Welcome to Mindset Matters -  Join Patrick and Steffany as they delve into the fascinating realms of perception and perspective. In their discussion, they shine a light on eye-opening insights that could transform your relationship(s) through clearer communication. By embracing the mantra of 'seek first to understand, then be understood,' and fostering  the mindset of curiosity, they navigate the intricacies of human perception and how it impacts perspective. In this conversation Patrick and Steffany explore the profound truth that 'when we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change,' and do their best to empower and encourage listeners to embrace new viewpoints and foster deeper connections. Get ready for a journey of growth, empathy, and understanding on Mindset Matters!

Join Patrick and Steffany as they embark on a conversation delving into the profound wisdom of Ikigai, the ancient Japanese concept that encompasses the intersection of passion, mission, vocation, and profession. Through their insightful discussions, they explore how Ikigai, often referred to as “a reason for being,” intertwines with the core principles of the Values to Vision coaching programs they frequently present. In this discussion, they shed light on the pathways to purposeful living and fulfillment, uncovering the timeless relevance of Ikigai in shaping a meaningful existence and crafting a vision aligned with their deepest aspirations.

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Dr. Chris Honey is Professor and Head of the Division of Neurosurgery at the University of British Columbia.  He obtained his medical degree from the University of Toronto and his doctoral degree from Oxford University as a Canadian Rhodes Scholar. He completed his Royal College training in neurosurgery in Vancouver in 1995 and became a diplomat of the American Board of Neurological Surgeons in 2000. He has completed an additional year of training at Harvard Medical School and is a Scholar in Surgical Leadership.

His research is focused on the treatment of movement disorders and pain. He headed the world’s first trial of DBS for spasmodic dysphonia and published the results in 2021. He was the first physician to recognize and successfully treat hemi-laryngopharyngeal spasm (HELPS syndrome) in 2014. He discovered and successfully treated the first person in the world with VANCOUVER syndrome in 2019. He has made fundamental changes to the understanding of human pain pathways.

In this episode, get a first-hand listen to some of the ways in which Chris’ entire medical perspective expanded through his experiences with patients, both personally and culturally. Patrick and Chris very briefly touch into the politics of medicine in British Columbia but don’t hang out there very long before they get into the delicate nature of brain surgery, the medical discoveries Chris and his team have pioneered, what and who compelled Chris to write his book, his superpower, and his kryptonite! Chris feels brain surgery was his calling and it’s certainly evident in the passion and knowledge he brings to the conversation and his ongoing work. In deep appreciation of excellence, Chris expresses the joy for the team he now works with, shares his journey in athletics and the shift he has made from competitor to collaborator. 

Dr. Honey’s book, The Tenth Nerve, published by Penguin Random House Canada, is now available at Indigo, local bookstores and drchrishoney.com. It is an homage to seven patients who taught him more about medicine than any lecture or textbook.

Steffany and Patrick go back into the archives for this episode on "Forgiveness". 

“No forgiveness no peace, know forgiveness know peace.” Source unknown

In life, we all come to know that shit happens. People do things that hurt us, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. We do things to others, and to ourselves, we make mistakes. What’s left is the need to forgive… to forgive ourselves or others.

Desmond Tutu once said “Forgiveness does not mean that we pretend things are anything other than they are. I am hurt, we say. I am betrayed, we announce. I am in pain and grief. I have been treated unfairly. I am feeling ashamed. I am angry this has been done to me. I am sad and I am lost. I may never forget what you have done to me, but I will forgive. I will do everything in my power not to let you harm me again. I will not retaliate against you or against myself.”

Join Patrick and Steffany for the Mindset Matters Podcast as they explore the evolving world of language. In this episode they delve into the changing meanings and newfound prominence of words, once obscure but now mainstream. Patrick and Steffany consider the forces behind this linguistic revolution and how words drive emotions that drive decisions. From societal shifts to political pandering, they shine a light on what appears to be driving the emergence of new descriptors and the new word order. Language isn't static—it's a reflection of our ever-changing world. Join them as they navigate this dynamic landscape and look behind the curtain of our evolving vocabulary and the stories being told. Tune in to this episode of the  "Mindset Matters Podcast" and discover the power of words in shaping our perceptions and interactions.

E.B. Tucker is an investment industry veteran and author of The Tucker Letters blog, and Why Gold? Why Why Now? The War Against Your Wealth and How to Win It.

In this episode E.B. shares the simple answer for what he’s up to, and the reality of why. Patrick and E.B. get into world events past and present, the real estate landscape in the U.S., along with the ever-increasing government debt and how it could unfold. They discuss the inevitability of emotional decision making, but rather than beating ourselves up (we are human after all) consider cultivating strong habits that fortify our intellect and physical body. E.B. offers ideas and guidance around protecting the wealth we build, shifting our perspective from static, linear thinking to dynamic thinking and rowing our boat of life more gently down the stream.

Embark on a transformative journey with Patrick and Steffany in this weeks' episode of their Mindset Matters podcast. Together they delve into seven random but meaningful rules of life that if applied could have a profound and positive influence. In their conversation, they consider the intricacies of these guiding principles, offering their insights intended to enrich and uplift. Join them as they navigate the path towards self awareness, empowerment, and fulfillment, inviting you to create and embrace a life of authenticity and joy.

Join Patrick for this episode of Mindset Matters as he reflects and delves into the entrepreneurial psyche, navigating through the wisdom of Winston Churchill's words. Embracing the concept that success is a relentless journey, marked by the resilience to rise above failure, Patrick contemplates the weight of responsibility that being your greatest self-demands. He invites you to consider the essence of entrepreneurial freedom, the transformative power of compassionate capitalism, and the indomitable spirit required to innovate and problem-solve. He shines a light on the clarity he found in gratitude, acknowledging the invaluable lessons and growth afforded by past partnerships and friendships, even those that have drifted far into the past. Patrick takes a contemplative approach to the trials and triumphs of life when one is committed to perpetual growth and the pursuit of living a life with purpose

Patrick is digging into the archives for a crowd favorite this week.  Here he delves into the inspiring journey of Barbara Arrowsmith-Young, a pioneer in transforming the conversation around learning difficulties. From her childhood struggles to her groundbreaking discoveries in neuroplasticity, Barbara shares her remarkable story of perseverance and innovation.

Listen in on this episode of Mindset Matters as Patrick goes it alone to share his insights on a range of topics, from what drives our desire to change, to musings on how we might better support our kids' development, interspersed with personal anecdotes and decision-making insights within the framework of clarity equals velocity. With co-host Steffany away in Shanghai, Patrick takes the reins, delving into the some of the complexities of both personal and business growth.