On this weeks episode Tahoe hands over the reins of the show to Kasha Vanessa (@Au_Natural38) and she takes them through a myriad of super deep topics ranging from parenting as a sexual person with autistic children, clitoral squirting and male vulnerability and thats just the first part! Tune in this Thursday as it really gets nasty when we drop part Two of the episode and talk the hard, the soft and why Kahxme is attracted to babymommas? This episode was IT!!

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This week we welcome Tahoe's cohost of So Shameless Podcast @MsDajahBelle and her man Gunna to talk about their relationship, their experience at the play party and Tahoe's hesitance to move forward with certain aspects of his play life with his girlfriend. Loon also sits in to discuss a moment that Tahoe might've went too far and then Gunna has an interesting proposition for his lady. This one felt right. Enjoy!

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Basking in the aftermath of his first solo play party Tahoe speaks to Sir Marvelous, his sub Syphon and The Naked Trumpeter about the experience, then speaks on his first Topping session with a listener, asks the guys about their technique they use in approaching a person they're interested in without scaring them away and asks Syphon "who bares more of the responsibility in teaching their partner how to have sex with them?". Then Tahoe breaks down and speaks about something that has been ripping him apart over the last few weeks..this was so much fun!! Enjoy!!

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On this episode Tahoe finally admits that he does not enjoy eating vagina and asks if its a sexual act that he doesn't like, should he consider not doing it? Then we talk doing anal for your partner, sex on the beach , Maxs journey as a trans man (LOVED THIS STORY) and becoming a porn director. Marley discusses her journey into doing porn, Tahoe is greased up in baby oil while doing a 30 Day pussy eating challenge, who the hell is "No cum Girl" and a THREE INCH CLIT??? This episode was SO GOOD!

Our Next event is a sea side themed Play party called 'BAEWATCH" thats going down on July 23rd!!
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Weeee'ree baaaccckkkkk! This episode was a whole mess lmao from asking what season is the best to have sex, stopping your nut to please your partner, and... is vabbing really a thing???? Then we talk glory holes, couples tryna bag Tahoe and Tahoe says he is TERRIFIED of what is about to happen at his play party. Listen in to find out why...Enjoy!!

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Welcome Back! On this episode we are on location at our play party space @SuciaNYC to talk the culture of play parties, the do's and don'ts, the myths and misconceptions and the thoughts men have regarding swinging and/or performing in spaces like that in front of people. These guys were really good at speaking on the male experience, the anxiety, the jealousy and the thoughts that come along with being poly and or experimental with your partner. Hopefully you guys learn something about the male psyche in this episode because it is ALOT...Enjoy!!

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Bruh..This episode has me at home with several ice packs and a tube of icyhot! @Domina_Katarina and her friends jumped ME!!! lmaooo Nah i had a great time, possibly the most fun ive ever had on an episode of any podcast before. Who knew fetish wrestling would be so fun?! This is definitely an episode you want to go watch on Youtube right after you listen to it. All i got to say now is...Who's Next??!

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This week we are joined by Hope Giselle, The Naked Trumpeter and LekuroKami, to talk how many times a week they would like to have sex, making the sex completely about your partner, what to do when your partner is horny but you aren't, and then we ask what the community wants us to do with black cisgender hetero men that havent done "the work"...this one got really intense but we wanted to represent for pride month by having a different type of conversation. Hope you guys enjoy.. 🏳️‍🌈

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Hope - @HopeDisguised on Twitter / @HopeGiselle on Instagram
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Whew! This episode was alot 😩! We invited pleasure enthusiast Sage The Flame, and podcasters Funsize T and Iamemez from the Empty Thoughts Podcast to talk the most inappropriate places they've had sex, women's fascination with getting head from guys and never actually having intercourse, what foreplay looks like to them and how important it is...or isn't, and what trash sex means to them. This one went EVERYWHERE and back again! Hope you Enjoy!!


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On This episode @MouseJones, @DomMeSteph, and @IamPapafrfrtho talk a little skat play, why Mouse and Steph arent into 3sums, comparing toxic masculinity to racism, fisting bootyholes, and then we ask the question...can polyamory kill the main relationship? This episode was absolutely NUTS. Enjoy!!