195 - The Questions Every Auto Repair Shop Owner Should Be Asking
March 13, 2026 - 00:53:14
Entrepreneurial drive can turn destructive when shop owners chase ideas without discipline. Impulsive spending and constant pivots create stress at home and in the business. Stability comes from personal responsibility and honest self reflection. Counseling and trusted advisors help owners slow decisions and see problems clearly. Strong routines and clear boundaries create healthier leadership. Long term success requires better communication and the courage to address hard truths.
Lucas Underwood, Shop Owner of L&N Performance Auto Repair and Changing the Industry Podcast
Cecil Bullard, Founder of The Institute
[00:00:36] – The episode opens with a tough question about destructive cycles in shop ownership.
[00:01:40] – Repeated impulsive decisions and constant pivots are framed as warning signs.
[00:03:15] – Counseling is presented as a strength, not a weakness.
[00:05:27] – Serious debt becomes a key marker of unhealthy behavior.
[00:07:31] – Big purchases need structure, delay, and outside accountability.
[00:10:00] – Routines and systems can reduce stress and prevent bad decisions.
[00:15:12] – Personal responsibility is essential for change and long term stability.
[00:18:12] – Boundaries and better responses can shift unhealthy relationship patterns.
[00:28:12] – Avoiding hard conversations allows damage to keep growing.
[00:38:10] – Calm, fact based conversations build trust and create a path forward.
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This transcript was generated using artificial intelligence and may contain errors. If you notice any inaccuracies, please contact us at [email protected]. Lucas Underwood: Welcome, welcome, welcome. Thank you everybody for being here today. I am here with Cecil Bullard. Cecil, how are you buddy?
Cecil Bullard: I'm doing fantastic. Lucas. You know, it's, uh, it's not Friday, but it's, uh, but we're almost there.
Lucas Underwood: Close up, right? We're getting there. Uh, Cecil. Hey, listen, so I got a message last night.
Okay. And it was a little concerning. It was from a dear friend of mine, um, and it was, it was actually from his wife. And, and they're going through some struggles right now. You've been doing this a long time. They're shop owners, and I just want, I've, I've summarized the message. I'm not gonna, uh, expose who they are or anything like that, but I've summarized the message, I've brought it way down.
I have a couple questions that I wanna start with in this episode. We're gonna dive off the deep end in this. Is that okay with you?
Cecil Bullard: Absolutely. I'm ready to go with you.
Lucas Underwood: Okay. In the shop owner world, how do you distinguish between normal entrepreneurial stress and behavior that might signal a deeper mental health issue?
I know of a shop owner who goes through repeated cycles of extreme enthusiasm and big decisions, buying equipment or vehicles, talking about expanding to multiple locations, launching new services like towing or obsessing over competitors. Then shortly after they regret the decision, get discouraged, withdraw, or pivot to something completely different.
Now, Cecil, this is not just once we've seen this cycle. This, this is, we're, we're 10, 15 times deep at this point. The pattern also shows up financially, large, impulsive purchases or debt in leadership difficulty with sticking with a plan. And they, they, they'll say, Hey, we're gonna do this. And they'll, they even have a coach and they'll say, Hey, I'm gonna do this.
We're gonna make this happen. Then it all falls apart and in constantly chasing the next big idea, instead of stabilizing what they're already doing. Right. Like they, they have it together. All they have to do is be there and lead and guide their team and take 'em to the next level. So the first question is, how common is this cycle in the industry?
Cecil Bullard: Well, I, I would tell you, you know, after, I don't know, 27 years or whatever it is of doing this, that, that the cycle's very common. Um, and I don't know. I don't know that it's an industry challenge as opposed to a human being challenge. I used to think there was a normal, like, Hey, maybe I'm normal or I'd like to be normal.
Yeah. And um, the older I get, the more experience I have, the less I think there's a normal. Okay.
Lucas Underwood: Yeah. And so hundred percent.
Cecil Bullard: And so number one, right? Um, entrepreneurial spirit means, uh. I want to do something. I want to do something special. Certainly I've had that entrepreneurial spirit. I'm also, um, a little bit obsessive compulsive and a little bit manic depressive myself, and a lot of the people in my family have these traits.
My mother was way manic depressive.
Cecil Bullard: Um. Even bordering on what, what most people today would call mentally ill. Right. And so, you know, learning to, to deal with that, learning to deal with it in your own self.
Cecil Bullard: And, uh, you know, I would say unfortunately, most of us are kind of blind to it ourselves.
Yeah. 'cause when we're in the, if I'm in the moment, like this new thing that's so exciting and everything
Cecil Bullard: Everything else goes away. Right.
Cecil Bullard: Um, I could be, I could be called, I mean, my wife could have called you and. Maybe he told you the same thing. Uh,
Cecil Bullard: Pattern over years and years and years.
I'm so excited about this new shop and, and I'm gonna do that. And then, and then it gets a little hard and I get distracted. And now I'm over here doing this other new project and this other new project, even the institute, um, if it weren't for other people here that could stay focused on one thing, um, we couldn't be where we are or who we are.
If it was just up to me, 'cause I would be moving around too much.
Lucas Underwood: I resemble that remark. I really do. Yeah. And here's the thing is, you know, I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety and went and spoke with somebody and, and I got really lucky because I found a therapist who I really connected with and, and first of all, I just wanna say like.
I know we're supposed to be big, strong, tough men. There's nothing wrong with going and talking to a therapist. As a matter of fact, I think if you want to be your best version of yourself, that you should do it even if you're perfectly healthy and you don't have any concerns whatsoever. I,
Cecil Bullard: I think that, uh, I don't know, 35 years ago I was, um, the guy that said counseling, no way.
Never for me, not gonna happen. Yeah. You know, blah, blah, blah. Had a problem. My wife, um, was ready to divorce me. Uh, we went to see a counselor. I, I would tell you that is some of the best money I've ever spent in my entire life.
Cecil Bullard: Yeah. Uh, learning, learning, learning skills that you don't have. It's like, it's almost like getting a coach, um, you know, for your, for your business.
Okay? You have a coach telling you, Hey, you should raise your labor rate, or you should fix your parts margins, or, here's how you manage people, create process, you know, all of that. In a, in a, um, a situation where I might see someone, a counselor, um, that counselor is probably helping me create strategies for me to deal with the world, right?
Yeah. Because again, I don't, I don't think there's a normal, my mom,
Cecil Bullard: Was very abusive. My dad was a, a wonderful guy, but not home. He was obsessed with work. And part of that, I think as I've grown older was that I think he didn't want to be home because there was a crazy woman that lived there with his kids and
Cecil Bullard: And uh, what, and back then you didn't divorce. I mean, you know, that was no way. And, um, yeah. And so you have, I don't know, you said something I think's important is, you know, when is it? Normal or, or up to what point. And then when, yeah, and I think, I think if you're getting yourself in serious financial debt.
Yeah. So, you know, and then, Hey Cecil, what's serious finance of debt? Oh, I don't know. A million. Eh,
Lucas Underwood: it's not that much. Well put this way,
Cecil Bullard: but serious. If
Lucas Underwood: it's this way, if it's, we went and bought $140,000 truck. Yeah. We financed it at a very high interest rate, and now we wanna refinance the house.
Lucas Underwood: Because we've also stuck some other financing in that truck too.
Cecil Bullard: Well, and the problem is that you, you, you, you work all your life to. Like pay off the house and all of a sudden you're financing the house because you've gone out and spent money in places that you shouldn't have done. Yeah. Right. And I have people in my life that have spent lots of money, got, got themselves in serious, serious debt.
And I, I mean, don't get me wrong in business, to me, debt kind of comes along with business if you're going to push the envelope and try to do things that other people aren't doing. Right, right. So
Lucas Underwood: yeah, for
Cecil Bullard: sure, for sure. If for sure, if the opportunity came along right now for me to buy. Another company that made sense that, that I thought would be really great for the, for the institute, et cetera.
I, I'd go do it and I'd get in debt to do that.
Cecil Bullard: But, but I think if you're not, if you're not stopping and spending, you know, 48 hours or maybe even a week, thinking about the consequences and how you're gonna make the payments and what does that really look like, and
Lucas Underwood: yeah. You know, Warren Buffet once said, he said, if somebody wants you to make a decision right now, it's typically in their favor, not yours.
Cecil Bullard: It's a bad decision. Yeah. And it's almost always gonna be a bad decision because
Cecil Bullard: you're caught up in the moment. Especially if you have like obsessive compulsive romantic depressive, you know, if you're manic, you'll do almost anything. And then if you're depressive, you'll do almost nothing. Right.
And it's, there's not an InBetween. Right, for
Cecil Bullard: For sure. The switch is either on or off.
Lucas Underwood: How important. So, so for me personally, right, the, the way that I've mitigated some of the anxiety and some of the other things, now, I'm not gonna lie, and I think you know this, the way that I've really managed my anxiety is I have put so much on my plate.
I don't have time to worry,
Cecil Bullard: to think about anything else, right?
Lucas Underwood: Yeah, yeah. Exactly.
Cecil Bullard: That's, that's what I do.
Lucas Underwood: Yeah. But, but you know, the big things for me were, is that we built systems around my life, right? And standardized systems. Yes or no.
Cecil Bullard: Coping, coping, coping mechanisms. Exactly. Um, so I have, um, I have anxiety, uh, when I'm in big crowds and you would think, oh, well wait a minute.
That's Cecil. He, you know, he, he's there a lot. But you'll see me, um. Accounting, uh, doing different things. Right. And those are coping mechanisms that, that you develop over for sure. Um, a lifetime to, to reduce the amount of stress that you feel under certain situations, right?
Cecil Bullard: absolutely. Um, and, and, and that's another thing that a counselor will help you with, right?
Um, so as an example, I have a shop owner and his wife, and he's a nice guy. I, I, I, I've, I've, I've known him for a hundred years and. I was working with him probably 10 years ago.
Cecil Bullard: And the wife, um, was working with him and he was borderline abusive with her in front of, verbally abusive with her in front of staff, in me, staff meetings, et cetera.
And she, all she did was cry and, and, and leave and shut, you know, run away. And, and, um, I had a talk with her and I said, what can you control? Can you control him? No, you can't. Right? It's, it's up to him to control him. But, but you can control yourself. So what you're currently doing is not getting you what you want.
The kind of behavior. Yeah. How you're treating him, how you're dealing with, sure. What he does somehow is making him feel bigger or better or whatever, instead of the other way around. I said, what if we tried a different behavior? And I think that's what, I think that's what you, you do when you have counseling.
You have a counselor that says, well, yes, you're not able to communicate this way. So. What if you did this instead, right? Yeah. What if your behavior was different? Um, um,
Lucas Underwood: because I, I think that's,
Lucas Underwood: I think that's huge. And, and look, here's the other side of that is, is one of the things that I worked on was routine.
My wife has been phenomenal for me for this because it's like when I come home, I put my keys in a certain place. And when I get up in the morning, I know where my keys are. That's, and she, she helped me build those routines that add some, some safety for me. Stability. Does that make sense? In other words?
Lucas Underwood: It's, it's less stress. It's like I just know what to do and it's not something I have to think about. And, and those were things that we worked on and, and building routines in your life that protect you from behaviors. Right. I'm not saying that like you can protect yourself from every behavior in every episode, but you can create routines that help prevent things.
Cecil Bullard: Well, and so if you go around and say spending money
Cecil Bullard: Um, maybe I have some limits that I put on that, that I can't make that decision without talking to two other people. Yeah. Like, uh, uh, I'm gonna talk to my wife if I'm gonna spin. A lot of money. Mm-hmm. I, I'm not, and, and, and by the way, for me, I'm not really asking permission.
I just need her to know what I'm thinking. Yeah. What I'm up to and to give me some counseling around whether or not I'm thinking Right. Or, or not thinking. Right. Yeah, exactly. That outside perspective, I may still do it. Right. And then maybe you have a business, uh, coach or a, or, or a mentor that you also have a con, so you say to yourself, okay, I put ourselves in financial.
Uh, risk too many times. Alright? Yeah. And too many might be twice, right? I mean, you've got, you, you, you work and work and work and you build and build and build. And then all of a sudden, you know, because you're in a manic state, you or you might be depressed. And the way out of it is to go buy $140,000 truck.
Cecil Bullard: And so if you create some rules around that or structure and you say, okay, I can't spend more than 10 grand without, yeah. Going and having a two conversations, one with a, a, you know, a, a, a peer counselor and maybe one with my wife or my spouse, or, you know, whatever that is. Right?
Lucas Underwood: An outside perspective, something to slow the process.
Cecil Bullard: So, yeah, because at very least. If you, you know, if we waited a week and we thought about it and we said, man, I'm paying whatever it is, you know, 18% interest on this thing, 140,000. By the time I'm done, I'm gonna pay $400,000.
Cecil Bullard: Um, is that a smart decision or not? No. It's probably not a smart decision as much as I want that truck.
Uh, the truck I got Will, will do. Right.
Lucas Underwood: Exactly.
Lucas Underwood: hundred percent. And
Cecil Bullard: so structure, which again, a counselor, you know, my dad, uh, didn't cry. My dad didn't tell me he loved me, you know, until he was on his deathbed and, and I heard it. Right. Um. As he got older, I think he realized that, you know, real men can cry.
It's okay. Right? Yeah, sure. In fact, maybe we should every once in a while, you know? Yeah. Just to, just to let some of that out. Um, right. But, but I, getting a counselor, if I, if I was doing. I do crazy things all the time. I mean, I think most of the people around me are like, man, that guy is wired. Yeah,
Lucas Underwood: that's what we hired Michael.
Or for, I don't know if you know that or not. Yeah. But
Cecil Bullard: yeah, that's Keep an eye on
Cecil Bullard: No, I think that's Wayne and Kent, the two of them kind.
Lucas Underwood: No, they're the enforcers. Michael's the one that's saying red flags, boys red
Cecil Bullard: flags. Watch out. But, but I think, I think if you understand that, yeah, and, and again, not.
What's normal, right? I mean, if you, if you really wanted to know what's normal, it probably really is someone going out and buying $140,000 truck because they're depressed or because they're upset or because they're not getting out of their relationship what they want or their business what they want.
And that's probably more normal. And so they, but that's also destructive behavior, right? Yeah. And so I think the way you know Lucas is, is my be behavior destructive to me or. Other people around me. Right. Yeah. That's the, maybe that's the judgment call, right?
Lucas Underwood: Yeah. And I, I think in a lot of ways, you know, for, for one, I, I've gotta say this.
Jordan Peterson said something, I was watching one of his videos a while back, and he said, I am a firm believer that about 70% of all the people who come into a clinical psychology practice do not have mental illness, but their life has become so complex they don't know how to manage it. And, and my job is to break that down and help them begin to find tools to navigate through that.
In this case, this individual, every single time we've gotten here. Has come up with a, a reason, an excuse that it's not them. And they begin to place blame on everything around them. And it's all, well, that's, it's this, no, it's this. No, it's this. No, it's this. Instead of taking that ownership.
Cecil Bullard: Well, that's kind of the other thing.
And I, I, I don't, I don't, I think you and I actually kind of had this conversation. It's about taking in our podcast we did last week.
Cecil Bullard: Yeah. Are you taking personal responsibility or not, right? Yes. Am I blaming this on everything else? I mean, here, here's the deal. Uh, as I grew up, my mom was physically, verbally, mentally abusive, right?
I mean, literally for the first 13 years of my life, she told me what a worthless.
Cecil Bullard: X, X, X, XI was every day, many times a day. Right. And, and that was often accompanied with anger. Mm-hmm. Um, being kicked hit with whatever there was. And, um, and so you, you grow up with that and you're like, well, you know, I'm, I got my weird stuff because it's my mom's fault.
Right, right. So I'm gonna let, let me blame my mom. Well, if you blame mom, you can't get, you can't get rid of it. You can't get out of it. Right, right. If it's not, if it's not what you do. Who you are, right? It's someone else's in control or, or something that happened to you 10 years ago. Amen. Now controls your lives.
Amen. Then you, you're stuck. You're trapped.
Lucas Underwood: Exactly. When you own the problem, by God, you own the solution.
Cecil Bullard: Yeah. And you know, I think that that, number one, that might give you a little more frustration, right? Yeah. So why am I feeling like this? Oh, well your mom was mean to you and she told you you were worthless.
Okay, so. But, but you also can, if, if you're, if you can be aware. And if you can say, okay, you know, when was the last time? I mean, my mom's been gone for 10 years now, maybe 12. And, and, um, prior to that, I didn't, you know, for the last 30 years of my life, I really haven't, she hasn't been in my life in the way that she could influence my life on a daily basis.
So, for the, at least the last 30 years, who's had control of my life. Yeah, well, guess what? This is the guy, right? Amen.
Lucas Underwood: So every, if you leave
Lucas Underwood: toxic person in your life,
Lucas Underwood: hey, that's still your fault, right?
Cecil Bullard: Like, I hate that. And the other thing is like that, but so, so putting it down in, in, in kind of shop owner, uh, uh, you, you asked about like in the shop.
So yeah, I teach classes about management, leadership and sales and, and you know, I'll say, here's what you probably ought to do and yada, yada, yada. And, and. At the end of almost every class, I have someone come up to me and they say, well, my owner won't do this or won't do that, and yet the owner's the one that paid for you to be here.
Cecil Bullard: For me, it's like I have to decide what I'm willing to accept in my life. If I went home and my wife started yelling at me about, you know, what a worthless piece of crap I am. I've look at me, I'm 64 years old and I haven't been financially successful yet, and I'm in debt and, and you know, oh, you're always gone and you're, you know, blah, blah, blah.
I'd get rid of her. I mean, and it's not like I don't love her, right? Yeah. But I can't have that, uh, acidity in my life.
Cecil Bullard: Right. It's not healthy for me. Right. And if I'm not healthy, I can't help other people around me be healthy. Right. A hundred percent. So Kent calls it setting boundaries and Yeah.
Cecil Bullard: know, sometimes I think God.
Damn Kent, you have a boundary for everything. But maybe that's the right thing is, is really right. Being very clear about what you need or what you want or, or the boundaries in your life. Right?
Lucas Underwood: Exactly.
Cecil Bullard: And I, yeah, and then, so I had the conversation with the, the wife and I said, well, what if instead of this you did something different instead, just say, instead of crying and, and rushing out and you know, et cetera.
What, what if you said. You know, I don't think that's really appropriate here amongst the employees to have that conversation right now, to be, to, for you to treat me that way. Yeah. And and she did. And guess what?
Lucas Underwood: He stopped.
Cecil Bullard: Yeah. Right. So I, I think. Part of the, for me, I want to have control over my own emotions and my own life.
And that's, that's hard, right? Yeah. And sometimes it's not even possible. I mean, I'll see some weird movie and I'll, it, it'll make me cry. Right. Right. And I don't, I, I don't even know why. Right. Yeah. I'm just like, I. Why am I crying about this is the stupidest thing and here's this, you know, 64-year-old guy sitting there, oh my God, you know, he's dead and blah, blah, blah.
And I'm like, that's not even real. It's just a damn movie. But most of the time, I'm, I go, okay, this is what I'm willing to accept or not willing to accept. And, and when a service advisor comes to me or a manager and says, my owner won't X, Y, Z, right? My, my advice is this, first of all. Figure out do do the pluses of being in that place and, and working for that person.
They outweigh the minuses, right? Because the minuses are gonna be there. I you, you've been, I don't know how long you've been married. Um, I got four kids. I got four kids ranging from, I don't know, 30 to to 40. Right.
Cecil Bullard: And, and they have given me grief, uh, and pleasure beyond, uh, what I thought I could endure.
I mean, right. You know, happiness, that, that, that is, is overwhelming and pain. That's overwhelming. And do I think that in the next 20 years that's gonna disappear because I, I just want it to No, it it, you ha you're in business. Business is always a challenge. I mean, don't, don't be wrong. There might be days here where nothing goes wrong.
I don't have any clients that are upset or everything's perfect, you know? No, no employees. But you know, the bigger your business gets, the more people you have in your life, the bigger your family gets, the more opportunity to have challenges. Right?
Lucas Underwood: Yeah, absolutely. I, you know, Cecil, the very first business coach I had, I called him one time and I tears in my eyes so upset over all these things that have gone wrong, right?
I said, man, I said, I just want all these problems to go away. And he said, son, you listen to me when all those problems go away, you're dead.
Lucas Underwood: Let's get rid of problems. If we think we're gonna escape the struggle of life, we've lost our minds. Right? Yeah. Like struggle is part of life. Sacrifice and pain is part of life.
We can't just expect that to go away. I think it's, we can work to make it better though.
Cecil Bullard: Yeah. I think it's part of growth though, too. I mean, how do you. How do you experience extreme, um, joy without having experienced extreme sadness? Right. You know, you, you know, you know, family dies and passes away and, and that's challenging, right?
Yeah. I mean, it's extremely challenging. Some people more than others, and. And if I think that's not gonna happen to me, um, I, I am crazy, right? Yeah. I mean, and I for
Cecil Bullard: I love talking to owners. 'cause I'm like, well, today, this morning I'm talking to a guy and he's got a service advisor and it's a, this person's a problem.
They've literally decided that his pricing's too high and that the community can't afford anything and blah, blah, blah. And his sales have dropped by 40%. I'm like, dude. He's like, yeah, I don't, you wanted this. Yeah, you bought the business. You signed your name to the the lease. You're the one that's responsible.
You have to make decisions, and if you think that you're gonna have a business and never have any paying you. Yeah,
Lucas Underwood: aint, go
Cecil Bullard: ahead. You are, you're gonna be disappointed a lot in your life. It's, yeah, it's, and I don't know. For me, the challenges are things that make it exciting, not necessarily when I'm in the middle of it, and it's the most painful or the most stressful.
Right. But you know, before thinking about, well, man, we could do this or this, and then after thinking about, man, we solved that problem. It's, it's, it's what makes the highs, right?
Lucas Underwood: Yeah, exactly. A hundred percent. So let me ask you about my friend. Um, for one, when does it cross from normal entrepreneurial volatility?
Cecil Bullard: when, when is it? When it's hurting the people around you now, now I, and I don't mean in a sense of, well, my wife's mad at me. Okay.
Cecil Bullard: My wife has been mad at me a lot. And I'm pretty sure that, you know, I've made some decisions and she's just shaking her head going, I don't know what that idiot's doing this time.
Right. And yeah, but she doesn't, she, she, she's non, she's non-confrontational. Married a woman who's non-confrontational, which for me is probably good. But
Lucas Underwood: you'd have been dead
Cecil Bullard: by now if I'm, if I'm putting my, my family
Cecil Bullard: jeopardy at risk. Now, and, and again, there's different risk tolerances. So for me, you know, when I first signed my first house, it was a hundred thousand dollars and I thought it was the end of the world.
My God, I'm gonna, I'm gonna owe forever. And how am I gonna make these a thousand dollars payments? Well, you know, I bought another business. I spent over a million dollars on it, um, and, and most of that debt. And so I think, you know, tolerance of risk is different for different people. But if I'm really putting myself in a position where I'm, I'm accepting 18 or.
25% interest because I just gotta have this right now that is not healthy, right? If I can't recognize that, that's a behavior, that's probably not a good behavior to have, then it's not healthy if, if, if I can't talk to my wife about it and, and have an open conversation that's not healthy. Right. And so I think, I think every, I don't know, most shop owners I know have this entrepreneurial spirit.
And it's different than, than the people that just come to work for you. Right? Right,
Lucas Underwood: right. For
Cecil Bullard: sure. And thank God that we have that, because otherwise there'd be no businesses. There'd only be people that need jobs. Right. And
Cecil Bullard: But is it. I don't know. There's harmful relationships, which you have to be careful of too because, uh, I don't, I don't know their situation.
I don't know them like you do. And I don't know if, if, is the wife contributing to this
Cecil Bullard: Or not. Sure. But that's, that's why I need a counselor here. That's why I need to get somebody in the middle.
Cecil Bullard: Who's trained and who, uh, who who can go, that's not healthy. And maybe I go first. Yeah. And then maybe I invite my wife with me down the road once I've figured out that my behavior is not healthy.
Lucas Underwood: You bring up a really valid point is, is in life and in relationships there's casualties, right? Yeah. And, and so I impact my wife, whether I'm mean to or not.
Cecil Bullard: You impact a lot of people, whether you mean to or not, right?
Lucas Underwood: Yeah, exactly. And, and what I say and what I do matters, and sometimes I'm not polished on what I say and sometimes I'm not paying attention to how I'm acting and I'm letting emotion control, you know, I tell people all the time, there is no room for emotion in business.
It doesn't work. I've tried it. Right. Like I, it just does not work for me. And so if, if I am having emotional responses, there's a chance that I impact someone I love and someone I care about. And I don't think that we can have a relationship without negatively impacting that other person at times. I don't think there's a way to avoid that.
Cecil Bullard: Well, yeah. No. No matter what. Yeah. No matter what we, you know, and that's the. Give and take of relationships. I mean, yeah. You know, you and I, I, I've been married for I don't know how many years now, 43. I think we just celebrated our 43rd anniversary and, right. Yeah. Congratulations. Thank you. It, it's been tough, right?
Yeah. I mean, probably harder on her than me. Yeah.
Cecil Bullard: you and I, and you and I have known each other for a long time, and I'm pretty sure that at some point you've probably said, ah, man, that Cecil, I just, you know, I pissed you off at some point, or I said something that you didn't like, or that's where.
That's where understanding the human condition and having some love in your heart and, and some forgiveness in your heart is super important, right? Yeah. I mean, I, I would say in this particular case, I think both, uh, the, both spouses need to look at how they're interacting with each other. Okay. And, and so who knows?
You know, why, why does someone do that and put the family at risk and then wanna mortgage the house? Uh, you know, we, my wife and I, not too long ago, we had a 7,000 square foot house. The kids were gone. Uh, my wife is not as physically able as she used to be, so she can't get down on her knees and clean the bathroom.
And, and I, and I have a hard time doing that. And
Cecil Bullard: But I'm also a clean freak, so, so the bathroom's gotta be clean and, and I couldn't keep up the house and I, so I, I put the house on the market and I did tell her, and we had a conversation, but she was very resentful of that. Right. You know, we've lived here for 28 years.
This is my home, and you're selling my home out from under me. And we went to, we went to see a counselor.
Cecil Bullard: And the counselor said, you know, Cecil, why are you doing this? I said, I, I, I can't keep it up. I can't, like, I can't, I can't live in a filthy condition. It's not in me. Right.
Cecil Bullard: Um, and, and I can't do all of it myself and my wife is not physically able to do that.
We need to be in a more controlled situation. And the counselor looked at my wife and, and said, he's not trying to take away your home. He's trying to create a home that the two of you can live together well, that you can both be comfortable in. And, and so that was. You know, it took a counselor, I think, to help us both, to come to terms with that.
We still sold the house, right? Yeah. And, and we're moving on with our lives, but we can become resentful and we can do all kinds of, um, behaviors that we might not even know we're doing. To prove a point or to create something that we're just unaware of.
Lucas Underwood: How often are these situations caused by our avoidance of hard conversations?
Cecil Bullard: Oh, we don't communicate. That's a real problem. Like we don't talk about things, Hey, I'm feeling like this. Why? Why I'm not supposed to. I'm a man.
Cecil Bullard: right. You, you started this out kinda like, well, yeah, real men don't cry and we don't talk about our feelings and we don't, I mean, I, if I'm disappointed in, in my family or my wife or, or my, even my employees or, or whatever, I'm like, I don't want to have that conversation.
That's not a comfortable conversation. Right.
Lucas Underwood: For sure.
Cecil Bullard: But I think, I think if you don't, if you're not able to have that conversation, then it doesn't get better. It gets worse. Right. So your behavior gets more
Lucas Underwood: coming back to Kent's boundaries, right?
Cecil Bullard: Yeah. Right, right. And Kent's boundary's, like my boundary would probably be further over here and he, but his boundary's here, but he has a very solid boundary.
And Kent gets mad at me 'cause like sometimes I don't have the boundaries that I need. Right. Yeah. He feels like, Hey dad, you're not, you're not you. Why do you put up with this? Why do you let so and so do this to you and whatever? And I'm like, well. You know, I, I am who I am, right? Yeah. And
Cecil Bullard: And, uh, which is an imperfect human being.
Who, which is what I'm supposed to be. Yes. You know, working on doing the best I can every single day. And I would go back to am I taking personal accountability, right,
Cecil Bullard: For my actions and the results of my actions. And then am I harming the people around me, right. Yeah. Or not am I adding And, and I can't go through life without creating some harm.
Right, but am I, am I continuously, am I consistently creating harm and danger, uh, in the lives of other people? Who cares if I go broke and I, you know, end up
Cecil Bullard: You know, being homeless, I'll go live on a beach in Hawaii or something, but, but, um, what if I take my family with me, or I take
Cecil Bullard: my business with me and the people that rely on that?
That's not healthy. Right.
Lucas Underwood: Right. A hundred percent. A hundred percent. So let me ask you this. Now, we, we've isolated that it's not healthy. We, we've determined that something needs to be done, something needs to be said. But in many cases, especially with the shop owners that I've worked with, it's a very difficult conversation.
Very difficult conversation. Mm-hmm. And we have a really hard time getting them to acknowledge this and, and take ownership of this, at least to a degree. Or, or, and, and when I say degree, I'm saying like, Hey, some of this, not all of this, but some of this may actually be your fault and you have to do something to fix it.
Lucas Underwood: And, and listen, I'm the same way. Like you, you, the, I guess it was a month ago, you came to me and said, you need to raise your labor rates. What did I do? I went in and I raised my labor rates while we were on the call. Right. I didn't ask, I didn't question, I didn't do anything. I just did what you said and, and 10 years ago I would've cried for two months about it.
Yeah, right. Like I would've complained. I would've fussed, I would've said that Cecil's an idiot. I would've, right. I would've come up with all these things, but I've recognized to shortened my pathway to growth, I have to take. Immediate action. When someone I trust gives me perspective and feedback, I, and I analyze the situation, right?
I know the data and I say, Hey, listen, I know they're not leading me wrong. I agree with them. It was uncomfortable, but I'm gonna make the decision and if there's a consequence, there's a consequence. This is what I'm doing. And so that takes time to acquire that. In this case, this friend of mine has been doing this for years, right?
Yeah. And never taking it. And it, it, we get better, we get worse, we get better. And I listen. If there's anything that's ever exhausted me about myself in my life, it's the seesaw.
Lucas Underwood: Going up, going up, going up. Oh, back down, back down, back down, back down. Right. I can't like that will wear you out. And so you have to break that cycle.
How do we help them do that, Cecil?
Cecil Bullard: Well, you know, as a, as a coach who often is a counselor, um, I have to build trust with you to a point that if I make a comment or if I say, Hey, we need to do something, that you actually take that seriously. Okay.
Cecil Bullard: And I also have to realize that. I can't just blindly go raise your labor rate.
Lucas Underwood: for sure.
Cecil Bullard: Because for you it's like, for me it's, it's just words I'm saying.
Cecil Bullard: And I, I have a lot of experience to back all that up, but, but for you, it's, it's like, well, what if I do, and what if I lose all my customers? And what if, what if, what if, what if, what if, what if? So I have to build trust with you, and, and what we need to do as human beings is we need to not only find people, but create those relationships of trust with different people in our lives, right?
Mm-hmm. Yeah. So, you know, um. You and I have known each other a very long time. You came to some classes 25 years ago.
Cecil Bullard: They helped you. You went to another coach, he helped you, you, you did some other classes, you know, and at some point we ran into each other and I said, okay, now it's time for you to be my client.
And we've developed, um. I think, uh, not just a friendship, but also a, um, like I trust you and I, I know that what you're doing is, is, is for the, for the best. You are always trying to do what you think is best. And I think that's the other thing, like if we're, if we're sitting around and going, why are they doing that to me?
Oh my God. They're, they're, they're, they're, you know why they always put me in this position. We either have the wrong people in our life or we don't have the right um, attitude.
Lucas Underwood: right mindset, right perspective.
Cecil Bullard: Yeah. My mindset is, you know, if I have people in my company that, that come here every day and work hard every day and, and love the company and, and espouse the company thing, that if they make a decision, they're not making a decision necessarily that's in their own interest.
They're actually making a decision based on our foundational principles and based on, you know, what they believe to be. Best for the country company. Now, I might not agree with what they're doing,
Cecil Bullard: but if they're doing it in the best intention, right? Yeah. Then, then maybe this, this guy is doing what he's doing because he's really trying to provide for his family.
But, and what he sees is if I have this nice truck, then I'm providing for my family. If I, and by the way, I can refinance the house, I mean, that's no big deal, and I can get a lower interest rate
Lucas Underwood: insecurity.
Cecil Bullard: But the problem is you keep. You keep doing that over and over, and when you get old, you don't have anything of any value left.
Yeah. There's nothing there, right?
Cecil Bullard: And, and so I'm, I'm just, I'm saying you need to, number one, you gotta cultivate relationships of trust in your life, and you, you need to trust somebody. I mean, I, it, it would be very easy for me never to trust anybody. I mean, the, the one person that probably should have loved me the most didn't and didn't have the capacity to do that their entire life.
Cecil Bullard: And, and so, but again, I, somewhere in my thirties, and, and by the way, it took me a long time. I was in my late thirties. I finally said it, it's not me, it's, it was her. And, and so I have to learn how to be me and how to be good with me. Right.
Lucas Underwood: You know? There, there's, you've heard me talk about him many times.
He's passed away now. His name was Tim Kite. Mm-hmm. Um, and he owned Focus three leadership and he did a presentation, um, for Ohio State Football. He was the culture coach for Ohio State Football. And he said something that always stood out to me. He said, love. Is given freely, it's never earned, and trust is earned.
Yeah. And you better not mix those two things up. And he said, how do I gain trust through repeated behaviors? Yeah. You know that I'm gonna do what I say I'm going to do. Right. Well
Lucas Underwood: and I think that,
Cecil Bullard: It might be scary too, though, because this, yeah. If this particular person has repeatedly put them in debt and
Cecil Bullard: Bought large purchases and et cetera, I'm, I'm not building trust by repeated behavior at this point. I'm actually creating stress and, and other stuff by repeated behavior.
Lucas Underwood: Well, exactly. And, and that's what I was gonna say is, so now we, we take a step back and we say we're in a relationship. We are in a business partnership, right?
Like this is not just about relationships. This is gonna be partnerships too. There's baggage that comes along with this. There, there, there's baggage in a relationship regardless of what kind of relationship it is. That one time Mrs. Smith said this about me and I'm, oh, I'm very sad about it. But we remember those things.
Lucas Underwood: And we have a responsibility of saying, okay, I have to reset the dial here. At some point because I, you know, one of the things about marriage is, is that vow says. This is forever. This is a forever thing.
Cecil Bullard: Yeah. We're
Cecil Bullard: This is not just for a week or until I get tired of looking at
Cecil Bullard: Here's where
Lucas Underwood: it goes.
Goes better or worse. Yeah. And worse can be pretty worse. Right? So
Cecil Bullard: And they've done that.
Lucas Underwood: Yeah. So when we, when we're in these situations, we at some point have to reset the dial. And I, I think as, as business partners and as as folks in relationships and marriages, we've gotta back up and stop and say, Hey, wait just a minute.
One, as being in this relationship, I know there's parts of me that I'm gonna have to sacrifice. I'm gonna have to compromise with you, right? And to build trust, we're gonna have to compromise with one another to get back here. Right? I understand. I've done things that have upset you and you understand that you've done things that have upset me.
And so we have to come back and find a common ground somewhere because the water gets so muddy.
Cecil Bullard: But you, here's, here's. Am I, am I, how am I talking to you? How am I treating you? Yes. How am I approaching you? Because that's the, if my ego is hurt or if I'm mad,
Cecil Bullard: And I come to you and I go, Lucas, dammit, you son of a bitch.
You always X, Y, Z, right?
Cecil Bullard: That's not healthy. That's not good. And by the way, that's never gonna get me what I need.
Cecil Bullard: If, if I come to you and I say, Lucas. I'm really concerned, uh, uh, I'm gonna have a conversation with an employee, right?
Cecil Bullard: I, I have rules around having those conversations. Number one, I need to have proof of the behavior.
Yeah. So if I come to iga, Lucas, I'm concerned about you. Because I've seen this behavior five times and here's five examples of that.
Cecil Bullard: And, and you know, when you're having conversation with people, it's a management technique. It's a counseling technique or whatever, you know, um, uh, I've seen this behavior.
Do you recognize that there's a pattern here, right?
Cecil Bullard: Hey, can you see this with me? I see that. Okay, great. Now we're, now we, it's a completely different conversation, and unfortunately we let our hurt and our anger
Cecil Bullard: And our disappointment and our egos get in the middle of all this, and we say things and we treat people in a way that's not healthy.
Lucas Underwood: Yep. A hundred
Cecil Bullard: percent. When I, when I start saying, well, you know. I don't know who I could pick anybody and go, well, you're this and you're this, and you're that. All of a sudden, all I'm doing is putting a big widge between us,
Lucas Underwood: a hundred percent man,
Cecil Bullard: and it's probably gonna create more of the behavior I don't want and not the behavior that I want.
We have to be so careful in our relationships and when we're talking to people, how we approach them and, and what we do.
Lucas Underwood: You know, growing up, and I've told you this before, um, I, I, and I love my daddy to death. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying anything bad about my daddy. I don't want you to think that, but I remember growing up, if I grabbed a sandwich bag.
And I put a sandwich in that sandwich bag and it was the right size, he would tell me, why'd you use that bag? Because we don't have that many of that bag. Okay. Um, alright. And I would go to a bigger bag and he would say, why'd you use that bag? You shouldn't have used that bag. Too big. It's too big.
Lucas Underwood: And then I'd have got a small bag. It doesn't fit in there. Right. Like that, that, that's how my dad was. And I look back and I recognize my grandmother was very much the same way with him. Right. That's how he was raised and that's how he raised us. And, and I have to be careful about that. But it also created a thing in me that sometimes when my wife says, so.
I, I respond and I'm like, boom, I can't believe you. Right? Like, I get emotional because of my pocket. I, I put
Cecil Bullard: whatever bag I want, you know, I'm an
Lucas Underwood: adult now, and she's right. I bought
Cecil Bullard: those bags,
Lucas Underwood: right? Whatcha talking about? Whoa. Yeah. And so she, she came to me years ago and she said, can you see that I'm on your team?
Can you see that I'm trying to fight the fight that you wanna fight, that we're doing this together? I'm hearing you. I'm not against you. Right? I want, and if you perceive something I'm saying is against you, you're not hearing what I'm saying. If
Cecil Bullard: there isn't a person that in my life that I don't want to see successful, there isn't a shop that I've ever met.
I mean, I have clients that left me and went to other places where I don't think it was the best thing for them, and it hurts me still today. Yeah, I see 'em and I'm like, oh man, and it hurts. And, but you have to, you, you, you, you kind of have to overcome those things and, and move those things forward or put those things in a place that you know how to deal with them, right?
Yeah, absolutely. My dad was, was very critical. You know, same thing, you know, I mean yeah,
Lucas Underwood: generation, it was the generation he was raised in. It was,
Cecil Bullard: yeah, if I cleaned it, it wasn't clean enough. If I put it away, I didn't put away the way it was supposed to. If I. If I used it, it, it was probably the wrong thing, right?
Yeah. I, I, I wore my shoes out too fast and I grew too fast, so my pants were too short and, you know, and as a parent, I'm thinking, you know, and by the way, guess what? I've screwed my kids up. Just as much as my parents screwed me.
Cecil Bullard: Right. Yeah. And not, not out of bad intention. Yeah. Just out of, you know, oh, I'm really stressed about work and I come home and things aren't, you know, kids are too loud and I scream at 'em instead of get in there and, you know, enjoy the time together.
Lucas Underwood: It makes me think of that Zig Ziglar story, Mr. B. Where he said that Tomcat was the only being in that entire equation who could not have changed the outcome of the circumstances. Right. Like sometimes we gotta be the thing that stops it. Sometimes we have to be the one to put the, the foot down and say, no, I'm not gonna continue this.
This is where we're stopping this. Well, it, it's a really great comment over here. I, I wanna read this book because I know we have a few minutes early, so there's really great comment. Um, it's Todd Ainsworth and he says, I think trust is not only an issue in creating the relationship with clients, but independent shop owners.
Are independent by nature, believe that they have a better way due to past experiences and have trouble believing other people, shop owners, coaches, et cetera, want to help them and not gain some sort of, sort of advantage by looking more closely at financials, et cetera. I have seen that time and time again, they, they tend to say, oh, you, no, I'm, I'm, he's out to do something.
There's a reason there. They wouldn't just want to help me for no other reason. Like, there's got to be something there, right? And so I think that's a really great perspective. Thank you, Todd.
Cecil Bullard: So if, if anything is unhealthy, healthy in my life, it's probably the, the driving force to try to change the industry and, and make it a better place for a lot of people.
I mean, because if, if I didn't have that. I would've done a lot of different things and I'd probably be a much wealthier person than I am at this point. Yeah, right. Yeah,
Lucas Underwood: a hundred percent buddy.
Cecil Bullard: Yeah, I That's a great co thank you, Todd, that, that's really a great, a great comment. But again, it's up to us to be as adult as possible and to recognize what's my part in this and, and, and I think, yeah.
We have to get conscious, and that's one of the problems that we're often unconscious about our communication. And we have to get conscious, especially when we have situations. So like if, if, if I have a real problem with my wife or one of my clients or one of my partners here at the institute, I mean, hell, I.
I never had partners. All of a sudden I got partners in the last couple of years and
Cecil Bullard: And that's not an easy relationship. I had to be very,
Lucas Underwood: you messed up. You went and hired some really, really, really, really
Cecil Bullard: smart, amazing people, smart
Lucas Underwood: partners.
Cecil Bullard: Yes, I did. Actually,
Lucas Underwood: they were very,
Cecil Bullard: well, somebody at one point, I think it was, um, I think it was, um, Covey or somebody who said, uh.
You really wanna surround yourself with people that are smarter than you.
Cecil Bullard: Um, and I, I think you've outdone yourself a few years ago, I've kind of taken much apart. I
Lucas Underwood: you're much smarter
Cecil Bullard: than all of us. Yeah. I mean, I, I, we, we just restructured, um, did a lot of restructuring and I'm signing, I don't know how many pages of legal documents and I'm like.
Man, I'm either, I'm either doing the best thing for myself in the world 'cause I brought the right people in, or I'm gonna end up broken on the streets because I just gave away everything to everybody.
Lucas Underwood: I'm not reading all this. It'll be fine.
Cecil Bullard: No, I read, I read it, but it's, it's not easy to understand. Um, yeah, I, I think.
Y Yeah, but it's not an excuse. We use all these excuses like, like my mom or, or, you know, uh, today I heard, you know, president Trump, uh, the economy and, and the economy's bad. Well, if you're a business owner, you don't get to use excuses.
Cecil Bullard: Okay. If you wanna be successful, you have to be aware. You have to be awake, you have to be.
Knowledgeable, you have to be pursuing knowledge and, and finding out that maybe the way you did it for the last 20 years is not the way it needs to be done in the future. If you wanna really be successful. You know, that adage about doing the same thing over and over and getting the same results, right?
Lucas Underwood: Yeah, for
Cecil Bullard: sure. Um, and, and so back to the idea of counseling. There's never anything wrong with, with finding a good counselor. And I think you can do that. You might have to interview two or three, but, and then saying, help us. To communicate. Yeah. Uh, you know, you have, in this case you have a wife who's, who's concerned.
She's probably concerned for her kids, her future, her husband, their business, et cetera. And then you have a husband who is doing semantic behaviors, right?
Cecil Bullard: And those are probably legitimate, meaning there's something behind all that that is, has brought that all forward.
Cecil Bullard: And, but the first thing that really needs to happen.
Is they both need to sit down in a calm situation and say, we need help and find help.
Lucas Underwood: Absolutely right, because we have to realize that we're on the same team.
Cecil Bullard: Yeah. We're all, you know, we, my wife and I that years ago, my wife does so many things that piss me off, and I, I've said it more than once on a, on a, on a podcast and it's, it's, it's harmful for her to hear that.
So don't listen to this part, honey. But, you know, she's, she, she doesn't live her life exactly the way I want, and she's not, she doesn't do this the way I want. She doesn't fold my laundry the way I want. You know, those kind of things. Right. And, and, and so if I look at all the things that she does wrong, I can't be married.
Cecil Bullard: And, and I don't know, 20 years ago I was just this negative guy who just was unhappy all the time. I said I have to change my perspective 'cause the world's not gonna change. My wife, we've been married 43 years, she's not changing tomorrow. She's not gonna wake up tomorrow and go, I'm gonna do all this differently.
Lucas Underwood: You're too hardheaded. Okay, listen. Oh yeah. My wife, she had me trained from the word go. She was right. Okay.
Lucas Underwood: Yeah. She's not wrong ever. It's me. Okay. I just, I have gotten to the point that I accept it. I know it, I acknowledge it, and I just do exactly what she says. And, and believe it or not, my life gets better when I do.
Cecil Bullard: You're a smarter guy than I am.
Lucas Underwood: She's gonna kill me when I get
Cecil Bullard: but kind. This my, because she's like, bullshit. Um, but, but what I had to do was I had to make a conscious choice to not look at. The stuff that doesn't fit, but really mostly to look at the stuff that fits and that works well. And, and you know, I, it is, I, I love talking to my wife at the end of the day and going, here's where the business is at and here's what I'm thinking.
Yeah. And here's why I'm doing this. Me, and I mean, me too. There's anybody else I'd rather have that conversation with. And I've got, I've got Wayne and Michael and Kent and I do have lots of those conversations with them. Shouldn't
Lucas Underwood: hit the same.
Cecil Bullard: I like having the conversation with my wife.
Lucas Underwood: There's something different about, here's where we're going together.
Lucas Underwood: right. Yeah. There's something different about your closest companion and having a conversation with them saying, I'm so excited to do this with you. So my wife hates talking about the business. Yeah. I swear she does. But that of all the things and, and I've had to be very guarded about this, but of all the things that provide me relief.
Being able to share how I feel about the business to her. Yeah. 'cause here's, here's the big thing, right? And, and this was a big thing about counseling for me, Cecil, is even you being as close as we are, there's things that I don't feel comfortable coming and telling you about the business. Now I do, I forced myself through it, but it's not comfortable.
Lucas Underwood: When I went to counseling, I learned what it feels like to truly be vulnerable and say how I feel about something and not worry about being judged. And so I can talk to my wife. Let that out, and that's a big deal for me
Cecil Bullard: and understand from. Our, from our relationship. Um, I'm a coach and, and I'm a coach, and I'm a coach, and I'm a teacher, and it, it's just ingrained in me.
So, and, and because of whatever happened to me in my life and all the experience I've had, I, I, I have a gift or. Whatever to see things that some other people don't all often see and
Cecil Bullard: And so when I come to you and I say, Hey Lucas, I need to know this. Or Hey Lucas, I think we need to do this. It's never, we're on the same team.
Yeah. It's always, we're always on the same team. It's never, how do I, how do I get extra money from Lucas or you know, how do I get influence or whatever. It's none of that. It's always. I want you to be successful as much as possible. And I believe to the core of my being, that 99% of what I'm telling you is right and that I might be insane.
I might be on that mental side, right? That, that
Lucas Underwood: Well, good news. I trust you. And so I might be mental too, but like, hey, we'll be, we'll be on the same bus together, so it's okay. Uh,
Cecil Bullard: well, yeah, we, we, we, we have to take accountability for ourselves. We have to look and see are, am I harming? The people around me and, and myself.
Cecil Bullard: And then we have to be very careful about how we talk to people again, especially if we're on the same team, right? I mean, there are people that I just don't like, and so we're not even gonna talk. I'm not wasting my time with that person. Right? Yeah. And, and I'm not wasting my energy, but the people in my life that I care about, I'm gonna give them everything that I can give them.
Yeah. And, uh, hope that I'm right most of the time and, and, you know, we'll ride this thing out together. I'm always there for 'em.
Lucas Underwood: Amen, buddy. Well, thank you for being here, Cecil. I know we gotta end it a few minutes early. I gotta make it to an accountant's office. Yes sir. You've got stuff you gotta do. I hear that Michael and everybody else has this huge stack of paperwork for you to sign.
Cecil Bullard: They got all kinds of stuff for me.
Lucas Underwood: Something about financing 42 brand new vehicles is all I heard. Yeah. I don't know what it's, I'm just gonna
Cecil Bullard: 40,000 a. No, it's just paperwork.
Lucas Underwood: That's it. It's just paperwork. It's fine.
Lucas Underwood: it's fine. Hey, did they get that auto sign thing set up for you?
Cecil Bullard: Yeah, it's all done.
It's, it's literally, it's buddy, I signed a, I dunno, 47 documents in like 10 minutes. Uh,
Lucas Underwood: that's it. I love it. I love it. Don't know
Cecil Bullard: if they, I read. It's
Lucas Underwood: Guys, guys, thank you so much for being here. Go ahead, Cecil. I'm sorry.
Cecil Bullard: I, I called Wayne and I was like, Hey Wayne, I'm looking at this stock stuff and, and, uh, it looks to me like this.
But on this other side, it looks like this. And he's like, oh, it's fine. No problem. And I'm like, okay. That's,
Lucas Underwood: don't worry,
Cecil Bullard: don't worry. Yeah. Okay, don't
Cecil Bullard: There we go. And I told him that, that, that proves how much I trust you. Yeah, I mean these are, and, and you need to foster relationships in your life that you can have people in your life that you know they're on your side and you know they're working with you towards things.
Cecil Bullard: Wrap her up there buddy.
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Cecil Bullard: Thank you brother.