I get asked this question a lot by non-INFJs who want to date an INFJ. INFJs tend to go into their caves unannounced, and that causes non-INFJs to fret, worry, and overthink, maybe the INFJ doesn't love them anymore?

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There are four tells that INFJs have when they like someone romantically. Usually, INFJs keep these kinds of things close to their chest, but sometimes they can't help expose their heart's true feelings.

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INFJs tend to be tough love junkies - we want to show love and empathy, but we end up being a bit mean about it, unintentionally. We might come across as cold, but we aren't on the inside. I promise you.

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One of the most frequent questions I get from non-INFJs is about the hot and cold nature of INFJs. Why do we do this? What is the reason behind this mysterious swinging of behavior?

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INFJs have this weird delusion that if they suffer, they will somehow be able to balance out the world a bit. No, that's not true. And you need to stop doing that to yourself, INFJs. Your suffering doesn't make the world a better place or balance it somehow. Stop doing that!

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INFJs pendulate back and forth between being as warm as freshly-baked apple pie, to being as cold as the frigid Arctic winters. That confuses the people around us, and I get asked this question of why do INFJs do this, the most by non-INFJs.

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INFJs dislike clingy people because clinginess is a shadow of theirs. The same applies to anything else that we dislike - if you hate something, it's in you as well. That's the basic of shadow work, which I highly recommend to everyone as a daily self-improvement practice!

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Everyone is imperfect, but INFJs have this fear of being labeled as imperfect not only by others but by themselves. We want to do our best, and our best is too high on the pedestal to even reach. Therefore, we never end up finishing anything or doing anything. What a curse it is!

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There are so many people in our circles and around us that are weirder than us, that INFJs wonder why they are always labeled as the weird ones. Oddballs, kooky, quirky, crazy, different, unique - all of these names have been given to INFJs throughout their lives.

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The world can be chaotic, and INFJs like balance, harmony, and peace, as much as possible. So, we tend to run to our abodes, our caves, our inner sanctuaries, to hide from the madness of the world.

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