The Motherkind Podcast

The Happiest Countries Do Motherhood Completely Differently


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What if motherhood wasn’t meant to be this hard – or this lonely?

In this episode of Motherkind, Zoe is joined by journalist and bestselling author Helen Russell to explore how culture shapes the way we experience motherhood.

After becoming a mother in Denmark, Helen shares how living in a Nordic system gave her “permission to live differently” – with more rest, trust, parental support and far less guilt. Together, Zoe and Helen unpack why so many mothers in the UK feel under pressure to cope alone, and how much of that is cultural rather than personal.

In this conversation, we explore:

  • Why vulnerability in motherhood is normal – not a failure
  • How parental leave, childcare and systems reduce guilt and burnout
  • What Denmark gets right about raising children and supporting mothers
  • Why happiness doesn’t mean feeling good all the time
  • The power of community during big life transitions
  • This episode is a gentle but powerful reminder that if motherhood feels overwhelming, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong – it’s because you were never meant to do it alone.

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    If you liked this episode, listen to this next: Motherhood transformed me into who I was meant to be all along | Megan Rose Lane

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