The Confident Single Woman

I love my conversation with Yahnathan of The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast. Today, we discuss why Christian men avoid a woman of compromise.

He has such great insight into this topic! We talk all what compromise looks like and how men are able to recognize a woman of compromise. We even talk about the types of men who are OK with compromise and those who are not.

I ask Yahnathan (Jay) about the process of healing and what that journey looks like, especially as a woman is entering into a relationship.

This is an eye-opening conversation that gives us women insight into the different ways a man might think about a woman who is knowingly compromising, trying to end the compromising tendencies as she goes through healing, and the woman who has chosen not to compromise.

Join our conversation and share!

Learn more about Yahnathan:

Podcast: The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast

Jay’s book: Manifest Him: Powerful Prayers For Your Future Husband

Luke 6:45: A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.

Jay’s Recommended Resource:

Myles Munroe: Waiting and Dating: A Sensible Guide to a Fulfilling Love Relationship

Starr’s Resources:

The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA

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Kristen Clark of Girl Defined Ministries breaks down what femininity looks like in modern culture.

Join us as we talk about what femininity IS and IS NOT what the cultural and biblical differences are. I also ask Kristen about the girls who don’t consider themselves feminine according for societal standards and what role femininity plays in relationships.

We do a deep dive on this topic while keeping a biblical perspective, which should always trump the cultural perspective on femininity.

Learn more bout Kristen:

Girl Defined: GirlDefined.com

Kristen and Bethany’s Books: https://www.girldefined.com/the-books

Podcast: The Girl Defined Show

YouTube: Girl Defined

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Kristen’s Resources:

Revive Our Hearts Ministry - Nancy DeMoss and Mary Kassian

True Woman 101 - Bible Study on Womanhood  - Nancy DeMoss and Mary Kassian

Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA

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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One

7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]

The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]

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Kristen Clark of Girl Defined Ministries breaks down what femininity looks like in modern culture.

Join us as we talk about what femininity IS and IS NOT what the cultural and biblical differences are. I also ask Kristen about the girls who don’t consider themselves feminine according for societal standards and what role femininity plays in relationships.

We do a deep dive on this topic while keeping a biblical perspective, which should always trump the cultural perspective on femininity.

Learn more bout Kristen:

Girl Defined: GirlDefined.com

Kristen and Bethany’s Books: https://www.girldefined.com/the-books

Podcast: The Girl Defined Show

YouTube: Girl Defined

Email: [email protected]

Kristen’s Resources:

Revive Our Hearts Ministry - Nancy DeMoss and Mary Kassian

True Woman 101 - Bible Study on Womanhood  - Nancy DeMoss and Mary Kassian

Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA

Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman

Join our free Facebook Community:
The Confident Single Woman

Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One

7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]

The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]

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New Year, New Miracles!

Listen in as I talk through my journey of receiving God’s confirmations and miracles that eventually led to our move out of California.

In looking back, I cover so many details of God’s intricate design … all the things that set us up for the future, which is where we’re at now. It’s amazing how God works, how He aligns things to work out perfectly, and how He truly does have the perfect timing (though it’s rarely our timing).

I learned in this process of receiving from God, that there is an intense amount of trust, faith, and obedience that is put to the test prior to the manifestation of His miracles.

So, join me as I journey through my recent past and process out loud the guidance I received from God during a difficult season of life!

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New Year, New Miracles!

My Journey from Singleness to Marriage with My Husband!

This was a really fun episode to record as I got to interview and talk with my husband, Sean Burroughs.

We share our individual stories of how God showed up in our lives when we were single. I had to overcome my obstacles of fear, worry, and doubts and learn to trust God and allow Him to open up my heart.

Sean had to learn to endure, seek God, and listen in order to get direction from Him.

We both had to examine our hearts and were able to this through godly mentorship, fasting, and lots of prayer.

Tune in to listen to listen to our stories of how God intervened in our single lives!

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Binding and Loosing verse:
Matthew 16:19; 18:18 (NIV):
“Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be f loosed in heaven.

Ephesians 3:20 (Message):
Now to Him who is able to [carry out His purpose and] do superabundantly more than all that we dare ask or think [infinitely beyond our greatest prayers, hopes, or dreams], according to His power that is at work within us …

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Can you tell me about a time when you had difficulty knowing WHEN or IF you should call it off with that guy you just started talking to?

Or if you should say no to the next date (or maybe even cancel it)?

I bet you can!

This area of knowing when to walk away can be more difficult than it seems. It’s not always black and white. There are a lot of little nuances in a new relationship that can make discernment a bit challenging.

In today’s episode, I cover 5 practical tips on how to know when you should call it off. I’ll also cover those gray areas so you know how to discern for yourself what the right thing to do is and when!

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Is marriage hard? Like, really hard? Why is marriage hard?

Well, that’s the question I’m going to tackle today.

Many married people have said marriage is hard, and I’m sure I have as well. When a single person hears this, she either dismisses the person saying it because she doesn’t respect that person, or maybe thinks that person has something unique in their marriage that makes it hard (that the single person won’t have to go through).

Or, conversely, the single person hears this and wonders if marriage will even be worth it. Does she want marriage more than being single? Could her single life be better than the unknowns of a married life?

Both strings of thought can be hindrances in the process toward marriage.

What I want to share is that marriage can be hard, and it likely will be hard at time, but I do not believe it should always be hard! Like, permanently … during the entire marriage!

Today, I’ll share some of my personal stories from being married for 10 years! I also talk about what makes a marriage hard and how some of those challenges can be alleviated.

Tune in and share!

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Have you ever had the thought when the right person comes along, then …

Or told yourself that you’ll lose weight when …

If you have, like countless others, then you likely know the feeling of waiting for something or someone to motivate you to do what you want to do anyways!

The problem is that we often need to ACT FIRST in order to receive what we really want. We may need to slow down the upward trajectory in our career because it’s taking up all of our mental space; so much so that we don’t have a time for a relationship.

Or we may need to finally begin our counseling journey in order to receive the healthy man that we know we deserve.

You see, we need to act first in order to get what we really want. The challenge is that we won’t always KNOW if we’re going to get that thing, or person, we want. So it can feel defeating if we’re doing all the acting and not yet doing any of the receiving.

We can easily remain stuck for years with the backwards mentality of, “When I have this, then I’ll change that.” Ultimately, the principle holds true that we act first, then receive.

Tune in today to learn how to act first so that you can receive what you want!

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Today, I’ll be discussing one main question I asked my husband shifted the direction of his life (his words!).

This question is the same question I’d ask you on your journey toward marriage.

It’s a question that will force you to think about where you stand with your convictions, your standards, and your vision.

I’ll be discussing what it looks like to surrender your search to God and submit to His vision. This is such an important piece that can easily become neglected when we’re on our way to fulfilling God’s plan for our lives.

Tune in!!

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Have you ever fallen into the trap of believing that men aren’t interested in successful women? As if successful women are too intimidating and men are too insecure …

Though there may be some truth to that, it’s not the whole truth.

There are plenty of very successful married women. It’s simply a fact that a successful woman in her field with lots of money CAN get married to a wonderful man. It’s a fact because it’s been done many times before. I’m not saying there aren’t unique challenges that you’ll face, but it is possible to be very successful and find a wonderful man.

However, what many women seem to forget is that with success people can become very prideful. And pride is ugly. It taints your soul, in my opinion :-)

In this episode, I discuss the differences between a successful, NON-prideful woman versus a successful, prideful woman. This way, you know what to look out for within yourself and you can even apply this awareness to the men you’re dating (it goes both way).

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