Friendship IRL: Real Talk About Friendship, Community, and What It Actually Takes

The Extraordinary Ripple Effects of Small Moments of Connection with Amy Stafford


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Imagine you’re an expat in Berlin in the early 2000s, with no smartphones, no social media, and barely any internet. You walk down the street and spot someone wearing a T-shirt made by a friend from your past life in Baltimore. Do you approach them? 

Well, that’s what today’s guest Amy Stafford did – and this moment led her to being part of the Lucky Trimmer, one of the most beloved dance festivals in Europe.

Amy isn’t even a dancer; she found her way into the community that builds this festival by offering what she was good at to something she was curious about. The festival has since grown into an international phenomenon and has guided Amy into her current design career as the founder of the Blixa 6 Studios.

In this episode, Amy and I talk about how small moments can lead to the most extraordinary ripple effects. Whether you're feeling stuck in your current social circles or wondering how to connect in a new city, Amy's story is going to show how the connections you're seeking might be closer than you think. You just have to say hello.


In this episode you’ll hear about:

  • Amy’s initial encounter with a t-shirt in Berlin, which led to a friendship and eventually to her involvement with the Lucky Trimmer dance festival
  • The importance of volunteering and contributing to a community to build social capital and create meaningful connections
  • The power of small actions and moments of courage in creating significant changes and opportunities
  • Saying yes to new experiences (!) and how it can lead to unexpected and fulfilling connections


Resources & Links

Check out Amy’s free coloring booklet and learn more about Lucky Trimmer.

Like what you hear? Visit my website, leave me a voicemail, and follow me on Instagram and TikTok!

Want to take this conversation a step further? Send this episode to a friend. Tell them you found it interesting and use what we just talked about as a conversation starter the next time you and your friend hang out!

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