There are so many wonderful qualities that we’re all looking for in a husband. Some women prefer a height requirement, educational degrees, ambition, shared morals, humor,  a good conversationalist, generosity, etc. The list could literally go on forever.

But there are 3 absolutes that I believe every woman (and man) should be looking for in a life-long partner.

These 3 things, in my opinion, are non-negotiables. The catch is that they’re usually hard to spot right away.

You know the saying, “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover?” Well, this should be your mantra as you begin searching for men who meet these 3 requirements.

Tune in today to learn what 3 things women should look for in a husband!

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How many of you have family members who love asking about your love life? Or love giving you advice about your love life?

It’s the best when they’ve been married forever and don’t know anyone else who’s single at your age, and they still want to help you understand what you’re doing wrong. Haha!

As much as you love your family (I hope!), I wanted to discuss how to deal with the family members who insert themselves into your love life, or lack thereof, when you get together for the holidays, or any time really.

I cover how to respond to the dreaded question, “Why are you still single?,” how to communicate with those who genuinely care about you, and what to do when you have family members who just love getting under your skin.

Tune in to learn more about what to do! And…share this with a friend you know it can help … And … subscribe and refer back to this before the holidays!

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If you’re curious about how to reject well, what to say, and how to do it graciously, then listen to this episode!

There are 5 different things that you need to consider in order to reject clearly AND graciously. Once you know these things, and truly care about them, it’ll make it a lot easier to reject.

From there, it takes time to develop the “skill” of rejection where you can be kind to the person showing interest in you, but simultaneously turn him down.

I cover how to do this with the men who look great on paper, the “Good Guy, but not Your Guy,” and I also talk about how to reject the man who doesn’t share your faith, values, or beliefs.

Tune in and share!

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How man Christian women are attracted to men based off of society’s standards first, and then and only THEN do they consider if God’s standards are being met?

I want to challenge every Christian woman to reprioritize their standards and attractions to be led by God’s standards first. Then and only THEN will they consider if him if he meets society’s standards.

Essentially, I’m asking you to choose backwards.

Now, this doesn’t mean I’m saying you should give NO consideration to looks (because we all know that’s the first filter), but what I am saying is that it’s possible that too much value is being given to making sure the guy meets ALL your physical qualifications first.

Give this episode a chance :-) Tune in and share!

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As a single woman, I’m sure you’ve listened to dozens, if not hundreds, of YouTube videos on singleness and dating, listened to plenty of wisdom from Matthew Hussey, and received too much unsolicited advice from everyone around you.

I’m a Love Coach for single Christian women and though I’ve heard much of the same advice as you have, I am certain I’ve never heard anyone talk about what I’m going to talk about on today’s episode.

I learned about this massive, overlooked issue that keeps people single because of my clients, the women in our Confident Single Woman Facebook group, and from single friends. I had to bring this to light on today’s episode and discuss how it may be impacting you in your single life.

This issue applies to so many people, men and women alike, and it’s something that people don’t even consider to be a hindrance. However, I see how this issue slows down people’s progress toward finding someone they want to be with forever.

Thank you for tuning in today and for sharing this episode to those you know it’ll help!

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As a woman, were you taught how to suppress your sexuality in the Christian culture?

Suppression looks different to different people, but if you’ve ever felt ashamed of your desire for sex, your sexuality, or simply about being a woman then please listen to this episode, “How to Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman.”

I interview Kat Harris of “The Refined Woman” and she goes into detail about what sexuality is, what it looks like if we’re ashamed of our sex drive, how to embrace your sexuality in a biblical way, and how to overcome shame.

You won’t want to miss this! Tune in and share!

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If you’ve ever struggled with self-condemnation or simply not liking yourself, you’ll want to listen to this episode! I talk about 3 specific consequences that happen in the dating life of a single person who struggles with actually liking herself.

This is also for the person who deal with low self-esteem or self-worth. Tune in to learn about how this affects your dating life!

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Have you ever caught yourself seeking validation from a man? Going on dates wondering, hoping that he chooses you. Maybe you’ve felt your best about yourself when you’re dating. Or you feel most valuable when you have a man’s attention.

If you’ve caught yourself needing to feel important and valued, but you can only get those feelings when a man chooses you, then you’re seeking validation from a man.

Tune in to today’s episode, 3 Signs You Need a Man’s Validation, to learn if this is you!

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If you’ve ever struggled with believing marriage is going to happen for you, then please listen to this episode.

Christian was in a place where she genuinely, and constantly, questioned if she’d EVER get married. In fact, she told me once that she simply didn’t believe she ever would. She wanted to believe it, hoped for it, but deep down she was deeply unsure.

Her story is a common one - not an avid dater, distracted with life and its responsibilities, and not putting any focus on her love life slowed down her progress toward love. However, in time, that plot line began to change.

Tune in to learn about the shift that happened for Christian and how she went from overcoming big mental and emotional hurdles, to being in a committed relationship with an incredible man!

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Melanie’s Story: From Single and Searching to Happily Married

Have you ever wondered what it’ll be like to go from single to married?

Of course you have! You’ve probably dreamed about that a thousand times!

In this episode, I talk with Melanie, a former client, about her journey from singleness to marriage. She was like many of the women I know - unwilling to get married just for the sake of getting married! She didn’t want to settle, wasn’t interested in just any man, had her standards in place, but wasn’t making any headway in the love department.

Tune in and listen and she takes us on her journey from online dating frustrations, long distance dating challenges, and overcoming personal obstacles in order to have a great relationship.

Now … she got married in a Pandemic and is loving life with her new husband!

Tune in and share!

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