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Childhood Trauma Splitting is a psychological mechanism that allows someone to tolerate difficult and overwhelming feelings. It is often seen in Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) who suffer from Complex PTSD or childhood trauma. Having Trauma Splitting, or Structural Dissociation, means we are split into different parts, each with a different personality, feelings, and behaviour. As a result, we feel completely different from moment to moment. Since Highly sensitive people(HSP) respond to Complex Trauma more intensely, trauma splitting may create a split in your psyche, causing a myriad of confusing symptoms. Dissociation and Childhood Trauma Splitting may also be why therapy doesn’t seem to work for you. 

- Complex Trauma and Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs)
- Childhood Trauma Splitting and the Highly Sensitive Persons
- The Traumatised Part and the Apparently Normal Part in the Split
- Childhood Trauma Splitting Creates a Phobia You Carry
- Complex Trauma (C-PTSD) and Childhood Trauma Splitting Symptoms
- How to Cope with Complex Trauma as a Highly Sensitive Person
- Why Therapy Doesn’t Work When You Have Complex Trauma
- The Power Of Our Memories
- Complex Trauma is a Dissociated and Invisible Trauma
- Frozen Memories Might Be Why Therapy Doesn’t Work For You
- Why Do You Regret What You Say Or Do?
- Why Therapy Doesn’t Work For You
- Healing from Childhood Complex Trauma by Summoning Your Wise Part


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 https://eggshelltherapy.com/podcast-blog/2023/09/17/infj-infp-lauren/

Lauren is a writer, writing coach, and teacher. She specializes in assisting intuitive writers, particularly those with INFJ and INFP personality types.

In today's interview, we explore:
- The idea of intuitive writing.
- The challenges intuitive feeling personalities face in marketing and how to overcome them so we don't hold ourselves back.
- Lauren's guidance in dealing with guilt and fear when going after our own desires and values, as opposed to society and our family's expectations.

Lauren's core message centers on taking gradual steps toward self-expression and personal fulfillment, all while staying aligned with long-term goals and values.

Whether you or someone you care about is the intuitive-feeling type, I hope you will get a lot from this.

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Lauren is an author, a teacher, a speaker, and an intuitive writing coach. She also wrote the book The INFJ Writer, a writing guide for intuitive introverts, HSPs, empaths, and all other sensitive, struggling artists.

Lauren’s site: https://laurensapala.com/home/


Youtube version of this episode: https://youtu.be/ZaBsJFTktUI

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Original Essay on Eggshell Therapy and Coaching: https://eggshelltherapy.com/sensitivity-and-childhood-trauma/

Table of Contents

• The wound of being ‘too intense’
• Complex Trauma, the Invisible Trauma (Complex PTSD)
• Complex Trauma and the Highly Sensitive, Intense and Gifted
• Toxic Family Dynamics and the Intense, Highly Sensitive, and Gifted
  • Toxic Family Dynamic 1: Scapegoating
  • Toxic Family Dynamic 2: Parentification
  • Toxic Family Dynamic 3: Having Emotionally Unavailable Parents
  • Toxic Family Dynamic 4: Enmeshment
  • Toxic Family Dynamic 5: Competition and Oppression
• 7 Signs that you have Complex Trauma form Toxic Family Dynamics
  • 1. You Become Dissociated and Feel Dead Inside
  • 2. You May Feel Defective
  • 3. You May Become Highly Anxious

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THE ORIGINAL FULL ESSAY: https://eggshelltherapy.com/mother-with-bpd/
More on Eggshell therapy and Coaching website: eggshelltherapy.com
 
TABLE OF CONTENT:
- Why the Focus on ‘Mothers With BPD’? 
- The Pendulum of a Mother With BPD: Swinging Between Love and Cruelty
- Aftermath of the Tempest: Having Grown Up With a Mother With BPD 
Codependency and identity confusion
Insecure attachment
The shame of being “too much.” 
Pseudo-dependency
Difficulties with boundaries
Fear of becoming like her

- Charting Your Path Forward After Having Grown Up With a Mother With BPD

- The Big Question: Do You Cut Contact With a Mother With BPD?
 
- If You Choose to Stay in Touch with a Mother with BPD
Physical vs. Energetic Boundaries
Keep reminding yourself that  “It will blow over.”
When they flip: Empathy Vs. Confrontation with a mother with BPD
Letting go of the need to fix your mother with BPD
Reconcile with the fact that life is not fair
Reclaiming your right to anger 

-Rising Above the Chaos of Having a Mother with BPD


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Dr. Nicole A. Tetreault is a psychologist and researcher specializing in the field of neurodiversity. She has conducted extensive research on topics such as giftedness, neurodiversity, and the brain differences associated with these conditions. She is also the author of "Insights into a Bright Mind," a book that delves into the intersection of neurodivergent traits, giftedness, and sensory sensitivities.

During the interview, we discussed the concept of neurodiversity and explored various ways of processing and experiencing the world. Nicole shared that she personally identified as dyslexic later in life,We also touched upon my own personal experiences with sensitivities and health conditions. Additionally, we briefly discussed the term "emotional giftedness," which refers to heightened emotional experiences often observed in gifted individuals.

Our conversation also veered into a casual discussion, including the impact of AI on the world.

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Nicole Tetreault, Ph.D., is a compassionate neuroscientist, author, meditation teacher, and international speaker on topics of neurodiversity, neurodevelopment, creativity, mental health, and wellness. Her book, Insight into a Bright Mind, explores groundbreaking research examining the experiences of unique, creative, and intense brains through interviews, storytelling, and literary science, while advocating for new directions of human diversity and neurodiversity.

Reference mentioned: the scientific article Hyper-brain Hyper-body that Nicole co-authored: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0160289616303324

Nicole’s website: www.nicoletetreault.com

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Original Article: https://imilo.medium.com/you-are-not-your-parent-98895d471f8b

 
In this piece, we delve into the societal pressures that often prevent us from acknowledging the darker aspects of family dynamics. The expectation to present a picture-perfect facade of happy families can lead to the suppression of painful truths. 

The taboo surrounding parental toxicity is brought to light as we challenge the notion that all parents are inherently loving and selfless. We ought to shed light on the manipulative and narcissistic behaviors some parents exhibit, even when they have good intentions. 

You are not defined by your past or trauma. With resilience and self-love, you can emerge stronger, create new legacies, and become the person you are meant to be.

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FULL ARTICLE: https://eggshelltherapy.com/haters-gonna-hate/

Table of Contents
 
Saying ‘Haters Gonna Hate’ by understanding the true face of hate
Not Saying ‘Haters Gonna Hate’- Are You Hiding?
Why you need to learn to say ‘Haters Gonna Hate’
One person’s medicine is another person’s poison
A note on passive-aggressive hate
Love, service, honor: Embodying ‘Haters Gonna Hate’ as a creative

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