and the love and support they provided throughout his childhood. In this conversation, Tarcia discusses the emotional impact of being adopted and the challenges she has faced in her relationships as a result. She shares her journey of self-discovery and the importance of knowing one's roots. Tarcia also emphasizes the need for adoptees to seek therapy and find support from others who have gone through similar experiences. She encourages adoptees to be open-minded and consider different perspectives when exploring their adoption stories. Tarcia concludes by urging adoptees to do their own research and not rely solely on the narratives they have been told.

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In this episode, Sharon shares her journey of discovering her adoption at the age of 53. She talks about the clues she had throughout her life and the confirmation she received. Sharon discusses her relationship with her parents, particularly her loving and supportive father and her strained relationship with her mother. She also opens up about the emotional and physical issues she faced as a result of her mother's treatment. Sharon shares her experience of discovering her brother's adoption and the impact it had on their relationship. She also discusses her college years and the lack of financial support from her parents. In this part of the conversation, Alicia (Sharon) Williams discusses her identity crisis as an adoptee and the feeling of not knowing who she truly is. She reflects on the impact of her upbringing and the lack of self-discovery. Alicia shares her journey of unraveling her story and finding her own identity. She also discusses the disappointments and strained relationship with her adoptive mother. The conversation takes a turn when Alicia reveals her experience with Ancestry DNA testing and the shocking revelation it brings. Alicia (Sharon) Williams embarks on a journey to uncover her true identity after discovering inconsistencies in her family history. She sets out to find her birth certificate and learn more about her origins. Along the way, she encounters challenges and roadblocks, but her determination never wavers. As she delves deeper into her search, she uncovers shocking revelations and unexpected connections. Despite the emotional turmoil, Alicia remains hopeful and continues to build relationships with newfound family members. With the help of a confidential intermediary, she gets closer to finding the answers she seeks. In this conversation, Alicia (Sharon) Williams shares her journey of discovering the truth about her adoption and reconnecting with her biological family. She recounts the moment she received confirmation of her mother's death and the emotional impact it had on her. Alicia describes the extensive research she conducted to uncover her family history and the joy of finally connecting with her siblings. She reflects on the importance of truthful disclosure in adoptions and the need for accessible and accurate documentation. Alicia also discusses the strained relationship with her adoptive mother and the challenges of caring for her in her later years.

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In this episode, Sharon shares her journey of discovering her adoption at the age of 53. She talks about the clues she had throughout her life and the confirmation she received. Sharon discusses her relationship with her parents, particularly her loving and supportive father and her strained relationship with her mother. She also opens up about the emotional and physical issues she faced as a result of her mother's treatment. Sharon shares her experience of discovering her brother's adoption and the impact it had on their relationship. She also discusses her college years and the lack of financial support from her parents. In this part of the conversation, Alicia (Sharon) Williams discusses her identity crisis as an adoptee and the feeling of not knowing who she truly is. She reflects on the impact of her upbringing and the lack of self-discovery. Alicia shares her journey of unraveling her story and finding her own identity. She also discusses the disappointments and strained relationship with her adoptive mother. The conversation takes a turn when Alicia reveals her experience with Ancestry DNA testing and the shocking revelation it brings. Alicia (Sharon) Williams embarks on a journey to uncover her true identity after discovering inconsistencies in her family history. She sets out to find her birth certificate and learn more about her origins. Along the way, she encounters challenges and roadblocks, but her determination never wavers. As she delves deeper into her search, she uncovers shocking revelations and unexpected connections. Despite the emotional turmoil, Alicia remains hopeful and continues to build relationships with newfound family members. With the help of a confidential intermediary, she gets closer to finding the answers she seeks. In this conversation, Alicia (Sharon) Williams shares her journey of discovering the truth about her adoption and reconnecting with her biological family. She recounts the moment she received confirmation of her mother's death and the emotional impact it had on her. Alicia describes the extensive research she conducted to uncover her family history and the joy of finally connecting with her siblings. She reflects on the importance of truthful disclosure in adoptions and the need for accessible and accurate documentation. Alicia also discusses the strained relationship with her adoptive mother and the challenges of caring for her in her later years.