In this week’s solo episode, David goes in on a big issue he sees holding men back in dating: low agency. This isn’t another rant about dating apps or "modern women" — it’s a no-fluff breakdown of the internal patterns that keep men stuck. From overthinking and blaming the algorithm to waiting for signs instead of taking action, David unpacks why many men’s dating lives feel stagnant — and what to do about it.

He shares four core mindset shifts that can radically change how you approach dating, connection, and confidence — starting within. If you’re tired of hearing the same surface-level advice and ready to take actual ownership of your love life, this episode will hit home.

Plus, David talks about the Men’s Dating Accelerator (MDA) — his practical, no-BS program that helps men develop real-world social confidence, emotional intelligence, and connection skills.

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Aisha Paris Smith is a certified somatic sexologist, sex educator, bodyworker, transformational coach, and speaker who empowers individuals of all genders and orientation to embrace their bodies, desires, and untapped potential. Known for her conscious and compassionate approach, Aisha blends trauma-informed, hands-on methods with playful exploration to spark transformation in and beyond the bedroom.

Nominated to be Sexological Bodyworker of the Year 2025, Aisha’s work has been featured by The Sunday Times, her private retreats in the Financial Times HTSI and most recently she was a featured expert on Channel 4’s Virgin Island. Her clients range from CEOs to professional athletes and long-term couples, as well as erotically inexperienced people, all drawn to her ability to demystify intimacy and connection.

Shaped by her own journey of unexpected healing through conscious sexuality, Aisha creates safe, judgment-free spaces that celebrate choice, curiosity, and growth. She is an advisory board member to The Vavengers, a charity committed to ending FGM and other forms of violence against women and girls.

Key Topics: ⭐ Aisha’s Path To Becoming a Coach

⭐ The Power Of Educating Loved Ones Through Your Own Evolution

⭐ How Naming And Honoring Your Desires Can Shift Your Entire Life

⭐ Opening Your Relationship - Only One Of Several Loving Options

⭐ Navigate Sexual Dissonance In Couples With Compassion And Honesty

⭐ “Warm Sex” - The Gamechanger

⭐ Your Body & All The Cultural Scripts About Age, Beauty, And Worth

⭐ Build Sexual Confidence By Practicing Courage

⭐ Create Real Intimacy By Seeing Your Partner. Fully

⭐ Practice Being Present With Yourself

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In this week’s mini-episode, I go on a bit of a rant—because some of the dating advice out there is downright terrible. From “don’t chase women” to “you’ll just know when it’s the one,” I break down why so much of the advice circulating online is oversimplified, lacks nuance, and actually keeps people stuck. I dissect popular phrases like “be yourself,” “don’t ever settle,” and “if they wanted to, they would”—and show you why they’re misleading or even harmful when taken at face value. If you’ve been confused by modern dating advice or find yourself not getting the results you want, this episode brings the clarity and depth you need.

Plus, I talk about my program—the Men’s Dating Accelerator (MDA)—a powerful collection of workshops that go beyond the surface and help you develop real connection skills, resilience, and confidence.

Men’s Dating Accelerator:https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda

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Reuben Christian is an award-winning edutainer with over 20 years of experience as a host, speaker, coach, and comedian. He’s worked with global brands like Samsung, BBC, Channel 4, and Deutsche Bank, bringing energy and empathy to events and workshops worldwide. Through engaging talks and interactive sessions, Reuben helps teams grow in areas like communication, creativity, and mental well-being. He’s also the founder of Dream Rehab and co-host of the What Is This Behaviour? podcast, empowering people to unlock their potential through community and storytelling.

⭐Fear of Being Seen

⭐Somatic Anxiety

⭐Vulnerability as Strength

⭐The Imagination Trap

⭐Cultural Conditioning

⭐Being Brave by Being Vulnerable

⭐Creative Visibility

⭐Power of Storytelling

⭐Masculinity and Emotion

⭐Authenticity vs. Performance

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In this week's mini-episode, I dive into why therapy alone isn’t always enough to break the cycles keeping men stuck. From intellectual insight with no emotional change to the absence of real-time feedback and challenge, I break down why many men stay trapped in old patterns—despite doing the “inner work.” I also reveal what actually moves the needle: embodied practice, nervous system regulation, accountability, and being witnessed by other men in a safe space. If you’ve done the work but still feel stuck, this is for you.

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Robyn Linn is a mysitc thought-leader, author, and speaker with 24 years dedicated to uncovering the origins of alchemy. Having studied and lived with Buddhist monks, she combines ancient wisdom with extensive personal and professional experience. As the founder of several multimillion-dollar brands and a consultant to entrepreneurs for over two decades, Robyn's unique approach transforms challenges into opportunities for authentic self-renewal and presence for developing awareness amd sovereignty. She is also the host of the self-development podcast "OG Mastery," available on Spotify.

KEY TOPICS:

⭐ The Connection Between Sensuality And Success

⭐ The Energetic Nature Of Feminine Magnetism

⭐ The Differences In Emotional Expression Between Men And Women ⭐ The Influence Of Trauma On Relationship Patterns ⭐ The Need For Containment Of Feminine Energy ⭐ The Hidden Tenderness Within The Masculine Heart ⭐ The Over-Masculinization Of Women In Modern Relationships ⭐ The Role Of Inner Integration In Creating Intimacy ⭐ The Disempowering Belief That Good Men No Longer Exist ⭐ The Importance Of Space And Balance In Relationship Polarity

⭐ The Foundation Of Attraction Through Self-Acceptance ⭐ The Cultivation And Direction Of Sexual Energy

⭐ The Misunderstanding Of Men Through Feminine Expectations ⭐ The Impact Of Unresolved Wounds On Relational Dynamics

⭐ The Emergence Of Magnetism Through Authentic Presence

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Instagram: @robyn.linn 

WebSite: alchemyattraction.com

In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the hidden reasons so many men get stuck in their personal growth—and how to finally break through. From going it alone to obsessing over self-help content without real change, I break down the subtle ways men avoid the deeper emotional work that truly transforms relationships and self-worth. If you’ve hit a plateau in your healing journey, this episode will show you what actually works—and why you don’t have to do it alone.

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What do boys really think about sex, love, and what it means to be “a man”? In this raw conversation, we unpack the hidden rules shaping young men’s desires, fears, and silent struggles — from money obsessions to why they reject affection. If you want to understand the truth boys never say out loud, this episode will change how you see masculinity forever.

Nathaniel Cole is a writer, researcher and workshop facilitator working across masculinity, mental wellbeing, relationships & sex education, as well as the co-founder of the community swimming group, Swim Dem Crew. Bio (for introduction): Nathaniel Cole is a writer, researcher and workshop facilitator working across masculinity, mental wellbeing, relationships & sex education, as well as the co-founder of the community swimming group, Swim Dem Crew. He has been working in the ending male violence industry for nine years, cutting his teeth in classrooms across the country, before joining both Everyones Invited, the sexual violence education charity and S.M.I.LE.-ing Boys C.I.C., a mental wellbeing initiative, as a Lead Facilitator. He also is piloting a programme for young, marginalised men to better understand their identity and how that impacts their views on relationships and sex. His work brings people together in unlikely settings and challenges their views on a variety of topics.

KEY TOPICS:

⭐ Navigating Masculinity Through Facilitation

⭐ Discovering Safe Male Spaces As A Way To Grow 

⭐ The Work With Young People In Schools - Facts & Observations

⭐ It’s All About Respect - The World Through The Eyes Of Youngsters

⭐ Observing Shifts In Youth Role Models

⭐ Gravitating Toward Performative Masculinity

⭐ Interrogating Beliefs About Touch And Intimacy In Boys

⭐ Building Emotional Literacy In Boys

⭐ Encouraging Non-Verbal Forms Of Expression

⭐ Reframing Power As Internal Strength

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanielacole/ 

Website: https://nathanielcole.co.uk/

In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways high-achieving men unknowingly sabotage their relationships. From avoiding emotional conversations to bringing a business mindset into love, I break down how success at work doesn't always translate to success in intimacy—and why deep connection requires a completely different set of skills. If you're a man who's great on paper but struggling in love, this one’s for you.

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Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

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Why do most men lose their edge, play it safe, and quietly kill desire? In this powerful episode on The Dark Masculine, we explore why risk, raw primal energy, and reclaiming your untamed desires are the real keys to becoming a magnetic man. If you’re done being overlooked, learn how to embody true masculine presence and turn your life — and love — on.

KEY TOPICS:

⭐The Dark Masculine Archetype

⭐Power and Shame in Men

⭐Sexual Shame and Genital Disconnection

⭐Nice Guy Syndrome and Boundary Collapse

⭐Reclaiming Sovereignty and Personal Power

⭐Embodiment Practices and Being in the Body

⭐Masculine Rites of Passage and Initiation

⭐Risk-Taking and Edge Seeking As Essential Masculine Growth Practices.

⭐Masculine-Feminine Polarity And Lovemaking

⭐Tips For Practicing Self-expression And Leadership

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

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